Just because you use somebody and they’re willing doesn’t make it right.

If you look at some of the stories from the forties and fifties about the sexual conduct of society back then in this country, you gotta figure now this country and this and this society could hardly be termed conservative sexually for the most part. Married, involved, or single.

Next time somebody uses you don’t complain because chances are somewhere in your life you’re using others as well.

Many people in this country are sexually open and apprehensive.

What would you wear if you were alone on the planet and what would you wear if there were other people around? The difference between the 2 is how much you care about what other people think or how much attention you want to attract.

If Superman saves a million people and murders one he will go to prison. We place greater emphasis on what people do wrong than what they do right. With regard to punishment and fame.

There’s a difference between letting your soul come out and shine before others and the Marietta of other options available to men to attract and be accepted and thrive and pray on and pray on and manipulate and gain [advantage[. Unfortunately a lot of people don’t know the difference. Unfortunately it can be very hard to know the difference.

Is lot of people deal with a problem by making it worse. A lot of people deal with the problem by using sorry tactics which result in prolonging things and prolonging the pain and the pain and the drama rather than dealing with it forthright.

Some people having been traumatized run towards their own destructive, rebelious self-will while others turn towards conformity as a way of coping.

Some people run towards their problems, sorta, seeking to exploit, dominate that which they fear [most]. Some people run away. Some people are caught in a sort of awkward middle ground. The latter would be me.

My take on a certain well known actor is this. And I know they have the issues growing up and I know how difficult it is to overcome those issues so I’m not so much judging him or her as pointing out the dynamic between such a person and the rest of the world. Apparently if one either gives the impression of being free spirited enough, confident enough, elusive and mysterious enough, that of knowing something the rest of us do not, and in spite of or because of [we’ll throw in self consume dandor narcissistic]… the fact that you can at times treat people like dirt… Apparently with a certain class of people the balance between all of this lies between alluring, irresistible or hypnotic. A stronger mind or heart would have told this person “take a flying leap” long before they themselves did it to you. This includes both men and women in which this person apparently trampled on. And this thing about the opposite sex hanging around at the gate of the theater waiting to catch a glimpse – Just what in the h*** is the matter with these people. We do not worship or bow before other human beings. JESUS! Are you that lonely? Are you that lonely? Hard up? Inferior in your complex? We’ve seen interplay [dynamics] such as this before [sometimes with tragic results]. They say it’s usually the weak-minded. THANK YOU LORD 🙏🏻

With most people somewhere in their lives life is again. Most people either don’t know it or won’t admit it. And when they get burned by somebody else playing the game they cry foul they cry foul because they believe they themselves are not playing a game.

Will at least come or rather unfortunately, or not ma’am we’re not proving God wrong with regard to the direction mankind would go in towards the end, towards the 2nd coming whereby we would be begging be baking forgot to come down and bail us out.

I suppose it would be inevitable that we would run out of resources eventually but given man’s irresponsibility it has happened much quicker.

If you started out wrong, if things started out wrong for you, you can still decide to be a good person and lead a somewhat normal life. It may take some time though.

Sometimes doing the right thing with regard to people doesn’t always get you what you want from them. Sometimes doing it the wrong way does because they’re not right.

With many prospective partners, you can’t just give yourself to someone. To them there’s no challenge in that. No mystery. No chaos or pain.

A woman not a man is the original, semi-original seductress.

Sure Adam-and-Eve screwed up -but did the rest of us have to follow in their footsteps so willfully?

Some people offer their love through the lens of obligation, responsibility, devotion. To their children or whoever else fits into that category of is category of deserving. Unfortunately, those who do not fit into that category do not receive love from them. I feel that is the case for me with my Aunt and Uncle. They certainly don’t feel responsible or obligated. As for devotion, that is an emotion saved for the sentimental or sensitive type -which they are not. My Uncle has a side to him but it is very selective unfortunately. My aunt on the other hand is not the mothering type whatsoever.

Getting where you want and getting what you want or sometimes 2 different things.

GOD’S PLAN for us doesn’t always include being safe. 🤷‍♂️

Maybe the lives of other people I dream about also living aren’t so perfect as in my dreams. 🤷‍♂️

There’s a difference between perception and intuition. I believe Marlon Brando was highly perceptive while I am my son the perceptive while I myself am highly intuitive. Each brings about its own set of unique rewards and responsibilities. But I know I’m not rich and I’m not famous. But I’ve come a long way in my personal growth. INSTINCT????? COMBO????? IMAGINATION????? You know that just goes to show what some people are really like. Anyone who would be drawn to somebody like this if I do this it’s got to be unhealthy.

