Many people seem to struggle with going against their own grain [WHEN THEY IN FACT SHOULD].
Many people’s actions are grounded in need. Sadly, many relationships are based on based on that very thing.
Some people do not inspire a sense of need and others toward. This removes a lot of opportunity opportunity or interaction between that individual and the people who fail to be inspired by a sense of need that can be fulfilled for them by the other individual. Other people inspire all kinds of sense of need in others and hence an attraction is stimulated. They inspire a sense that they can do or accomplish or have something to contribute or wrong. But this is not the greatest drive instilled in man. The greatest drive instilled in man is to be an INITIATOR OF WHAT we can contribute [TO LIFE] -NOT TAKE AWAY.
Believe it or not people actually make decisions based on avoiding how stupid they will look; Or how good they can look; Rather than on Justice, fairness, love.
Unfortunately many people will only believe out of fear or out of an imbalance of power -but GOD does not wish to operate that way. And does not wish to make believers of others through irrefutable evidence [after… after… after…] but rather through faith.