Some people tend towards telling people what they want to hear; some people tend towards telling people what they don’t want to hear.

It seems odd that an organism so complicated would be so simplistic in that a lot of people are a lot like fish; You use the wrong bait they don’t bite; you use the right bait they bite. A lot of lonely people have the wrong bait. It’s sad that so many people use such a shallow interpretation to base unity upon [if you can (even) call it that], between themselves.

Any time we have a choice, and we make a choice, we essentially reject other choices. And the same is true when we choose a partner. When other people are gathered around hoping against hope that you will be the one chosen and you are not, it sets up a scenario for rejection. And no matter how badly you the chooser want to see it as nothing of the sort, in a sense by making that choice you have rejected other suitors. suittors, admirers you may or may not even be aware of. That’s just the way it is. People who have the sort of bait that is so that is so appealing that it has this powerful effect that radiates outwards, outwards to many, You become something of a celebrity or public property.