Kindness, consideration, attitude, responsibility, normalcy, chemistry, loyalty… all the makings of a stable relationship, that is with someone like-minded!

There should be no power over the people going after those above them, to include the system itself, discouraging goodiscouraging good people from rectifying certain injustices! Otherwise the framework itself, the framework in which the system itself too is accountable -no longer has validity. And yet, there it sits. Here we are… Day after day. Is millennium after millennium. WHY IS THAT? BECAUSE, THE PEOPLE WHO MAKE THE RULES [WHY THEM NOT US?] HAVE NO INTENTION OF ALLOWING A SYSTEM WHICH INCLUDES THEM AS ACCOUNTABLE FOR WRONG-DOING. How hypocritical is that? The lower you go down the ladder, the more accountability there is, whereas the higher up the ladder you go, the lesser accountability there is. Funny, it seems the higher the responsibility the lower the accountability. Whereas the lower the responsibility calm of the higher the accountability. Makes perfect sense in an irresponsible, unaccountable sort of way [insane].

You know what a big part of the problem is with humanity, Some of us aren’t interested whatsoever in maintaining a high reputation of humanity itself. So long as their reputation personally is not involved, so long as there actions and attitudes are concealed, so long as they personally enjoy a reputation regardless of its falsity, which allows them to continue to enjoy certain perks… It doesn’t matter to you what people think of humanity? And more importantly, what God thinks? 😔 EVERY SINGLE ONE OF US IS A REPRESENTATIVE OF HUMANITY!!!!!

Is it me, or our commercials becoming more juvenile*?

The higher the stakes; the more the rules get bent. People don’t want to lose; and when they can do something about it… Many people at the bottom lose, not because they’re good natured, good sports, but because they feel powerless over the eventuality. People at the top often feel they are not -provided they are willing to cross certain lines. And that’s the way humanity largely works. Even good people, if the stakes are high enough, will cross that line. The higher the stakes come the more good people will cross over unfortunately. The closer to home the stakes… Seems rather bleak from this perspective what do you say? Fortunately, there is a pot O’ gold at the end of that rather greyscaled rainbow.

More thoughts from the movie “Hidden Agenda” with Brian Cox and Frances McDormand. When you’re caught up in a shit storm involving highly intelligent, highly resourceful individuals, often times in order to bring them to their knees you have to be willing to put your own head in the chopping block. And even then, there is no guarantee so long as:

1)They have something significant to bargain with, manipulate, coerce…

2)Whoever is above, or equal to them is willing, has no choice but to “play -ball”. And that’s the 🌎 we live in!*** 🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

*Juvenile – of, pertaining to, characteristic of, or suitable or intended for young persons: juvenile books. young; youthful: juvenile years. immature; childish; infantile: His juvenile tantrums are not in keeping with his age.**

**However, I was thinking more in terms of physical; materialistic; increasingly void of higher principles; values; morals!

*** So when you run across a human being who is unbending in their principles under any and all conditions, any and all circumstances, let it suffice to say you are observing a true wonder, perhaps, if I may 🤔 a freak of [human] nature!

People, for whatever reason, oftentimes do not do what they’re supposed to do even when you yourself are doing your part [which too is unlikely 100 percent of the time]. So how do you think you’re typical individual behaves when faced with a situation where the person across from them is not consistently measuring up to expectations? They start to slack off themselves. It’s the nature of human beings. Fairness, selfishness and all that crap!

Where do your efforts,; where does the impact you have on your relationship rank currently? Some people are miles ahead of the curve in terms of their relationship being chip being stable, solidified. The litified. Most of us however rank, as you might expect “average or typical” meaning, there’s some work to be done. The narrower the margin between opposite ends of the bellcurve – The narrower the gap between sub par, typical, and exemplary – Meaning everyone within that curve is what, closer to sub-par, closer to typical, closer to exemplary? I would like to see a bell curve where the majority are closer to exemplary.

In therapy they teach a person not to buy into their partners dysfunction common neurosis, drama. Even to get out of the relationship if it’s unhealthy and unmanageable, irreconcilable. And yet, our country, the powers that be, are not only fully engaged [knee-deep lol 😆] with the dysfunctional, the neurotic, the dramatic, and I’ll throw in “psychotic”, as opposed to “not getting wrapped up in it’all”, we ourselves, in certain instances*, are to purveyors, the instigators 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷‍♂️

*Seldom is any one person, entity… always at fault.

