There are good people in the world 🌎 and not good people in the world 😕 and regarding encountering both on at regular intervals-some find it very difficult to adapt.
How does one become aware of something they are unaware of?
A person decides they want to be the world’s greatest tennis player at a very young age 🤔 as luck would have it they grow up to be the perfect height of 6’2″. How does that work out? And thus he does! Not me 😏
For most of us, relationships are probably as much about making them work as they are about finding that right person. If you’re looking for the right person but you lack the skills to make a relationship work, which is usually what happens in a lot of cases, then where do you think you will find yourself when the going gets rough? Most people put on their best dress personality wise come we fall in love with them, and then we start to find cracks in the plan We so carefully worked to cmap out and achieve. I would say that the key to a long term relationship is more about the ability to work through the struggles most of us will encounter through fate, life, God’s plan for growth and maturity in us, personalities… Supposedly finding the right person is no guarantee of a lasting relationship – A lot of things can change, and probably will. A strong commitment and the ability to accept, along with the ability to work through problems pieceably, at least on your part. You may not have a partner and capable are willing to do the same things. Most people have the wrong idea about a relationship. I thought it was something magical that would make all my problems go away and fill the emptiness inside The fact of the matter is they are the most difficult thing for a human being to human being to succeed at in most cases. They are the thing that spurs us to grow and complete ourselves right oaks rather than to remain stagnant and hope that the other person will magically make all our cares and worries disappear. We learn more about ourselves in relationships than perhaps anywhere else. 9 times out of 10, if you’re choosing to get into a relationship you’d better expect better expect a lot of struggles and hard work and even pain. If we truly care about people comment the more of them we let into our lives the more we carry not just to enjoy they bring us but the pain they themselves will suffer. Relationships are hard, challenging, disappointing as well as the other things we hoped they would be over the long-haul [sometimes]. Now that I had an opportunity to observe certain other relationships unlike the one I grew up around with my father, I realized that there were many instances, many relationships I was involved involved in where the right thing to do was to work through things calm not to try to control them, not to try to get rid of the person subconsciously, not not to walk away because there was something about this relationship that was inherently different from every other one out there in the world. Many of my relationships were probably very similar to many relationships elsewhere. But I didn’t know this at the time. The loneliness I live with today in my apartment… the anger and the frustration and the pain… God keeps telling me “You had your chances you had your chance as you had your chances.” I think my attitude was that looking at my dad’s relationships and the problems they have problems they had calm on my attitude was that I didn’t want to have a relationship with problems. And the other thing is that the issues I was having in my relationship’s, what was echoing throughout the globe was welcome to the club. But people don’t air out their dirty laundry in front of you so you think you’re the only one. If you don’t have any close friends, you never get to hear that their lives are much different from yours or vice versa. The struggle in relationships is individual to that relationship. Some of us have it easier than others.
Male competition
I’m beginning to see the logic, the benefit of just going through other people’s lives without is out making any waves. Walk through life like a gentle breeze through other people’s lives.
The thing I could never understand about my dad was why at some point didn’t he get help. It’s understandable in our society to have issues from our childhood, but do not do anything about them?
GOD doesn’t drop down from the heavens every time we screw up and neither should apparent with their children.
There’s 2 kinds of adjustments we are obliged to make. The ones were we’re wrong and other people are telling us about it. The ones were not wrong but we need to make those changes none the less to keep the peace. To keep the relationship intact.