So often when things don’t go our way, we neglect to look at the things that are. God being the omnipresent, omnipotent Master overall that is, was, ever will be, benign in all things, ensures that THERE IS ALWAYS MORE GOOD THAN BAD SURROUNDING US IF ONLY WE WOULD ONLY OPEN OUR 💕 TO THEM!

ADDEND: And if we require people to get sick in order for us to make a living as well….. 🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏿‍♂️

Some men will ask a woman not caring how they feel or what their response is going to be. My problem is I do not have very good since when it comes to asking out asking out a woman and and having any idea whether she’s gonna say yes or no. A lot of women feel harassed by men in this sense. If I knew a woman was gonna say no I would never ask in the 1st place. But not all men or take this position.

Oh, one more thing, for you women who are disgusted with certain men’s approaches. If a certain percentage of women would not respond to these approaches in a positive way, they would probably die out. Think about it.

Women aren’t that different from men, I don’t even think they’re necessarily more selective or picky, they just feel they can afford to be more selective or picky.* YOU THINK THEIR NEEDS ARE UNEQUAL TO OURS?

*Sometimes it’s a good idea to be selective or picky and sometimes it is not. It’s all a matter of following God’s path in the end. If you’re being picky and it takes you off the path it’s not a good thing. If you’re being picky and it takes you on the path it’s a good thing. What’s the good path? Love, acceptance, embracing our own kind. Using a different set of eyes (a new pair of glasses -Chuck C.) to view others with -thinking of their welfare first rather than our own. That’s how one resuscitates a floundering 🌎 such as ours!

We can have all the fancy slogans, come-ons’, whitty advertising… in the 🌎!!!!!!!!! We can have all the “We care for you’s”… “We’re gonna make your life better’s”… But as long as this world, this society of ours continues to move further and further in the direction, towards the attitude that to love a person you don’t know, to love a person you don’t even like is ludicrous (my auto spell pulls up a wrapper “Ludacris”) instead of the true meaning (“ludicrous”), spelling – that’s how infiltrated all the nonsenses in this country have become,) THIS COUNTRY WILL CONTINUE ITS’ DECLINE! Those of you who are proponents of this world and its ways, go ahead and disagree, HISTORY REPEATING ITSELF 2000 YEARS LATER. Do you think our children are better off than they were before? Skyrocketing suicide and drug and alcohol use. Abortion rates because of irresponsibility. XX% of people don’t even get married anymore because they’re convinced it’s gonna end in divorce. The convince that marriage only creates a feeling of being boxed-in, and the urge to only want to untie the knot.

The United States used to be the leader in values, Christianity… Now, Now it is the leader in leading people away from them, from it! United States seems to be a proponent of the idea the idea that God and religion are something we decide on for ourselves as individuals. Well that’s one way to bring about unity!! Have a bunch of different ideas about God and religion and values!! And don’t even get me started on the materialism taking place in this sad country of ours. That’s right I said sad!There’s a group of people running around in this country today who think that the people oh who had this country up and running a 100 years ago are out of date or full of shit.

A lot of people cannot fathom caring, while making decisions that needle on that deep emotional caring. This is precisely the predicament God is in EVERY SINGLE MOMENT!

It’s only far fetched if it doesn’t happen!

Yeah, I also remember what it was like to be young. That was very stupid back then.Is it right for us to stand by and allow other people to make the same stupid mistakes calm hurting themselves and others?

In the presence of perfection, anything or anyone thathas a problem with it, must itself be the problem! God vs man for example.

How often do we perform, create something with the benefit of others in mind? Noooooo, not nearly often enough!

I had mentioned in the previous post that we human beings consciously or subconsciously consciously, set terms with regard to the things we endeavor, the people we encounter. I suppose it could be said the God set terms as well. His terms however, are with our welfare in mind, and to draw us in -and not keep us out. Humans are starkly different in this regard. DO NOT THROW AWAY A RELATIONSHIP WHERE SOMEONE IS GOOD TO YOU, JUST BECAUSE THEY HAPPEN TO BE DIFFERENT FROM YOU.

•Enjoy the good;

•Grow through the differences.

Things we do and do not do -impact our relationships.*

There are 3 aspects to a relationship:

1. The good people do for us;

2. The bad people do to us;

3. The differences between us.

I destroyed many relationships not because people were bad to me, but because they were different in they’re thinking from mine.

While I was out on my walk today, there’s a certain field out at the University, and every time I come across that I think of my grandmother for some reason. Today, with a tear in my eye I thought about the time some 45 years ago when I was out riding my skateboard and ran across my grandmother coming out of the Von’s supermarket. Many days after work, she would stop by there to pick up our groceries for that evening come and carry them in a brown paper sack a mile back to the house -no easy task mind you. On one occasion I ran into her coming out of the store, do you think I offered to help carry that bag? 😢 By reliving this memory in my mind, and doing things differently, there’s a freedom gained, and perhaps something lost in that process.* These are the sort of things 57 year old man thinks about whose life is riddled with mistakes -reflects upon.

