You never want to criticise or discouraged who someone is! I did this with Ana -you know Ana NEVER criticized me the whole time we we’re together. 😔 [Now I could look at that last part two ways! 🤔]
If WE can succeed going against God and nature -WHAT CAN WE ACCOMPLISH WORKING WITH THEM?
I’ve heard it said in AA “I earned my seat” “I paid for this chair out there”. However, I believe that in order to keep our chair we must change, or grow as Bill W. so aptly puts it.
It’s not where we’re at, its where we go from here that keeps us sober. Think about it 🤔 How sick are we when we arrive here. God gives us a period of Grace, some longer than other. But should we remain determined to remain what we were when we arrived at the doors of AA… 🤷♂️🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♂️🤷🏻♀️
It doesn’t require any character to “tip-the-bottle”. Character-building Bill W. talks about!
it may be better to remain single then risk hurting your partner if from a historical perspective you have been inclined to do so. MY FAMILY, some of them seem to have this inclination -father, grandfather…m