Human beings need things from other human beings of course the question is whether they get it right and what it is they perceive they need. In addition, I won’t say that there isn’t a difference between the two in regard to process, outcome, feelings et cetera… But I will say that in many instances whether that need need his proper or improper, when a person feels that they are not getting their need met, they tend to be dissatisfied, unhappy, angry, vengeful, spiteful, vindictive, shut down…! But if they are sensible, wise, mature, which most of us are not, they will be understanding, patient, accepting… to a degree.

Some people have really wonderful relationships. You would think most of us would be more curious, actively pursuing of an understanding of the basic tenements of such an experience.

Women don’t seem to care for a man and what were stays as welcome, but they do seem to have something for guise they can’t get enough of. I was never very good to play in that game. My brother is though. 🤷‍♂️