We human-beings flawed, limited, selfish… what is it in most cases that causes us to fall in love with another human being, or not? Shapes, colors, smells, tastes, movements, impacts on the environment, place aming things and people in the world, the caverns and and lines that break up the monotony me of our appearance…

Look at what one man has and another doesn’t, look at what one man has and what another man has, and when someone falls in love with one over the other -it will help to distinguish what bait on the hook the fish is biting on. But not all humans operate like this. The older we get and through the failings of this flawed approach, the more we tend to move away from it; look for something more substantial.

When you recognize a person to be in a position that is that is not good for them come beneath them but beneath them, it is either Ignorance, unworthiness, lack of confidence Lenelle. She put up with my love for Ana for almost 9 years. It makes you wonder if she could not be satisfied with anything more than that. Because once things started to shift away from Ana and towards her, clearly she was not comfortable with it. Didn’t know what to do with it. The moral of the story is when somebody puts up with something long term that obviously they shouldn’t, there’s generally a good reason for it – To alter that scenario, for example to the contrary, will probably result in certain adverse effects on the individual. If we’re comfortable with [-]X we’re probably not gonna be comfortable with [+]X.

They say the best gift is a gift that one can use -Hence, I gift these gifts to you.