The more time I spend where GOD is -the better I FEEL!

LORD, protect my mind; from enemies -both foreign and domestic!

Some things rub people the wrong way that shouldn’t affect inspire them! Spur them to change in fact!

Indicators of spiritual well-being and spiritual decline?

Just as a child runs to a parent when frightened or confused…. And so it should be with us and GOD who is our Heavenly Father -and we HIS children! Is it not therefore better to remain in a perpetual state of fear and confusion?

Alcoholics Anonymous doesn’t take with everyone! Regarding those who it does -we are so fortunate!

Don’t get caught up in the writing itself -get caught up in the concept; the essence of!

Can we eventually [actually] aspire to the words which flow from my mouths?

The quality of our lives is directly proportional to the quality of our relationship!

NEVER UNDERESTIMATE the power, the impact the world has on a human-being!

Approoriate and inappropriate [levels of] FEAR!

After some time in AA, having worked the steps… they manage to stay sober with a minimum of contact with the program thereafter -until something formidable appears on the horizon!

No body gets drunk sitting on “the couch” thinking about it! Nor stay sober! 🤷‍♂️ It took a lot of time and effort to get sick -THINK ABOUT IT! 8 HOURS A DAY IN SOME INSTANCES, 7 DAYS A WEEK…

There’s a difference between “the rush” of getting high and that which we find in recovery -some people never make “the transition”.

FACEBOOK “If you’re unwilling to pay for it at that price, they can’t sell it at that price! THINK ABOUT IT! Pricing today is largely based upon a group of individuals willing to pay the price or desperate to pay the price with little or no consideration for those who cannot or will not. It’s largely based on a certain group’s utter lack of concern for their fellow human beings.”

Help me to be open my GOD even when I am not where you reside specifically. Even when I am not actively pursuing a relationship with YOU!

FACEBOOK “When the public is ripe; it’s only a matter of time before they starts charging for returns. You let these companies get away with it and they’ll try it.”

Most human beings should either have a sign or a sticker that says “Handle with care” or “Handle with caution”.

Oftentimes we ask without knowing, understanding, fully comprehending…

When stinking-thinking comes a calling -pray for others!

Turn it around and see how it flies – For example, today my girlfriend’s best friend walked up to the car and I said her name followed by darling with a French-intoned accent. Perfectly innocent. But when you picture a friend of mine, a man walking up to the car and my girlfriend saying it to him the same thing -it doesn’t fly with me. So you see, this is one way we can check ourselves. Check ourselves by using the same rule of thumb on others as ourselves; ourselves as with others. I don’t mean to control others -I mean to measure our own conduct I guess. Besides, one of the things that makes our relationship with our partner so special is the unique traits we display with them and them alone -and no one else. You want your partner to feel special, to feel elite don’t you?

Protect your mind even from filthy-truths!

When the savage in us is appeased -it no longer acts savagely. That was the case with Ana! You can appease your savage or you can conquer it! In our relationship it was appeased -not conquered! Lulled rather than confronted -hence, the problems in my new relationship where the savage is not being lulled but neglected.

What is the best use of his time romantic endeavor? It’s a valid question!

So which are the public more inclined towards… A company with a reliable history that sells mediocre quality or an individual with no history selling high quality?

The teaching approach in this country and throughout history is designed to do what with regard 2 up-and-coming generations? It’s not designed to f*** Foster people who dominate. Man tries to avoid such thing. But isn’t a top notch education rendering someone that capability? Education and character!

Awareness is a double-edged sword man has always been vulnerable too. Being made aware of the tree of knowledge! We have the ability to bring awareness to one another. Most of us do not have adequate knowledge or understanding of the impact of even our own! Adequate restraint either! It only took one generation to screw up. Some people are a real champion for mankind. Do you think the world of us. But is it misplaced?

Some people have an iron will and a sensible mind! Most of us are lucky to have one or the other in this day and age. Think about it! If you have a sensible mind but you don’t have an iron wheel and you’re prone to non-sensible thoughts [temptations] from time to time… If you have an iron will but you don’t have sensible thoughts…

FACEBOOK “If you can get killer abs without doing any work -what’s the point? If you can lose weight without doing any work -what’s the point? Many people who don’t have these problems take these questions for granted.”

What is your priority in life? What do your choices indicate? Actions & Attitudes indicate?

The closer I am to GOD; the more I have to contribute to life!

Alcoholics, and humans in general; DON’T GENERALLY DEAL WELL WITH LONG-TERM PAIN!

The one with the least amount of toys; who can be happy -WINS! The less I can rely on, THE FREER I AM! In fact, the only thing I can think of to truly rely upon that grants me MORE FREEDOM IS -GOD!!!!!!!

The simpler MY LIFE; the fewer opportunities my ALCOHOLISM has to roam!

The secret to telling the truth is; DON’T DO ANYTHING YOU HAVE TO HIDE OR BE ASHAMED OF! LIVE YOUR LIFE PRIVATELY -THE SAME WAY YOU LIVE IT PUBLICLY!

“When you’ve crossed certain lines in your life it’s very difficult to reassert those lines. For example, if you have a tendency towards excess or towards promoscuity…”

Relationships are a funny thing with we humans – Sometimes 1 thing can bring it to a halt. Sometimes 1 thing can bring it crashing down. Sometimes 1 thing can cause it to go out with a whimper!