Practice til you get it wrong -like placing a carpet in the hallway, walking over it a thousand times without tripping over it and then that fateful day comes when you finally succeed in tripping -or fail in succeeding to step over it!

*This came to me a few minutes ago just before I wrote the last 2 or 3 entries above. I couldn’t remember where went until I started writing the final entry above. I had asked God just moments before to help me to remember what it was about.. And as I began to write yeah right the final paragraph above, God answered my prayer and I was able to place it in its proper place. Thank you once again Lord 🙏🏻

When a culture largely has contempt for its own… Is it because of the individual or because of the people surrounding the individual that breeds contempt? I notice in our culture here where I live a lot of the people don’t like unlike their own kind. Assuming it’s the people surrounding the individual and their behavior, if we carry that over to a different culture, with the individual then feel the same way about the people in their culture surrounding them?

A person with an enormous capacity for love coupled with absence of the object of their love -only propels that love to a level some of us can only imagine.

As your sense of being victimized begins to slip away calm there’s a freedom that takes its place. I no longer see my early life is so horrible as I horrible as I once did. Maybe it’s healing. Maybe it’s perspective. Maybe it’s truth. Reality!

When we as on lookers are watching 2 people, but say a scene in the movie fury for example, where Brad Pitt calls the cousin to stand before him and asks her her name. Most of us are thinking sex right? Someone certainly is. She’s thinking he want sex. He may or may not be thinking about sex. Many of us viewers are certainly thinking that sex is on someone’s mind. Sex, sex, sex. Any women think in terms of men just from the opposite end of it. Many men want sex, many women are thinking he wants sex. 🤷‍♂️

In a world designed, built, maintained by man free of God…. Man has little choice that’s a little choice but to take take responsibility if that structure is to remain intact. Now the principles he uses to maintain contain…If the design is already flawed then the decision making will have to be less than perfect. That’s the difference between man’s design and God’s design.

According to F. Lee Bailey’s Request that his client be found not guilty by insanity based upon the fact that he was willing to confess to such heinous crimes? Does that mean that a person trying to escape Justice is perfectly saying because that’s the natural, normal thing to do?

You only hurt yourself by looking at things in such ways. Not to mention the untruths founded in them.

We’re all products, victims of our past experiences both good and bad; I would like to see my bad vanquished [though the word came to mind I had to verify it’s meaning. Happens alot, these words come to me though I’m unsure it is the appropriate one. Often times, strangely enough it is].

Is it so hard to comprehend that God has deemed that no matter how horrible the crimes against our Him, our fellow man, regardless of the span of these crimes, that in a moment of sincere 😢 repentance, all is forgiven?

If a copycat killer trying to claim credit can go in and give the wrong information and be deemed innocent, why can’t a real killer try try to avoid avoid being named a suspect by giving wrongful details about the crime as well?

Sometimes the buyer controls the market, sometimes the seller.

People are coming up with all kinds of services and products to:

1. Make money

2. Stay busy

3. People have to make a living so how else are they going to do so as the population expands

4. Rake in more than their fair-share

5. Continue to evolve and see what the universe has to offer

What is the reason for all of the creation of these jobs and for these products? To keep people busy? To make them accountable for their own support? To give people who are more able, an opportunity to exploit the system? I mean is this really what it’s all about?

Sidenote: Anytime we buy something from another human being, if we’re lucky we pay for what it’s worth, and then we pay those people so they can survive or so they can thrive on top of it.

How is it that so many serial killers also have a knack for evasion?

If you don’t believe in the devil then you can’t very well buy into someone’s story about the devil manipulating them now can you – And that’s too bad because there really is one. So how can we seek out Justice with a big part of the puzzle being dismissed as a fairy tale?

Some people might call it intelligence – I would be remiss if I did not state that something had been gnawing away at me most of my life, and that some sort of desperation or quest regarding the missing pieces of the puzzle of my life lead to many of the pearls hereintofore.

When it comes to dealing with other people, and probably other things in life, whether we know it consciously or subconsciously, we we tend to have terms. If a person or a thing doesn’t meet those terms we don’t play ball with them in many cases.

I don’t think Jesus had any terms in so far as his relationship with those around him while down here on the Earth.

You know, there were a whole lot more people smoking marijuana in my company then woke up busted on that piss test.

If anybody had half a brain and some imagination, they would have saved some DNA evidence it’s for future technological advances to be tested. Like the Boston strangler case