The more values you have the harder will likely be to keep your chin up in the world whose values are mixed at best.
Don’t expect God to go punishing people for doing wrong with regard to material things and ego and rhings such as that. Unlike many of us God values his children far more
Chances are the majority of people you encounter one counter or no less flawed than you are. They may play a good game. They may even be more astute socially or sensibly [to a degree], But at the end of the day chances are they’re just as flawed as you you in the rest of there being. So when you feel that people are looking down on you trust me their feet are clay as well.
If people don’t give a d*** about you and God does then one rule I have is to devote yourself to those who are therefore you, who stand behind you and you, and not those who merely have a title such as brother or aunt your aunt or spouse or cousin cousin or coworker.
We may have free will but God-made the rules.