Why get angry at GOD; it’s either not HIS fault; or HE knows what HE’S doing! 🤷‍♀️🙏🏻🤷‍♂️ God either IS or HE isn’t!

The 2 worst and best things of partner can say to you:

▪︎ I’m no longer in love with you or you’re not good enough for me

▪︎ I don’t feel I’m good enough for you I don’t feel I’m good enough for you.

One empowers you and the other 1 takes away your power!

When you’re worried about someone else with your partner -it’s not jealousy. Maybe insecurity. Maybe suspicion.

FACEBOOK “If you are concerned about infidelity on the part of your partner then pushing them away only increases the odds while drawing them closer decreases the odds-it’s amazing how we push people away and increase yards of infidelity while being so worried about it rather than decrease in the odds by drawing them closer with behaviors that make them want to be with us not with someone else. That’s one of the irrational things about human beings!”

There was a sharp decline, albeit a small one, when AA came on the scene!

Some people are highly aware, but only with regards to their own welfare!

God is most present In the now!

FACEBOOK “The more I practice staying in the now the sharperoy will be when a major now moment arises!”

BLESSED ARE those with the power to kill, steel, and destroy; WHO do not!

You make plans, but yet you realize there is a distinct possibility they will never come to fruition; You leave the possibility of GOD’S-plan open; That is what is formally called -Not being a fool! MY DAD HAD NO USE FOR… SO WAS HE A FOOL????? He didn’t think so!!!!!🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

I’m not responsible for my “DISEASE” WRONG!!!! BILL W. STATES IN THE FIRST STEP ..

Alcoholics are CUNNING, BAFFLING, AND POWERFUL!

Ask most people in prison and they will tell you they’re pretty good people

I never got drunk “thinking about it”! I never stayed sober “thinking about it”!

It’s one thing to do a kind act [hard enough]; another to give credit where credit is due! 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

Corellations

Man is slow

Everything is an opportunity to grow in the likeness of your CREATOR!

Some things are more important than money -but not to every man! Some men don’t care about anything but “GETTING PAID”!

I’m not responsible for being an Alcoholic… but in the 1st step…

What things fall into the category of:

Needs to be discussed or addressed ____________________________________________________________

Doesn’t need to be discussed or addressed

AA is for people who have lost the unconscious ability to have a conscious contact with GOD.

Some people struggle with, have a problem with being happy; so, 🤔 it only stands to reason some people struggle with, have a problem with being unhappy. Yin-Yang! Everything contains it’s opposite! So what other opposites are there of interest?

It’s not the person who gets up earliest in the morning who has the most sobriety -it’s the one who has the most GOD in them who has the most sobriety!

100% and 0% in nature, very, very interesting 🤔

“V” & “M”eter, humans are like a vehicle [vector] and a meter

● STAY IN THE NOW*

● LIVE RIGHT*

● HELP OTHERS*

● PRAYER & MEDITATION

*Best way to get GOD in you!

You can kind of tell the discrepancy between GOD’S plan for us and our plan for us -BY OUR LEVEL OF FRUSTRATION & DISAPPOINTMENT! OUR LACK OF FAITH; OUR LOSS OF FAITH! 🤷‍♂️🙏🏻🤷‍♀️

Maybe GOD is in the past present and the future -probably; But HE is not in my self-centered-mind while obsessing over the past or the future in an attempt to “BLOCK OUT THE PRESENT” and as a consequence of… BLOCKING HIM OUT AS WELL? Unless of course I am attempting to block HIM out as well!

I remember going to a restaurant with my girlfriend and splitting a large plate of food -and then telling us they were gon to charge us $4 extra. See what I mean about Corporate America thinking WE NEED THEM! Whoever needs who is the one who doesn’t get to take liberties…

If you are to be so-inclined as to act on those horrible thoughts then they’re probably your thoughts. But if you’re not so-inclined to act on those thoughts then we’re probably not your thoughts!

Whenever you have unsettling thoughts, pray for the salvation and protection and welfare of others.

I think I are more appealing when I am coming from my soul than from my brain. I think that when I’m focused in the moment my soul is more inclined to come out later than my brain. But when I am not focused in the moment and my mind is racing to the past or to the future or to some problem that hasn’t yet materialized.. Then I am more apt to approach life later on from my brain. The more free I am from.. The more inclined I am to be in touch with GOD… and the more inclined my soul is to radiate outwardly versus my brain.

Humility vs Ego. Disappointment, sadness, grief [humility and faith, strength, confidence] vs fear [lack of faith, lack of humility, lack of strength (power), confidence].

It’s better to come from the soul than from the mind when dealing with others.

When companies no longer want to take responsibility -it’s an incredible fact that the public should not stand for.

You ordinarily have certain interactions with people. A normal part of your friendship or relationship. But person “A” wants to continue those certain interactions without the normal amount of time spent in friendship… by person “B”… From the perspective of a person B, person “A” could look like they are trying to exploit or use them. But is it person “A’s” problem that person “B” no longer wants to invest the time?

After you defeat someone and begin playing up the tremendous skill and abilities.. You are you really complimenting?

