If people weren’t so selfish and closed do you think we would be having the experiences we have with them? Of course not!
One possible sign of how much one is loved in the world is how many people and to what degree they are willing to sacrifice for you. Some people rarely know this experience. They are the forgotten ones, left behind, disregard.
You do things the way people want them done, you treat them the way they want to be treated whether it’s good or bad and no probably love you for it. I’ve treated women good and they weren’t comfortable with it and I’ve treated women bad and they weren’t comfortable with it – Where women seem most comfortable was with a mixture of both. None of my relationships have worked out. Because I did things my way even when it was good and right. And you know what, that didn’t always work out. I lost hope we got frustrated and couldn’t give the egg that was planted enough time to grow in germinate in their heart. That’s just the way people up. They’re slow. They don’t snap when you’re kind immediately. Some of the longest lasting marriages are relationships I’ve encountered where people put up with other people’s s***! True story.
Some people treat people the same weather whether they are simply interacting or whether the person is being kind and sacrificing for them. Some people don’t know how to turn up their level of respect and consideration for others even when those people are raising their level of respect and consideration for them. My aunt and Uncle. They do not believe in raising people up above themselves. They certainly don’t believe in raising anyone above their own children. Even though their children are a non factor and extended family manufactured in assisting them in there formative years.