People are largely reactionary; but also not entirely sensible in their reactions! 🤷♂️🤷🏾♂️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏻♀️
We all have a signature! That signature effects people acutely! And then of course, there is in turn our own processing of those reactions and how they match up to our own expectations of how we want to be received, treated etc… alot of people don’t care for the reactions they inspire! Butt, WHAT WE PUT OUT WE WILL CONTINUE TO RECEIVE. And what we put out there and receive back as a consequence is largely favorable to some and largely unfavorable to others. Good or badd, for better or for worse, this formula for the most part appears to be immutable. . And it is unlikely in most cases that people will change their reactions in spite of you remaining the same. In some cases people are good and they nonetheless reap what is disdainful to them, hurtful to them. In this case they should hold fast to their being. In other cases people are not so good. In this case they should seek to make changes to their person.*(**)
Limitations in mankind often result in limitations in a variety of relationships. Feeling shutout…
*People appear to have a window. You’re too bad to them they respond badly/poorly. You’re too good to them they respond badly/poorly. Staying somewhere in the middle appears to garner the safest and largest number of positive responses [the typical person doesn’t react well to extremes -extremely sick people in our society, extremely successful people in our society, extremely loving people in our society]. 🤷♂️
**Moods (thoughts, agendas…) give off certain pheromones that mammals detect.
If what we choose to be is too out of line with society’s norms, however good or benign that choice may be, allot of people are not going to be accepting of it, accepting of you. I have often wondered why certain people who to a certain degree are assholes can have so many people in their life?