Who’s placing who 1st? Corporate America used to place the customer 1st -now it’s not. This is very telling. If you’re not going by principles, you’re going by power. Principles tend to offset power!

Watch when missing a meeting becomes one day, then 2, then 3, then a week…

If relationships are supposed to be found on a language of the hear to come and tell me why so many bear and eerie physical resemblance to one another? Why aren’t there more relationships where the physical is less of a resemblance in the language of the heart is more of a resemblance?

People who don’t know what they’re doing or what they’re feeling can be such a pain i* t** a**.

Some people find great comfort in other human beings while others find none whatsoever -received none whatsoever.Others received nothing but grief. Is this the beauty of our diversity as human beings? And some ways we shouldn’t be diverse at all But man loves his diversity and his freedom to choose to be as such -and it sucks sometimes! The 2 things I see man most consistent ant are retaliation when his eagle has been bruised and collecting a debt. Real winners huh All involving self!

Some people are willing to put in the effort but don’t know what they’re doing. Some people know what they’re doing but are unwilling to put in the effort.

You can always tell when someone is lying to you somewhere somehow… because I always tell you what you want to hear! Not even GOD can make that claim!

We’re all weak in one area or another; so next time you are in the presence of… someone weak… think! think! think!

Whenever we are in a difficult situation, most of us feel strained; when we see someone else in a difficult situation of a similar nature, some of us have no empathy whatsoever; are even cold, or callous, or ruthlessly critical!

The repercussions for even a tiny increase in dishonest people in a society is huge!

I used to be worried about myself and what I was going to get into next… and about the worlds…. Now I’m only worried about the worlds.

Some people’s relationships are like a drug. They need continual doses of such things as reassurance.

Sometimes I think I say things negative because I no longer can think of anything positive to say

I don’t just have to worry about other people; I must remain continually vigilant with regard to myself and my ownmotives, my own degree of hunger and twistedness!

The age difference and money difference: She has opted to forego not one; but both! ☺!EVERYTHING IS JUST FINE!☺ACCEPTANCE

Whether we like it or not, our approach and our relationships has everything to do with how people feel and respond and decide. The reason for this, the reason I make this bold statement is because so many people these days are “REACTIONARY”. OR, MORE SPECIFICALLY -LIKE “THE ‘PROVERBIAL RAT’ PUSHING ‘THE BUTTON’ LOOKING FOR ‘THE[IR] NEXT PELLET’.” 🤷‍♂️ When people are pleased with us they tend to respond a certain way and when they are displeased with us they tend to respond to certain way. This is fairly consistent. Has nothing to do with… really 🤔😔

Look for credit card companies to start asking for proof of income. I don’t know why they haven’t been doing it to begin with but I can tell you this much -as people become more crooked in society; they’re going to be lying about these things. It’s part of a reason we’re losing so many of our privilege. Companies are not real hit on privileges call these days to remove them because the same people on one side of the counter are basically the same as the people on the other side of the counter -everybody looking to get more these days [or shell out less]!!!!

Settle for a little less than fair in your dealings with people; and you might be amazed at the results

There’s a difference between giving money to your kids out of guilt and giving money to your kids out of love. Or any other reason besides love for that matter.

Keep it simple: Shoot upward rather than downward! This with regard to your dealings in your relationship.

The day they start making us pay before we receive services… Right now we pay before receiving goods but after we receive services. The day corporate America starts making us pay before we receive a service rather than after is the day corporate America has Americans by the throat! But the day is coming and the impetus for it will be a society that is untrustworthy. Welcome whatever the h*** is left we end up paying afterwards for… look for that to go away because trusting is becoming more and more a thing of the past. Giving people the benefit of the doubt. A courtesy… Call it what you will…

When satan attacks -RUN TO GOD! 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️ IT’S QUITE SIMPLE! Isn’t that what any child does with THEIR PARENT? POINT? People take things soooo personally! Think everything, including GOD’S decisions are (all) about them. “”GOD” didn’t listen to my prayers” (because HE already had a plan that did in fact take into account YOU/ME/EVERYONE -as always 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️)… It’s not all about you; it’s not all about me!

FACEBOOK “GOD had a plan for your partner long before you came along -so don’t get upset because HE follows through on it after you arrive on the scene. Also your children, before you even had them!”

FACEBOOK “A major issue among society is that we have good people mixed in with not so good people; and informed people mixed in with ignorant people. And then we have the ones that don’t do anything or know anything or try to affect change in a positive or negative way* whatsoever.”

*However, I believe a very wise man once stated “if you’re not a part of the solution, you’re a part of the problem!” 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️ So that would mean that the majority of humanity is a part of the problem -as would be indicated by the direction we’re going in. You can’t argue with the numbers. You can’t argue with what is staring you [and I] right in the face!

FACEBOOK “People generally fall into 4 categories. This was from 28 or 30 years ago:

▪︎IGNORANT

▪︎MALISCIOUS

▪︎BENIGN

▪︎INDIFFERENT”

FACEBOOK “The problem with any issue faced is that a certain number of people in the population are always seeking opportunity [and that number seems to be increasing -we (often) become (learn from) our contemporaries and our predecessors]. We will always have issues when man takes on the role of “taker” rather than “giver”. “Avoider” (exploiter) rather than “sacrificer”.”

