Even people who deal in excess, hoard, is hoard, have a basic need underlying their voraciousness! In other words, they like everyone else have a drive as well as a need as we all do to act to survive -in spite of their excessive… in spite of how we feel about them or what we think of them! Think about it 🤔 A constant, and a variable in their case!
When you get it straight in your head what you need to do to get along with others; what people require of you to please them; what you should avoid doing to displease them; what you need to do to please God; what you shouldn’t do to displease God, And make that your priority above all; find that common ground with regard to everything above, that gray area, that overlap; keeping in mind God as the priority -YOU’VE UNDERSTOOD BASICALLY ALL THERE IS TO UNDERSTAND, ALL THAT IS MOST IMPORTANT ABOUT LIFE HERE ON EARTH!
Take a dog to another dog’s house comet to another dog’s turf and see how that dog acts. Then reverse the roles, and see how the dog visiting now acts on its own turf.