Not everyone is a bad person calm and nor bad intentioned – They do however have low standards, or limited hopes!

Most people who are of the mind and character, who genuinely want to make a relationship worked generally succeed. I’m learning to recognize more and more my mixed feelings on this matter. Confused feelings on this matter regarding the safety and rational rationale of a relationship with another human. Some of us are given messages early on in life that it’s safe to seek, and have relationships with others. Others to the contrary. And of course this all gets confused with the experiences we encounter withunter when we do choose to pursue either reluctantly or vigorously, a relationship with another human being. My personal experience is that many of the people I encountered in my early life if are not much different from the people I have encountered later in life. Perhaps this is true for you as well. However, the message I received was that it wasn’t safe to have relationships with people. And yet, all of my life I’ve had this burning desire to be a part of something more than myself.

On the topic of divorce come maybe we should choose more wisely. 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷‍♂️🤷🏿‍♀️ Maybe we should also evaluate more closely our attitudes and beliefs regarding long term commitment. Maybe we should more closely evaluate our mental and emotional states going into such a commitment. If you’re looking for a long term commitment, stop choosing people losing people who have neither the desire or the ability to have one.*

*It’s amazing to me how so many people don’t know what they feel or how they feel