You know life is hard enough living on this planet after giving the boot out of paradise. But we human beings have to screw each other over as well. We could be a great comfort to each other and in easing some of the pain and suffering of the aforementioned but instead in many cases we double triple quadruple the suffering the suffering by treating others and ourselves like s***.
It’s just a world largely made up of people trying to survive the fall. Some are trying to ease their suffering and you could say some require more than others to ease that suffering. I guess it just depends on how much relief you’re looking for.
People with a victim mentality are hard pressed to give an inch. You could say it’s the opposite of the heroes mentality whereby the person is more than willing to put themselves out there and be vulnerable.
The greatest gift human being can give to God besides their love is to suffer the thing in life they loathe or fear most in assisting in the salvation of souls.