“Why don’t you just let GOD take it from here -and walk you the rest of the way Rick!”

The majority of the people walking around on this planet today are the same people who crucifIed JESUS 2000 years ago. So when you’re out there running around… And you get this uneasy feeling… 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

Imagine the conflict among us, and GOD trying to address each of our wants, and needs! Two people for example, “wanting the same thing”. 🤷‍♀️🤔🤷‍♂️

It’s different when it’s in writing. Ot’s different when wha you suspected, 100 other people got together and wrote down in a book.

FACEBOOK “You can argue someone’s opinion; but you can’t argue their experience!” 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

FACEBOOK “A PURE-HEART! A FREED-SOUL; CONVEYS SOMETHING LIKE NO OTHER!” 🤷‍♂️🙏🏻🤷‍♀️

Some of us would love to reap all the gifts life has to offer simply through omission or halting bad behaviors. But yhat doesn’t build character! That’s not earning, that’s… WE GET SOMETHING WHEN WE REFRAIN -EE GET SOMETHING WHEN WE TAKE POSITIVE, AFFIRMATIVE ACTION. I THINK THE TWO [WE REAP ONE THING WIRH THE FORMER, MULTIPLE THINGS WITH THE LATTER] ARE VERY DIFFERENT -THE PROCESS IS CERTAINLY VERY DIFFERENT!

We think 🤔 by getting what we want; we will be OK emotionally! We don’t want to change to suit circumstances. The problem is that when I’m not spiritually fit, I even get agitated when I do get my own way because “Life not my way” “Life my way” is not the problem “I AM!”

“PAINTING WITH WORDS”

Wanting what you have; Having what you want [spiritual vs material]

Bring the spirit in; and leave the personality out!

FACEBOOK “When I fear things I don’t need to fear -IT’S MY SPIRIT[UAL-CONDITION]!”

FACEBOOK “GOD knows what we would do in situations we will never face; and HE knows what we would do differently in situations given a second chance” [another opportunity]. M&R👫

The one with the most sobriety…

▪︎GOD IN US

▪︎How to get GOD in us

▪︎ How are we, what do we exude once we have GOD in us?

FACEBOOK “Everything’s fine -even if it’s not fine! That’s the thing many people don’t understand in GOD’S universe.”

Why doesn’t GOD answer prayers we feel are good and right?

▪︎Not time yet?

▪︎ Has something better in mind?

What do you think the aliens think when they see how we operate? If there was somebody else superior out there watching, besides GOD, it would be pretty pathetic wouldn’t it? Confusing anyways, to say the least!

FACEBOOK “We don’t trust each other in America anymore -and satan’s down there laughing his a** off!!!! As a matter of fact, doing the right thing or… Trusting kindness nowadays is considered foolish. satan’s laughing his a** off even more! How does that make you feel? I know how it makes me feel! Furious!!!!”

Even when I get my way I’m still restless, irritable, and discontent. Because you see, the problem to the answer is not getting my way, the problem is me. The problem is not enough GOD;! NOT -Not enough of the world!

“This is an entirely set of new principles you are trying to adopt semi: it will take some time!”

“When you think about it, people cashing in; and companies cashing in on things people need, it’s pretty LOW!” I know, I know… It’s the American way, it’s the way of capitalism… But just the same THE FACTS ARE THE FACTS! Getting used to something or being conditioned to something or trusting those in Authority doesn’t negate [dilute] the truth of the matter! 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

Some people are looking for Love and companionship; others, for excitement and a more interesting lifestyle they can neither imagine, nor bring to fruition on their own [resources]! 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

What good are [harboring, entertaining] hang-ups and vices if you’re no longer interested in acting on them?

The relationship where both people are willing to give more than they take… it’s almost guaranteed not to fail! Many relationships go for years and even a lifetime with only one person applying this principle!

I’m willing to do 6040 and what that means is it I’m willing to give more than I take out of this relationship. And I think a lot of people put things ahead of the relationship they have no business doing. Things that really don’t even matter or should matter less then the integrity of the relationship itself.

Until we learn to “absorb” each other’s imperfections rather than “slingshot” them back at one another; WE’RE GOING TO CONTINUE WITH THE SAME PROBLEMS WHICH HAVE BEEN PLAGING MAN SINCE THE BEGINNING OF HIS EXISTENCE!

Not drinking was enough for a while!

Attempting to use the world as your basis for how you want to feel [about anything, towards anything] reaps the lowest form of contentedness!

It’s a basic law: EVERYTHING COMES AT A PRICE -ALCOHOLISM! Perhaps one of the more costly for desecration ONE OF THE MOST VIATAL -A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD!

Some relationships require more courage than others! Oftentimes people like that courage so the relationship never materiabias and these people never get to the other side and experience the awe and wonder that rewards courage!

The only thing worse than a man who’s got nothing to lose is a man who can’t feel anything!

GOD is trying to get us to believe the truth rather than the lie; satan is trying to get us to believe the truth is a lie!

