To most people it doesn’t make any sense to invest time and energy in something if there’s not something in it for them. That’s the great all and wonder of Christianity, we do for GOD, and for the benefit of others.
There are 3 kinds of women:
1)Those looking
2)Those not looking
3)Those who are looking to have their female appeal acknowledged
Women are egoists and opportunists [providing for their children among other things*] so number one and number 3 are more prevalent than you might think
* Many, women, many parents mask their own [excessive] desires behind the so’called “wants and needs of their children”. What child needs a mansion or a Ferrari? 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷♂️