Why do so many more Caucasian women not have children at an early age like hispanics? Why are so many Jewish youth so much more career-oriented than American youth? Why are so many of them doctors, lawyers, dentists, judges…? I mean what is it?

Sidenote: You trudge through the difficult times with people around you, children… and if we keep a more-orless level head. and then 10, 15, 30 years later -they realize how good you were to them. And sometimes they never do -how hard is that.

I was raised by my family to believe that IF ONLY I you would just behave -all would be well; we’d all get along just fine! After many years sober, many counseling sessions is that:

•These people were using me as a scapegoat;

•And if I wanted to fit in I didn’t need to get healthier, I needed to conform.

•A relationship is only as healthy as the sickest person in it.

If you don’t see anything wrong with them -in their mind 🤔 is WHY CHANGE?