I guess you have to be gentle at times with people -I think I struggle with that quality. I have a constant beef with humanity… Where I live they keep you on your toes. They have a survivors (you or me) mentality here. Lot of hurt women who gave a beef with men. Makes it hard for me to let down my guard. I guess it’s a bad combination for me with my early childhood experiences-being judged alot, and abused mostly by women. Being stereotyped as able really hurts.