There’s 2 things always on a woman’s mind with regard to selecting a partner:

• How they feel about the person

• What they stand to gain or lose

Things haven’t changed much, people still marry out of circumstance, desperation, fear, lust, ignorance, status…

In this country there are many who lack wisdom and maturity. That’s one way to gain an advantage over others -to screw with their development. The best way to screw over your enemy is get them while they’re newborn.

I don’t think most people get married with the idea that they’re just going to try it out. These days however, I don’t think people get married with the idea that they can’t change their mind either. When you get married the idea is to hold interest in that person for the rest of your life, come what may, come who may.

A relationship and raising children are the most serious things we will ever embark upon -and yet how many human beings enter into these responsibilities with impunity. That’s one direction we seem to be going the wrong way with in this country is the seriousness of these choices and responsibilities.

We don’t grow by having everything just the way we like it. And growth is one of the principal reasons we’re here.