People speak for many reasons, make sure you speak for the right one.

A tell-tale sign is when your family, If your family were no longer around, how big of a deal would it be? I mean how big of a difference in your life we didn’t make? How big of an impact do they currently have or have they had throughout your life? The answer in my case is that with very few exceptions it wouldn’t make much of a difference at all. My siblings wouldn’t make any difference at all. My parents wouldn’t make any difference at all because they’ve been gone for 30-40 years. My cousins wouldn’t make any difference at all because I never hear from them. My Uncle and his wife wouldn’t make any difference at all because I never hear from them. You get the point? My children I never hear from them.

As children we are often times molded by our families -for better or for worse. That’s why often times there is submission, subordination where there should not be. This is how tribes survive and stay United nighted through a sort of brain washing. Others survive because they actually get it right sometimes. But when the brain washing doesn’t take full effect and members rebel or stand up for what they believe is unfair or wrong, we’re off to the nut you see the family heads rit’s retaliate rather than admit to being wrong.

People don’t just seize opportunities these days they manufacture them at any cost in many cases. Seizing an opportunity often results in taking rather than giving in this case. When a person is seeking to manufacture an opportunity it puts a further burden on the system, the overall dynamic.

We shouldn’t take out our anger on people because things that should come from their heart do not. That’s what God teaches. But that’s not what many human beings teach through example. Disappointment is something that many of us do not deal well with. Much less repeated disappointment.

I don’t think I fail to see a lot of things other people do. And at the same time I think I fail to see things the way a lot of other people do.

People think they can just buy parts of this planet GOD GAVE US ALL -for their own personal gain. Really? I think GOD’S getting a little bit tired of the distortion [and extortion] going on on this planet.

It’s better to suffer the pain people causes in silence this in silence then to lash out at them. In addition, it gives them no [further] justification.

A lot of people in many different positions and dispositions in life in life do not operate so much from goodness as they do from a sense of survival. Now that could be tolerated if not forgiven. The only problem is, therevare as many different ideas about what it is to survive as there are people And the further you get away from the true definition of survive surviving in the God-given sense, the further you get away from goodness.

You know what a big part of the problem is in this country -people have it too good. If you have a problem with that then crack open your history books and look at what happens to people who have it too good. History is riddled with examples. A human being who manages to wipe out desperation from their lives generally…

Most people expect you to pull your own weight. Fair enough. But more than just a small number of people are looking for somebody to pull more than their own weighthen they’re on weight well thinking in their own minds I’m the their definition of such is only pulling your own weight. In reality most people want more. In a relationship I can think of a particular person who almost always expects more from their partner than what they themselves put out. Most people are not of the mind how can I contribute rather than take away from this situation. If only that would change. If only that would change just think of what it difference it would make in the world. And also if we would stop letting the world dictate our actions, decide for ourselves what is right -and act upon it independent of…

One way of controlling or determining your attitude is determining determining what are the most important things in life 2. Are they the things that continually disappoint you? The things that you have no control over?

Some people are exceptional in their ability to live in the moment and take it all in.

Giving and not getting much in return, or nothing at all, is not an easy proposition. Especially when you’re missing a few things yourself. It’s even more difficult when people don’t appreciate you as much as they should.

In my experience a lot of women tend to appreciate [love] the person who keeps the most [relatively] comfortable and safe. Heads up, just because a man can’t keep you relatively comfortable or safe doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you. And just because a man can, doesn’t necessarily mean he does [love you]. And I think a lot of people understand and are aware of this. Unfortunately with regard to(o) many people, when it comes down to love or comfort and safety -a lot of people choose comfort and safety willingly, grudgingly maybe. Survivalist! What’s even sadder is a lot of people choose grandiosity, excess over love. 🤔

A lot of people never realize what the best part of a relationship is.

I think my biggest problem today besides people is the fact that I’m afraid of them. It’s important for people like that to find someone they’re not afraid of.

Talking to Ana this morning on the phone on Easter Sunday 2022, making the comment that my aunt just doesn’t get it. I realized I too don’t get it. I’m free yet my mind chooses to keep me in bondage. I have almost everything in the world to be grateful and happy for and yet I carry this yeah I carry this chip on my shoulder, this dagger in my heart 💙

Being cool is for example not doing stupid things. Drinking and drugging. Running red lights or speeding or racing. Cheating on your family. Taking unnecessary risks. Being cool is about being where you’re supposed to be when you’re supposed to be doing what you’re supposed to be doing. Taking care of yourself and those you care about and not putting that at risk in any way shspe or form.

People in the 50s, 60s and seventies set a precedence, that of not understanding the true essence of freedom. Freedom isn’t about breaking down barriers, especially when you’re already free. It’s about responsibility and sanity and right choices and and protecting what you’ve been blessed with and respecting what is right. What it is not is about doing whatever you feel like to prove that you are not or not answerable to anyone. God, your parents, the system… Those you love.

The way many people operate in their relationships is they put on their best face, the person falls in love with them, usually the woman, and then the real person comes out and many a woman sticks around suffering through it because they can’t get past their feelings. It seems to be the way men and women work. Manner for example not usually on par with what a woman truly is looking for, it’s looking for karma so a man has to get them to fall in love through a degree of deception exception, and then the man, the real side of the man can come out and the relationship can ensue from there. And often times they will drag out for years like this. And then you throw in a couple of kids during all of this.. This is basically the model for a lot of relationships in the world and in this country. It’s too bad

Try to imagine all the things you would do if you weren’t severely handicapped physically or mentally or emotionally. Now then, since you are not severely handicapped physically or mentally or emotionally, go out and do them [rather than taking for granted that you can].

