Many of us cannot even seem to connect with [find] that certain person. We’re just flailing around, hoping [we get lucky]…. That’s what I did for decades! Until like some, I’ve just decided to stay-at-home 🤷‍♂️

So is it the right person or the right attitude and approach on our part that guarantees success in a relationship? I mean it’s our that 1 right person out there God has selected for us -or is it more about putting into practice what GOD teaches us with regard to how to treat others, how to feel about others?

Where do most people in this country go wrong in their relationships, their marriages? What usually brings a relationship to an end? What usually sustains one? Therein lies the rub! I look at Ana, and it looks like her marriage is going to last and lasmaintenance. Ana largely stays in place for family, and financial security -among other things. Her husband is stable, non-combative, is basically low maintenace. And, in spite of her disappointments, Ana probably suspects that a man like this is not easy to come by. Someone who has demonstrated a lot of tolerance through the decades, someone who appears to have no major hangups. This seems to be what relationship’s hinge upon. Is there measured relationships. Not that there isn’t any love. It’s just the so called “factors that weigh in”. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏿‍♀️

Don’t “Conspirasize” the painful circumstances you are going through. Validate the pain perhaps above all -like a wound in the process of healing -allow yourself to feel “the itch”.

Much of life seems to be “This is what I got. Now what have you got? Oh, is that all you got -well then come when you…” It sure feels like that a lot of the time. Like in order to be a part of the human race, in order to receive anything from the human race, YOU EITHER HAVE TO FIRST BE DEEMED “ACCEPTABLE”, AND BRING SOMETHING TO THE TABLE. In prison, in jail people it can be very real, in an unpolished sort of way -except for the polish, are we really much different out here? I’m in jail, or in prison you don’t get much for free, do you get much for free out here?*

*And then when you do have something to give come certain people are of the mind that they’re going to take what you got and give nothing in return. I’M TIRED OF ALL OF IT! At least in my life, this picture seems to be overwhelmingly wrong and underwhelmingly righ!

Most people do not have the strength, the heart [the essential emotions], the will to to put humanity ahead of themselves.

People create things because they feel inclined to do so. It’s a very powerful drive. With very powerful effects. To create something, to bring it into existence should be considered, handled with the utmost consideration, reasoning, diligence maturity… of which, with regard to ALL THE ABOVE, most of us are lacking in the area of one or more!

In this country, spirituality and goodness are not revered, but money and fame! So as a consequence consequence, a lot of very good hearted people who are poor feel invalued, Well a lot of not so good people in this country who are rich and famous feel valued. A lot of people in this country feel depressed who shouldn’t, and a lot of people who should, don’t. People who should feel highly valued, don’t,; People who are highly valued, shouldn’t feel quite so valued. Or maybe all peoples should be valued as such -As human beings, not as celebrity celebrities or elites, or for being rich!

You know what the problem is, mixed up priorities. If people made things such as love, peace, goodwill towards their fellow human beings as opposed to supposed to ego, honor, survival Volcom comfort and safety, pleasure, knowledge, fame, interest, importance should all be secondary -BUT THEY ARE NOT!!!!

Mankind lacks the strength, the heart [the necessary emotions], and the will TO MAKE THINGS WORK BETWEEN 5HEMSELVES! IN SOME CASES, BUT NOT ALL, KNOWLEDGE AND WISDOM!

Human-beings CREATE THINGS. AND VERY OFTEN WITH MIXED RESULTS. BEAUTY! UGLY! SERENE! CHAOTIC! HESLING! DAMAGING! WE LEAVE NOTURN UNSTONED! 😁🙃😔

Behind the eyes of every Human-being belies a:

•a real friend to humanity;

•a potential friend to humanity;

•one who is not, nor ever will be!

In a free society there are limits to limiting problems. In order to remain a free society, one can merely deal with them after the fact -unless of course, we start teaching [not manipulating or controlling mind you] people to behave more sensibly which would be somewhat disconcerting to alot of individuals. Sex sells, and so does chaos.

TRUST ME -NO LIFE IS WITHOUT ISSUE! SO SIMPLY TRY TO DIGEST YOURS WITH HUMILITY, DIGNITY, AND GRACE.

