Sometimes a desperation move is the right move even when seemingly uncalled for. 🤷♂️🤷🏻♀️ Unfortunately, most men only make that move under desperate circumstances.
Monthly Archives: September 2021
I GOT MY MIND SET ON 😌 YOU
I guess you could say I got a lot on my mind!-)
Addendum: Last weekend or thereabouts, I commented on a movie. I commented on how the credits give away the villain. Well previously I commented on the movie “The Pledge” with Jack Nicholson where the credits give away who the villain is because you account for everybody else in the film from the credits except for one -so that has to be the killer right -WRONG!!!! But since I can’t find the post where I wrote the sin I am correcting myself here.
THE PLIGHT OF THE IMMATURE ALCOHOLIC
Alcoholism is a serious disease -if you don’t take it seriously you will fail. One issue many alcoholics have is maturity – It can be very difficult to summon sufficient amounts of seriousness when one is immature. It can be an issue for we humans in general -facing life. But it is an excellent way of thinnng the competition. People who grow up in dysfunctional homes or one parent homes are notoriously disadvantaged. Immaturity is 1 of those disadvantages that tends to come to the forefront.
Is a 2 carat diamond with the same number, and size inclusions rated the same as a 1 carat diamond?
Is a printer which prints 🖨… “Big Picture”
SADLY
Sadly, two things you can almost always count above anything else (with we Americans anyways):
1. People coming to collect on a debt;*
2. When you insult or offend someone, most assuredly they will not keep their mouth shut or do nothing.*
IT’S JUST A PITY THAT IN THE MORE POSITIVE ATTRIBUTES, PEOPLE ARE NOT SO PREDICTABLE.
•For example, if only people were as motivated to pay back money as they are at collecting it. If only people were as keen in apologizing as they are in hurling insults after having received one…
Sidenote: In most instances; if you hurt someone, and they hurt you back -people tend to view that as being even. UTTER NONSENSE – If you hurt somebody and they hurt you back you still owe them in amends! Whether they make one or not does not excuse you. Whether they make one or not is something they have to live with. Whether they make one or not is irrelevant in so far as the amends you owe. Yes, that’s right -it’s doubly humiliating, or humbling rather, to have to make an amends to somebody we hurt after they hurt us in return isn’t it?
UPSIDE-DOWN PYRAMID
Imagine being surrounded by a bunch of people who aren’t quite right -Not so much in their head but in their ♥ and in their spirit. Man places value first and foremost on his physical well being, his emotional second (seek pleasure avoid pain), his mental third, and his spiritual fourth (do the right thing irregardless) .
How come somebody else always decides how much something is worth? How come somebody else always decides if something goes up in value or not?
TO THE INSANE…
The more saying you become, the more insanity you recognize. For example, I’m realizing more and more how insane it is for it is for people to charge of their fellow man, their compatriot, for services which are vital to their own quality of life! Throw in children, since so many of us presumably place a higher value on their lives in this country (if this is true 🤔 why are so many suffering -talk is cheap) -and people either exploiting, or preventing the innocent from receiving necessary care only look that much more heinous. It’s unacceptable for a man to rob a bank but it’s acceptable for a man to rob people -as long as the law says it’s OK! It’s OK to charge prices people cannot afford -thus ensuring millions will have to do without certain needs -so that a few thousand can live lavish lifestyles? In communist country’s people serve the needs of the state, and thus -the people themselves. In this country you have the freedom to do so -or not. More and more people are apparently choosing not to. Freedom isn’t a bad thing, when people use it to follow certain parameters that make things work for all. When people use freedom to follow certain parameters that make things work for only a few, the wheel of freedom has become broken. Freedom or no freedom, we can ill-afford to set aside our own humanity!
“WOMEN -CAN’T LIVE WITH’EM…” 🤷♂️ THAT USED TO BE FUNNY (From an old movie).
Every form of government has its own upside and downside. Why can’t we take the best of them all and eliminate the worst of them all?
To the insane, sanity looks insane.
Dysfunction -either too much or too little, or at the wrong time. To me, the very definition simply boils down to getting it wrong.
The more advanced the cancer-the more intense the treatment calm of the longer the duration. The duration. And so it is without alcoholism!
Sidenote: If you can’t see the facts you can’t see the facts. If you can’t see the angles coming you can’t see the angles. For example when you make a move in the financial world…. You gotta know all the angles. Present, future, past? You wanna know the future -look at the past.
Some people are too strong for their own good! They’ll continue to push forward, they’ll continue to rresist… until they’re ground down to nothing. Worst of all, God cannot work with people such as these ordinarily
PEACE BE WITH YOU
Jesus would always say “Peace to You”, “Peace to this House”. I believe one of the most important reasons for this is that man’s usually at his most vulnerable when he is restless, irritable, discontent.
Sidenote: With regard to Alcoholics, situationally-we are apt to drink essentially under all conditions “mad, sad, or glad”. Therefore, relying upon certain conditions is OUT OF THE QUESTION! 🤷♂️ WE MUST FIND A POWER GREATER THAN OURSELVES WHICH WORKS UNDER ALL CONDITIONS -AND NOT JUST SOME.
Unless I am willing to meet that threshold required for success regarding any particular endeavor -you will repeatedly fail! ALCOHOLISM -it’s different for everyone (what is required to succeed -we each have different things working against us in varying degrees)! The consequences of relapse are also different for everyone!
We don’t have to figure out the program -somebody else already did that for us!
“They lost the AA-MAGIC Richard!”
310 meetings in 90 days -walking
Alcoholism is a serious illness -if it’s treatment is approached with any less vigor…
I DO NOT UNDERSTAND Alcoholics who can chip at this-or-that and not turn to Alcohol! 🤷♂️
Alcohol didn’t beat me up enough -I needed drugs to finish the job -i knew nothing about withdrawal while drinking.
The good news is 🤔 I’m in charge of my own recovery -the bad news is…
“RECOVERY IS AN ACT OF SELF-LOVE’.