Bottom line is if you don’t have “the goods”, a lot of people don’t see any point, don’t see any value in you. They feel to see the value in a human being beyond what effect they can have on themselves. And when people like to see somebody who does have the goods they are very strongly drawn to them because of the anticipation of the anticipation of what that person can do for them. Very selfish, self centered, narrow existance.

In most people the senses are not controlled by the individual. People like what they like with it they like it or not and they don’t like what they don’t like whether they like it or not. At least that’s my assumption.

Think about what a person is and not what a person isn’t.

A well known celebrity whose background is regard to his upbringing in his mother and father… it is evident spent that the lack of experience stemming from inability to observe a wholesome relationship between his mother and father, Affected his ability to have an wholesome, and thus long term relationship relationship with women. He was only able to participate in fragments of what comprises comprises a wholesome relationship. I suffer from the same thing. In addition attitudes towards both parents affecting is views of himself and his views towards the opposite sex also played an integral role. I suffer from the same thing. But we can always better inform ourselves and fill in these gaps. Maybe not perfectly but it’s better than what we have now I presume. I wonder if he did so or not.