Even God had to submit to some of man’s video syncrasies in order to be listened to. We want to be a part of humanity it seems we have to kind of go along with some things as well. Of course there’s A-line we don’t cross which means that there are certain people we are not going to be accepted by. And then there are a few people that simply accept us unconditionally if were lucky.

In order to have relationships in the world we have to be open. Now it can be very difficult based on our background experiences to go through life open. It’s one of the biggest challenges for some of us.

1st we learned to accept ourselves with our own problems

Next week learn to work towards their correction

Next we learn to accept other people’s problems

And finally we’d become an example which will eventually helbut eventually helped them to also work towards the correction of their problems. And the ones that don’t we just do our best to accept just as Jesus did with us.

I don’t know if it’s good to bottle up things inside you, but I know there’s a lot of people out there that are glad when you or I do. I know my aunt is one of them.

It’s normal and healthy to talk about your problems to somebody else. But when you go on and on about it it’s a sign that there’s something. Many people like this haven’t figured out how to solve the problem. In my case what I wanted is to be loved, being heard as a sign of being loved. There’s just not enough of it in the world to go around. Going on and on about your problems, sounding like a victim I supposed, is a way for some of the more sensitive people in the world gone cold; it’s their way to saying I’m dying from lack of love -somebody please love me. There are a lot of people out there that aren’t so sensitive but they’re struggling with with the coldness of the world themselves whether they know it or not or whether they’re willing to admit it or not. But it hits the most sensitive people the hardest.

When you don’t feel anything there’s something wrong. When you act out on your feelings or something wrong. When you feel something -it’s probably right. When you act on your feelings in a constructive manner -it’s probably right.

You think that because you’ve had mostly positive experiences with people that the human rthe human race is a wonderfully beautiful thing? Everybody has suffered at the hands of another human. Everyone at least once or twice in their life will be severely struck by the actions of another humam-being. Not only are all of us flawed, many of us are downright bad!

I can see why when people get older they seem to become more selfish and withdrawn, less thoughtful. Some people try this and and for whatever reason people do not reciprocate and they become fedup, weary, and Leary. For whatever reason other people try this and and they are met with remarkable reciprocation or reciprocality. I don’t know what it is that determines these things but they happen. The ones that don’t get reciprocated they get tired, bitter, and withdraw. I say we make a new rule like the one that says children are off limits from tragedy. The new rule is let the people who can handle not being reciprocated not have to deal with not being reciprocated -while the people who can handle it, let them be the ones that get reciprocated too so they don’t hang themselves or shoot themselves or end up in a mental ward. That’s the new rule. The h*** of who deserves or doesn’t deserve. Let it be the ones who can handle it and the ones who can’t handle it respectively.

With regards to one’s spiritual transformation, things like selfishness, pride, ego, behavior’s grounded in fear are generally the last to go.

And who violates the freedom and the privacy of those people who are violating our freedom and our privacy?????????????????????????????????????????????? Everyone has to have a mask. Everyone has to be accountable to someone.

As much as possible keep your heart spot free is free of anything dark. This will minimize bouts of frustration, depression, lashing out or judging others.

You can’t cross one line trying to bring people across another. A lot of people do it but JESUS didn’t, WOULDN’T!

I think people who are very thoughtful with regard to the one way street of life eventually run out of steam, run down. And then they hang themselves or shoot themselves. It could be the combination of that and in the nativebility to look into the abyss of life.

If too much of the healthy things are bad for you then how bad is too much of a bad things for you? How much more damaging is it?

Often times their appears a force at work, a force we cannot see or account for in any way except for -the ego!

Jesus Christ did not think the sovereign beatitude and glory of Heaven too dearly purchased at the price of unspeakable tortures, and by suffering His sacred flesh to be mangled by nails, thorns, and scourges. Great indeed must be the value of that which cost the Son of God so dear! And yet we esteem it so little, as to be even ready to renounce our claim to it, as, in fact, so many of us do, for the sake of some wretched pleasure or despicable interest! Ye blind and deluded children of men, contemplate the Wounds of your Crucified God, and see in what manner the gates of the kingdom of glory have been opened to you! See what it has cost Him to place you in possession of it, and understand, if possible, how infinite a benefit was bestowed upon you by the Son of God when He purchased for you Heaven, which you had lost by sin! … Enter in spirit into these sacred Wounds, and you will comprehend the value and sublimity of that eternal felicity which they have acquired for you, and you will learn to detach your heart from the earth and from creatures, so as to place all your affections and desires upon Heaven.” Boo day before Easter 2022

Other people’s actions don’t excuse mine.

If GOD is a punishing God then why are so many bad people running around on the Earth?

I asked the question the other day, why the echo in us created? It seems to cause more trouble? The answer is there has to be a mechanism for free will. There also has to be an accountability on our part for that mechanism. So one of our duties as human beings is to deceive the direction. Whether or not to harness… Harness is very powerful and very potentially volatile [GIFT OR CURSE? OUR CALL!].