WHEN ARE WE AS A NATION GOING TO SAY “ENOUGH!”.
Why rely on people who don’t know what they’re doing?
You know what I noticed with a lot of people, the more you do for them, the nicer you are to them… Like anything else you reach a point of diminishing return. A lot of people, at least in the community I’m living in, they don’t seem to sit well with being treated well. As I’ve said before I’ve had many involvements with married women it women who refuse to leave their husbands which they didn’t care for the way they treated them. So that says something. They say their husbands are not very responsive to them emotionally, or otherwise, and yet they remain with them. So that says something. Anas’ husband and I are too completely different people -and I have to admit, I think she is more comfortable with him even though she complains about the very things [he lacks] that I have to offer her. I think a lot of relationships go like this, I think we won a lot of things -but we are not prepared emotionally to handle those things, or we don’t feel worthy of those things. That would be one explanation for why people stay in relationships where they’re not getting what they want or need. They’re unhappy yet they’re comfortable obviously. HUMAN-BEINGS π€·ββοΈ Let me try and say that one more time. We wish to be treated a certain way in our minds -but when we get it… if we get it… What do we do with it? How many times have you heard the story of the woman reflecting back on the man who treated her well, filled with regret over having chosen “the wrong man”, yet the man she obviously feels she deserves! This is the scenario played out over and over and over in America. I’ve even heard women say that they have a knack for picking jerks. Well I’m trying very hard not to be one -and here I sit all alone. This may also help to explain why when I when I was younger and all screwed up, I was in a relationship about half the time. I think there’s a side to women, a naughty side. Without that [to reciprocate], most men appear boring. After all, women are the original seductors.