People who believe in God would treat aliens landing on Earth like anything else because God is bigger than anything else. People who do not believe in God or who are severely having their faith tested would treat aliens landing on Earth like the biggest thing ever because their concept of God is weak or absent altogether. It’s like an alcoholic anonymous, no matter what happens we rely on the principles and trust in God. Alcoholics in their cups rely on manipulation and fear and control to face daily situations. See the similarity with many people in the world? We’re so frazzled and disconnected as a species that if aliens ever did land we’d be a complete f****** mess.

Spirituality is believing in people and finding out later you are wrong about them. Heat nism is disbelieving in people and finding out you are wrong about them.

Carelessness; Selfishness; Thoughtlessness!

If you have a problem that keeps you going back to GOD time and time again and asking for his help-why wouldn’t he want to keep the problem there whereas otherwise once the problem was solved do it turn your back on HIM!

☆☆☆☆☆Alcoholism is very real- THINK ABOUT IT 🤔

▪︎2 BULLIES; TAKE ONE AWAY

▪︎Got to point “I know I’m going to eventually- so why torture myself for the next 2 days 🤷‍♂️

▪︎ What else do you do 8 hours [or more] a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year? Sex, filet-mignon, Lobster…. bubble-gum ice-cream a week straight -then not again for 20-some years.

▪︎ I was weak in every respect.

▪︎ IT SCARED THE HELL OUT OF ME; SOMETHING GETTING PROGRESSIVELY WORSE & NO SOLUTION?

▪︎ I never tried to control my drinking; and I never started drinking just before bedtime!

▪︎ I love being SOBER; but sometimes LIFE SUCKS!

The more lethargic, the more listless your relationship, the more you will look for things outside of that core loving void to fill and make up the difference. It’s a common thing among human beings-especially in a fruitful society such as ours.

Healthy people tend to be free from the sense that something bad is going to happen!

It’s not like what’s coming to you insessions is mapped out or dialogged or or written on a screenplay [preplanned] – How much does it take to sit in front of a complicated human being without any warning of what’s coming and engage them -let alone help them? ~ On being a good therapist~ 🤔

2 things:

1〕This incredible obsession we could shake matter what we tried;

2] We come into AA and it leaves us!

3] People who hang around AA have a tendency to stay sobe!

What Culture seems to have the least amount of seld-tespect?

Relationship [perhaps more than anything] take an added toll on us that requires taking extra-measures in order to stay SPIRITUALLY FIT! 🤷‍♂️

☆☆☆☆☆The hardest thing in the world is to keep doing what got you there after you’ve arrived!

Definition of POWERLESSNESS: the harder I tried freeing myself from my addiction… the more my addiction rebelled!!!

Neither most doctors or lawyers a couple of centuries ago were very well off. So what is changed? Well man has decided that it’s OK to exploit his human counterpart in these areas which once upon a time would have been considered valueless and cold!

Alcoholism is a very real illness!

It’s hard being a giver; which is why there are so few in the world! 🤷‍♂️

What your income is and what something costs-play off each other. To a person with a $1000 a month income a $10 cheeseburger is like paying $30.To a person with a $4000 income it’s like paying 5 bucks.

Turning the other cheek and giving without asking anything in return are two* of the most powerful things among human-beings. First of all, because there are so fewwilling to do that -something not taken for granted? In certain instances, things begin to sink in and people rethink in both of these human responses and behavior [rethink when they have been gifted an experience with these types of people].JESYS was the master of both!

* Surrendering and stop kicking ourselves i* t** a** are the 2 most difficult things -and the most self centered of things. They are at the end of the aforementioned spectrum!

One problem is that people are not very good at offering [help]. But perhaps an equally prevalent problem is that many people are not very good at asking [help]..

Without the spirit of gratitude, many of the situations we will encounter in life among our fellow human beings will be very difficult to stomach; to get thru!

Can GOD [still] affect something without doing anything? Kind of like can HE make a rock that HE cannot lift?

In most cases the man tends to make more money and pay for evenings out together with his wife a girlfriend. It only seems reasonable that if the woman happens to make more money that she would do the same. I think it’s only a matter of practicality and common sense.

There’s something much more and much more significant to be received when giving rather than receiving come giving rather than giving and taking or receiving. People like this receive a reward that is immeasurable and a reward that often takes their relationships to a place that can only be reached by being as such.

To many people in the new end upcoming generations, people are just things like anything else-less than things in some cases.

GOD uses principles to reach in and touch our heart; satan uses the world. Now just think about that 🤔 GOD uses the world to help us practice [experience and grow] Victory; while satan uses the world to help us practice [experience and decline] defeat!

FACEBOOK ☆☆☆☆☆ After all we did do ourselves; after all we did to others; after the way we treated GOD… our punishment from this so called “punishing-GOD” is a program of life so “INDESCRIBABLY WONDERFUL”: A program for living how we should have been living from the very start! This is our punishing GOD? 🤔 THE 12-STEP PROGRAM!!!!! 🤷‍♂️

FACEBOOK “NOBODY CAN HAVE EVERYTHING -why would you WANT TO anyways? 🤷‍♂️ Supposedly, 🤔 “holes in our lives” or so I have been told: “give essential meaning to those ‘non-holes’ in our lives”; a [deeper] meaning which could not exist otherwise” [without those holes!]”. Think about it! 🤔

FACEBOOK ☆☆☆☆☆ “If GOD is indeed a punishing GOD -this Christian GOD… 🤔 Then answer me this: why are so many bad-people running around unpunished? Man never gets around to these questions though. He’s too busy thinking he’s got GOD pegged dead-to-rights. The fact of the matter is; most of us know very little about GOD -and the fact of the matter is; we never will with this “line-of-thinking” or “train-of-thought”.” 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

FACEBOOK “There are patterns among the seeming non-patterns of life. For example, bad things seem to happen to good people; and good things seem to happen to bad people -no discernible pattern there that makes sense to us right?Wrong! It seems to dictate or denote a universe where anything can happen -where there is no law; or rule-of-thumb! Right?? Wrong!!”

FACEBOOK “What is a life without values? I used to run around lying, cheating, stealing! I don’t do that anymore! I have a life with values! To have a life worth living today! What sort of life do you suppose you have today* -that lacks values?” 🤔 Think about it!

*A life where one hates themselves -is no life at all! 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

▪︎I can live in my own skin today

▪︎ Forgive yourself most of all

▪︎ Get to know yourself again

▪︎ Get back to the things you loved in life

▪︎ Are you prepared for the worst possible tragedies affecting your sobriety? People who get away from the 12 step program -TEND NOT TO BE! 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

GOD uses the world to perfect us; while satan uses it to destroy us!

Many men want something from women that women feel is derogatory. Many women want nothing from many men. At least many men want something from a woman. The lowest thing in the world is to see no value, to take no interest whatsoever in a human being.

GREG My grandmother was abusive and demeaning at times Threatening. She would scare me with her punishments which is something a person should never do with a child. She used manipulation.

They lower prices and people start to buy in increasing numbers. Seems to be a law of humanity. But the particular thing has to be a value to begin with. And there can be programmed.

Some people are ignorant but they are not stupid

The problem with relating as a guide, or tool, is that when human beings cannot relate to something -They tend to dismiss it out of hand; WHEN, AND WHERE IN FACT THEY SHOULD NOT! 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

I say to a woman (Felicia for example) passing by “You seem like a good lady”. I say it very low and it catches her by surprise. She asked if I said something, and I reply “no, I didn’t”. It becomes something of an issue. “Yes you did, you said “I seem like a good lady”. “But you see karma I had to do it this way in order to leave a more engrained impression in her brain -in future; Otherwise she would have simply dismissed it as she has done so many other times in previous dialog”.

Too many adolescents in this country. Accounted “for” by all the drinking and drugging and other things that stunt development. And accounting to by all of the spending going on in this country nowadays. Adults, and truly mature and complete individuals have no need for a bunch of things. Ask your grandparents and their grandparents before them… They weren’t on the spending spree continually.

The world is not a benign place; but a GOD who belies it all is. Therefore, with the exception of human beings, everything around us is benign [Is that true? We’re not in Paradise any more!]]

Most of us are cowards in one form or another. And heroes?

We have to be flexible in our relationships -not rigid.

Sometimes when we do things without thinking about what we’re doing they seem to work out just right-our minsds and our bodies seem to know just what to do without our conscious interference.

The thing about turning the other cheek and giving without asking anything in return is that they leave no room for criticism, or rebutted whatsoever -just a dead silence!

“Willingness to believe” spoke at same time I read.Pg. 46 BB

Everytime man’s freedom to think as he wishes, or; that he isn’t “the spearhead of creation” [the “end-all-be-all”] of the Universe; they challenge it, they tear it to pieces until it no longer poses a threat to these things!

Marriage -the government has overstepped… the boundary between “church-and-state” by dictating “gay-marriage”! 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

FAITH -we had faith 8n the bottle; FAITH in the dope-dealer! 🤷‍♂️🙏🏻🤷‍♀️

If GOD is a punishing GOD… then why are there so many bad people running around unpunished? It’s a fallacy by Satan to divide us from GOD!

If satan revealed himself to us it would cause us to rethink THE EXISTENCE OF GOD!

You put any of us under a microscope, our lives, our histories, and YOU WILL FIND FLAWS! MISTAKES! IMMORALITY?

ONE OF THE DUMBEST QUESTION EVER ASKED “Is there a creative intelligence at work in the universe?”

The 1st line God instilled is our common sense calm the 2nd line is consequences… the last thing is God actually punishing us.

If you’ve never read the big book of alcohol it’s anonymous then when you’re sitting in a meeting how will you know whether what people is sthing is in line with the program or not? If you’ve never read The Bible then how can you know whether or not what people are saying about it is true or not?

Just because something is painful doesn’t mean it’s not beneficial… man is slow in this regard! Just because something is painful doesn’t mean it’s harmful! Man is slow in this regard!

GOD’S punishment for the way we is alcoholics and attics conducted ourselves is to give us a program which shows us how to do what we should have been doing all along. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

… After all, man is hard on GOD –is he not? 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

Not all of us is bound by time!

To be honest with you, I wasn’t particularly interested in GOD’S debt-relief-plan; I was more so interested in his workman’s-comp-plan! I know a man who came into alcoholic’s anonymous and chose “the alternate route”, and quite honestly, it appears he faired better than me -sooner!