Often times people don’t know who they are, and therefore what they do… Even when you point it out to them they don’t understand or see it either the way you see it or perhaps for what it is. It’s an issue that goes on and on and on with the human condition

Let me preface this by saying men have their own issues otherwise we wouldn’t be talking about the woman’s issue right now. Is it our culture or is it in the nature of a woman to find a man she’s got a fix? Or a man only worthy worthy of her own sense of worthlessness? Can’t we rectify this pattern? Instead of people making dumb or unhealthy mistakes early in their life, getting burned, suffering severe heart-ache, and only learning later in life to make better choices? I mean this pattern has been going on for centuries. Why do we insist on not growing wing in this area or not outgrowing this pattern?

You might find it hard to believe how many people there are who find it hard to believe that there are actually other people who are not as shallow or materialistic in their decision-making.

If you could have whatever you wanted by not being you would you? The answer to that seems to be running quite rampanly -and in the affirmative in this country these days.

Men playing off women’s insecurities, when they’re not playing on they’re egos! Women and men deserve each other whether they like or wish to admit it.

Everybody has a gift or. Some gifts many people which they had rather than there are. Don’t people hardly notice the gifts of others let alone envy them. But these gifts, all God-given – Are probably no less value or importance or yor use than any other. Only in terms of man’s shallow and narrow placements of value.

We exist, but that isn’t necessarily a prelude to what we are going to look like; once we are here… what are we going to manifest, evolve into?

The 2 most important things. The 2 things that are more than anything else in the universe are POWER and RELATIONSHIPS, and their opposites [betweens?]. And of course their [respective?] VEHICLE’S [OR THEIR LINKS?].

It take some Enchiladas to the man who gives us a great deal on some mattresses. He’s very grateful upon receiving them. When I go to pick up my plate 2 weeks later he never says a word about whether he liked them or not. The story of my life -human beings not acting as I believe they should. I 1st encountered this with my mother and then with my father and then with my mother and then with my father, and then with my extended family, and then with the world at large. I wonder if people don’t look at me and decide I don’t require any extra treatment or normal treatment, don’t deserve???

I do what they want when they want. They do what they want when they want. My relationship with my Aunt and Uncle. If you do for people what they want when they want come a seldom will you find that sort of sacrifice or love reciprocated. The only person I ever knew to do this was my grandmother -perhaps where I learned it from.

If you wanted to produce another Marlon Brando how would you go about it? Would you want to? How could you do it without all the pain and agony [self-doubt, self-loathing] that goes along with it? If we can build a Marlon Brando then we can build involve someone who can take us further and further into the future progressively. Perhaps it isn’t all about progress though. Something more…

If a person simplifies who they are they’re flawed flaws dwindle dramatically. If a person simplifies their lifestyle in addition…??? Things improve all the more.

Why do things take a downhill spiral after World War II? Did people change so much to cause the children too? Or was there a force in place at work beyond our beyond our ability to see or recognize?

If people didn’t act as such then they wouldn’t be who they are. The reason for the label is the basis of the behavior -sometimes. If a person didn’t do what they did they wouldn’t be labeled as such any longer.

If you look at people… We’re getters.

One of the things GOD wants for us is to get to the bottom of things. We’re all born and then we suffer, suffer experiences that hamper or alter our.

If something has more power than anything around it, can it still be overcome? Is that where reasoning comes in? And 🤔 what or who has more power than GOD?

There is life and then there is the myriad of challenges in it each of us face. GOD only knows what determines the challenges each of us will face during our tenure here on Earth. As I said there are the challenges we face in life and there is arabilities with regard to come in the face of those challenges. Time is the difference oftentimes between our ability to face certain challenges and our inability the face certain challenge. At some point in our life we may be faced with the challenge we are not prepared to deal with. At another point in our life we are fully prepared to deal with that challenge which never comes or never again comes. Strange? And then again there are those challenges which…

Giving people what they want isn’t the answer. Especially if we’re doing it to get money out of them or power.

How many of us if we had the power or the ability within our grasp would do whatever [we could] it takes to eliminate our experiences of discomfort and our feelings of vulnerability? Well the people who are running this world presumably – Have taken it upon themselves to do just that with whatever resources they can muster based upon their they’re God-given abilities. So are we any different [in our desires]?

How do you change from not performing well to performing well question mor? At the onset when you are performing well how do you keep from changing to not performing well?

Always preying on our primal fears, desires… JUST LIKE satan

Whenever I decided subconsciously that it was time to end the relationship, I simply took things too far, over the edge in the wrong direction.

My Uncle has no sense of humor maybe that’s what’s eating at my Aunt.

The problem between me and my aunt is that we were both spoiled growing up.

Grandparents have a tendency to spoil their children and that is not is not a very good preparation for the real world.