If you find that you cannot rely on certain people, then stop trying to. Trust and dependability are not dependent on dependent upon how you happen to be related “to” someone,, but rather-the nature of your relationship “with” them.

You don’t get things like women and money. You put yourself in a certain position, and then they come.🤷‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Without sex as part of the whole process, some people cannot muster or maintain significant emotional attachment.