Judging people is one shore-fire way of putting them off. Those of us who carry that bug don’t do so well with cohabitating.
Tell me something 🤔 what is the difference between hurting someone you care about and hurting someone who hurt someone you care about -to GOD?
The people you love, I think it goes over better when you think about what you can do to meet there needs rather the other way around [rather than thinking about what they can do to meet your needs]. 😔