Unfortunately [or fortunately as the case may be], People who are talked to beat a polygraph cannot be relied upon ordelighted upon or cleared based on the use of a polygraph.

HOW TO BE A POLYGRAPH… SIMPLE

On a scale ranging from positive 10 to negative 10, where does your attitude towards humanity rate?

There are many people out there that believe God doesn’t see, God doesn’t care… Will there be the case of imploring HIS help. Whether it be the case of doing things HE would be highly displeased with! That’s humanity for you! We got it going both ways!

We Americans are terrible at self-care, prevention… In many instances we have no sense for what we need, how much, how little, what, when… Seriously!

The person on the screen in front of us is put there to make an impact, to “effect us”. Some of us actually make a connection, a sexual one at that -yes, through a screen 😳 It’s all by design. Well 🤔 certainly there are no filters in place, no restrictions barring such an occurrence 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷🏿‍♀️ NOT EVEN A WARNING THAT OBSERVING CONTENT VIA A MEDIUM SUCH AS THIS DESIGNED PRIMARILY TO EFFECT US CAN HAVE MIND-ALTERING, MOOD-ALTERING, MORAL, AND ETHICAL AND SPIRITUAL, LONG-TERM RAMIFICATIONS! IT DID WHEN THE GOVERNMENT USED/USES VIDEO ON HUMAN SUBJECTS GARNERING VARIED RESULTS!

Which would you prefer for a for a partner? Positive, negative traits; scale 1-10?

+10 -10 traits

+2 -2 traits

0 0 traits

😱 Choose!

Alcohol is an excellent example of people willing to suffer if the payoff is significant enough – Transfer that over to relationships. Moth to the flame! The number of people willing to do so is increasing. It’s not a small number! The greater the payoff the more danger a person is willing to submit themselves to. Transfer that over to relationships.

Do not attempt to oversimplify, nor to presume to have a greater understanding of GOD’S ways than GOD HIMSELF! Regardless of the horse you and I witness were here of taking place in the 🌎

Some people keep their heads above water through the notion that the world is basically a good place. Some through the notion that the world is slowing tearing itself, one another apart, but that through their own loneliness, there own isolation from it, they are not apart of it’s demise; and they thank GOD for that! 🙏🏻

If you’re jealous of who somebody is and the attention it garners from others, become like them -and improve yourself!*

* Besides karma how do you know you’re not like them? What makes you so sure you’re less than them? What makes you so sure you’re not above them in character and persona? Other people, and what the world thinks of them versus you, is not the best measuring stick to go by -TRUST ME!

I’m under the impression I have evolved in some areas, not in others like a weed growing aimlessly. Certain areas I have excelled at while others I have hardly evolved at all in the past 30+ years. What gives? RESISTENCE! WE GROW IN THE AREAS WE ARE MOST WILLING -WILLINGNESS IS THE MIRACLE-GROW OF MENTAL HEALTH, CHARACTER… UNWILLINGNESS IS LIKENED TO PUTTING YOUR PLANT IN THE CLOSET, SHUTTING THE DOOR, REFUSING TO WATER IT!

There are a lot of people out there suffering, struggling, struggle income and they’re not exactly broadcast broadcasting it to the world. But on a regular basis, we get to see a glimpse of it through acting out behaviors, suicides, divorces… 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏿‍♀️😔

Some people’s lives are characterized [moreso] by what’s happening; while others lives are characterized [moreso] by what’s not happening 🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏻‍♀️

For every commercial about money there should be a commercial about spirituality -what’s that, you say that would be shoving religion down people’s throats? Well they’re shoving commercials down the people’s throat that have involve money, commerce, I’m offended by that. And as far as shoving things down people’s throat, people being offended… Whoever said people know what is and isn’t best for them anyways!

I get the feeling that in order to write more succinctly about the ways of the 🌎 I have had to give up my abilities to function in it -as I have never felt a deeper understanding of it while at the same time a greater ineptness in it! ☺😔

Man consistently loses perspective.

Never cut corners with the people you love