OK 🤔 SOOOOO Let’s talk about the movie the arrival. Several spacecraft come down into our atmosphere and hover just above the Earth’s surface. So what happens next:

▪︎ Many people panic and fear for their lives because their physical life is hydrogeither the only thing they’ve ever known or is the most important thing to them in spite of their intelligence, education, and spiritual beliefs which supposedly run to the contrary;

▪︎ The people who were at least open to the possibility of aliens do not react so extremely. It’s the ones that were closed to the notion that there is something other than man and his majesty existing in the universe;

▪︎ Naturally there are those who want to try and exploit the situation as well, there’s always one [million] in the bunch;

▪︎ There are those who will try to reason;

▪︎ There are those who immediately think of going to war with a spacecraft millions of years ahead of our technology lol

▪︎ Overall, we are basically disjointed. Such extremes exist between us that there is an array of responses. Where there shouldn’t be. We are so defiant and consumed with our own individuality that we even refuse uniformity where it is practical.

▪︎ And if the government ever did know about the existence of such being.. Of course they refuse to prepare the masses because it’s more important to have your own little toy secret and to be a team player. Do you really think most human beings care so much about one another that they’re keeping this secret to avoid potential panic? Potential panic that harms the public, or; potential panic that interferes with their own agenda?

▪︎BOTTOM-LINE: Man is an arrogant, illogical [often unthinking], self-centered creature; He seldom is adequately prepared because he chooses to remain in his own ignorance, he is over confident, he is a slave to his money and therefore avoids at all cost any seemingly unnecessary costs, or all the above! And he likes to keep secrets as stated above]! Many times, he doesn’t care how he gains advantage over his fellows Whether it be by increasing his own strength or by weakening his own kind. The latter of course not helping things any should our species as a whole face a challenge requiring all WE can bring to the table to address it.

Time won’t let me time of the season

Man didn’t write The Bible, I read it 3 times. And man is neither that smart or honest or truthful or humble. Humble is the ability to recognize your own faults – Is according to some.

People who don’t have respect for their parents growing up tend not to have respect for society in general.

I think a person who has a lot of admiration for their parents accomplishment and character has a far more positive outlook on life in general and a sense of worth about themselves. People who don’t of course… probably have a more difficult time with these things.

You wanna know what one of the best things is about humanity? There is so much room [potential] for improvement!

If Russia launches their missiles at us and we’re already dead? Then what exactly is the point after the fact of us launching hours? If our actions are always to protect ourselves, and it’s already too late to protect ourselves, then wouldn’t deny elating the Russians be a malicious act? Wouldn’t wiping out humanity as a whole beer malicious act questioremark wiping out the reminder of humanity be a malicious act?

GOD doesn’t like to punish -what parent does?

GOD’S criteria [requirements, expectations, demands, desires…] for humans is very, very short; MAN’S on the other hand… 🤔

In homosexuality, the problem doesn’t start with attraction to the same sex but lack of attraction towards the opposite-sex!

We are both fortunate with regard to 🤔 THE THINGS THAT MATTER MOST!

Attitudes & Actions.

It’s best not to have THE THOUGHT or THE INCLINATION AT ALL; as opposed to FIGHTING IT!

STEP 12: Find a real-life-example of what this looks like. For me it is Atticus Finch

The caboose hasn’t caught up to the engine yet in my relationship with Maggie!

It’s the PRINCIPLE’S [GOD IN ME] my partner is attracted to, not me!

As long as there are no global threats to us.. There is no need for unity among men But there are global threats continually. Especially the things eating at each of us individually -but across the entire species.But so many of us are either unaware or we do not find them significant enough to override our feelings of individuality, and our feelings of ill-will towards one another! It’s easier and less demathing to pick and chlose a click then to be involved with the world at large! That’s why most people never fully evolver develop. It’s been a long time coming being able to reach the entire world, and now that we can we’re no more willing than we were when we were shut off from most of it. If we ever were hit with something that we actually think is significant on a global level.. This species would be caught with its pants down, hands ✋ ✋ down 👎! Bottom-line: Man really doesn’t appear all that interested in UNITING or in SELF-IMPROVEMENT!

How many people is a human being capable of loving? The answer for most of us by choices about 4 or 5 Max -No wonder we’re so empty and so weak has a species

GOD is a lover. GOD is a lover of all mankind. GOD is a lover who infiltrates all! Think about it… GOD in us versus GOD not in us! 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

It doesn’t go over too well with God, telling him what he should do for you! Believe me I’ve tried it…

FACEBOOK “I remember asking my credit card company about what happened to the grace period we used to enjoy with our payments? You know what they told me? Oh, well we send out the bill early now so you have plenty of time to pay it. And I thought to myself, well didn’t need to do that before? Send out the bill ahead of time and still give you a 10 day grace. For paying it without a late fee? You see what these companies are doing is they’re getting rid of… they are putting into place different rules so that they can benefit from them with these fees. $30 now for a late fee? Give me a break!!!!!!!! Just to give you some idea what’s happened to America, letting the company get away with charging to make a payment WTF?????? You should be grateful you’re getting my business! But many of them are not anymore, they have an attitude of… If you don’t like it you can go somewhere else!” 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

FACEBOOK “What is a human being without principles? Without GOD? What is a human being who doesn’t care if another human being has principles? Only what they can get out of that individual? A perfect example is human trafficking!”

