There’s a difference between letting your soul come out and shine before others and the Marietta of other options available to men to attract and be accepted and thrive and pray on and pray on and manipulate and gain [advantage[. Unfortunately a lot of people don’t know the difference. Unfortunately it can be very hard to know the difference.

Is lot of people deal with a problem by making it worse. A lot of people deal with the problem by using sorry tactics which result in prolonging things and prolonging the pain and the pain and the drama rather than dealing with it forthright.

Some people having been traumatized run towards their own destructive, rebelious self-will while others turn towards conformity as a way of coping.

Some people run towards their problems, sorta, seeking to exploit, dominate that which they fear [most]. Some people run away. Some people are caught in a sort of awkward middle ground. The latter would be me.