All my life, I’ve neither enjoyed reading, nor writing -GO FIGURE! HENCE, THE BACKLOG ON HERE DUE TO NOT RE-CHECKING THESE POSTS FOR ERRORS. 🤷‍♂️ I will attempt to rectify this but, in my state, the writing itself is taxing!

Autists, there has got to be an extraordinary reason for the variation in extraordinary abilities among them! The thought of coordinating them across a flat or spherical plane occurred to me late last night.

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Now connect the dots vertically, not just horizontally as I have done with five smaller dots. The larger ones represent an Autist with a specific exceptional ability while in between, 5 [or 5000] non-autists with typical, or ranging abilities of the same or similar nature. Not sure why, but these represent coordinates.

Are you prone to picking dysfunctional individuals as partners; do you draw them to you; or is it moreso that there are so many unhealthy individuals out there these days, and so few healthy one’s?

Repentance and obedience is what God asks

First, give a problem child what they need, what has been lacking, then evaluate the remaining issues.

Our dog Daisy, all her life, has done what she needs to do, when she needs to do it; I on the other hand, have not -how many times have I needed to go to the bathroom for example, and held it for one silly reason or another. Even p’d myself, pooped myself once or twice as a result. So, when she goes potty on the carpet, and I get angry, WHO DO YOU SUPPOSE HAS THE ISSUE, her or me???

To have a relationship with someone, to be in relationships with someone, for their to be a solid relationship with someone, THEY MUST BE STRONGLY COMMITED TO YOU, ME… THIS I’M HAVING IMMENSE TROUBLE WITH!

You can only accomplish so much by doing or being the opposite of… The opposite, for example, of a country whose policy you disagree with, a person whose beliefs or values you disagree with.*

The right type of government is probably a combination of various governments.

*The first Americans decided they were going to found a new government very much opposed to the one they just left. This approach is not without its limitations and flaws.

I have wondered in the past whether my mind functions differently from most others? If the way my mind operates is not merely the result of a drug free mind? Or, a somewhat unrestricted childhood. Or, that Jimson-seed I was given many, many years ago or the LSD? I DUNNO 🤷‍♂️

What one observes on a typical day in America whether in public, on TV, in courtrooms and boardrooms… is behaviors largely void of spiritual principles -many people lacking in maturity as well.

Is it me, or have commercials become more juvenile compared to generations past?

There’s an old saying in Alcoholics Anonymous, “I’ve got enough on my own plate to worry about”. And yet, I’ve lived most of my life worrying about everything else but… But just now it occurred to me [for the first time perhaps with any real weight] that it’s rather futile worrying, concerning myself with what the rest of the 🌎 does. NOW THEN, FOR SOMEONE TRAUMATIZED BY THE WORLD 🌎 THIS IS A HUGE STEP TOWARDS RECOVERY IMHO

It’s not a good feeling to be between “the perfect” and “the imperfect”. 🤷‍♂️

The possibilities are:

1 A good relationship

2 A bad relationship

3 Single and alone

4 Looking

5 One nighters

6 Infidelity

Something just hit me from a very very long time ago while watching the movie “Hidden Agenda”. Great movie by the way. Man does something stupid and then hes gotta do something else stupid to cover it up. Because if he doesn’t, he ends up paying the price personally wait as opposed to everyone else paying for it -and that is unacceptable to him all too often. Accountability, is always the price we pay for doing things the right way -but in an increasingly valueless, spineless era, nobody wants to be accountable!

Two wrongs may not make a right; but one wrong generally leads to another 🤷‍♂️

Yada! Yada! Yada! The truth blows everything up. Including [aspects of] the infrastructure itself, including the innocent; which is why we can’t always allow it to be exposed – The bad guys of course just happen to catch a break, in the process of saving the system and protecting the innocent right? RIGHT!!!! GIMME A BREAK. What is a system worth, what is a human life worth, WHEN THE TRUTH NO LONGER MATTERS?

Our eyes are one of the first and primary means by which we compromise, compensate, adjust, wound our internal state.

Attraction by means of spiritual principles is one thing. Attraction through physical means is a completely different story.

It’s been said, “we are defined by what we do”. But I say we are defined more so by what we are willing to do [and unwilling to do]. Because you see, in a sense we’ve already committed the acts or refrained from them based upon our willingness and unwillingness. 2 key points to support this2 key points to support this:

1) God not only judges us based on what we do or or don’t do, but what’s in our hearts [our will, what we value].

2) If a man for example lusts over a woman walking across the room calm and he is already committed an act of sin without ever laying a hand on her.