Relationships are messy even when they are not physical.
There are a lot of conflicting things going on at the top chains of our structures in civilization. A lot of things that seem to matter don’t, and a lot of things that matter to us don’t matter to somebody else -in the grand scheme of things. We look at the people making these decisions with disgust because they don’t have the same value system. Strangely enough, often times we find ourselves making similar judgments with regard to GOD’S judgment making. A lot of things we seem to care about GOD doesn’t seem to make a priority. GOD doesn’t seem to require the same outcome we would have. Of course it would be ridiculous to accuse GOD of not caring, only of “a deeper insight” and “for the greater/ultimate good! God’s gotta speak in every regard. In terms of care hes got his beat across-the-board. In terms of deeper insight sometimes man simply lacks deeper caring rather than deeper insight. And as far as the greater/ultimate good goes, man often has some rather queer ideas on that.
If GOD wills it nothing can prevent it, and; if GOd doesn’t will it nothing can make it be otherwise.