People often show pride, arrogance in ways not normally thought of.
Next time that voice inside tells you “NOT TO” apologize, tell that voice where it can go and apologize. It doesn’t matter what they did to you, or who did it first -ALL YHAT MATTERS IS WHAT YOU DID first, last… 🤷🏻♀️🤷♂️🤞
People can act in contrast to what, who they are -at times.
Resistance to change often stems from fear and ego.
You just never know why people do what they do.