THE 12-STEP PROGRAM IS FOR PEOPLE WHO HAVE LOST “THE NATURAL ABILITY” TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD! 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

☆☆☆☆▪︎I never got pulled over driving home from an AA-MEETING!

AA restores my choice “not to drink”; It doesn’t take away MY CHOICE TO DRINK -I CAN GO OUT THAT DOOR RIGHT NOW IF I SO CHOOSE!

Being a good AA means obeying the laws of the land and respecting them

Every now and again you can buy something and turn around and sell it for more

Intensity coupled with sincerity….

Lord let me be compassionate and grateful at all times!

Absorb as much of GOD as possible as frequently as possible!

What is a good indicator for u that u are SPIRITUALLY-FIT?

THE PERSON WHO HAS THE MOST SOBRIETY IS THE ONE WHO HAS “THE MOST GOD IN THEM”!

AS I GREW INTO ADULTHOOD, MY SELF-WILL BEGAN TO ERUPT -AND THUS BEGAN “THE DECLINE” OF MY RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD!

The more places I show up to where GOD is -the better I feel!

There’s life, and that presents its own unique set of struggles. But when you add to it human selfishness…. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

ALCOHOLICS WANT “SOMETHOR NOTHING”!

IN SUMMING UP ANY RELIGION; ANY 12-STEP PROGRAM; ANY SPIRITUALLY-BASED-GROUP; GET AS MUCH OF GOD IN YOU AS FREQUENTLY AS YOU CAN!!!!

[MARCH 12th 2023 Prayer: “Lord, will YOU grant us 30 years together; from this day forth -PLEASE?” Maggie: “I WOULD LOVE THAT!” P.S. And please grant “J” a new set of teeth!

FACEBOOK Man refuses to yield to the notion that there is one GOD -because he refuses to serve together with his fellow man under one GOD!

Not everyone can so easily get into a relationship. And many who can -end up regretting it!

Flip a coin every second and you will get a result naturally -Wait an extra second, and you result will change! Or will it?

3 “HEADS IN A ROW! 3:15 am’ish or so!

1] Do you want me to tell Maggie about the… “HEADS”

2] “CONFIRMATION” Do you want me to tell Maggie about the… “HEADS” [2nd “of two in a row]

3] Do we use this as our little “NEST-EGG” LORD? “HEADS” [3rd “of three in a row”]

I’ve always thought it strange that someone with trust issues like myself tends to trust so much. Trusting but extremely suspicious. What does that mean? Well, you can’t have a relationship or proceed emotionally without trust -right?

So why doesn’t GOD remove from us things we ask HIM to?

▪︎GOD rarely removes something forcibly

▪︎GOD wants us to grow & develop character [grow in HIS likeness].

▪︎Penance

Our feelings of gratitude when we are gifted food [from above -all things good descend from above] should run at least as deep as our feelings of deep desparation when we don’t have food.

You would think that being good to one another would be sufficient for a relationship; for the acceptance of a partner. But not in America!

▪︎It’s easier to act sane when you are sane

▪︎The safest way to avoid the risk of getting angry at someone; is to be free from anger within! 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

▪︎The greatest guarantee of avoiding retaliation against another is to nake up your mind to react out of love under any and all circumstances, or conditions!

The less man has, the less he tends to take for granted. The problem is… people always want more; not less!

When a person has been given so much by God come and the only thing that satan can think of to make a man ungrateful about our petty things in comparison!

There’s a time to be competitive and a time not to be competitive! You do not want to be competitive on the road with your fellow drivers!

We need to do our part -not because GOD needs our help; but because HE loves us!

2 things form the basis of a relationship but 4 things form the basis of a human being’s choice regarding a partner in many parts of the world:

▪︎ Values and Personality [which form “the heart”]

▪︎ Values and personality and income and interest; the 2 latter one’s being more superficial.

Just keep matching satan’s lies with God’s truth and eventually you will win out.

A lot of people would never pay prices out of pocket that their employers pay… For services and goods. But the attitude of the employee is that it’s not their money that’s being spent so…. And of course businesses understand this attitude which assist them in raising their prices to a level only considered absurd or pompous!

I trust but I’m suspicious -figure that 1 out!

What is a law that doesn’t protect people from people? A lot of laws regarding people’s homes and property don’t!

“I rarely ask you for anything LORD –and yet I have received so much! 🙏🏻🤷‍♂️🙏🏻

A person who does wrong to you may hurt you; but they harm themselves! What’s the difference between hurt and harm? One reaps pity from God and is mercy while the other reaps wrath and a loss of HIS grace!

“I think whatever feelings I have about the things that went on in my childhood were so terrifying to me that IT’S TOO MUCH TO BARE EVER AGAIN -IM SO TERRIFIED OF EVER GOING THRU THAT AGAIN -IN THE CORE OF MY INNERMOST BEING!“

Trying to entice people into debt for monetary gain and even excess, seems pretty sleezy to me!

10% tax across-the-board for everyone -EVERYONE! Why is this so hard?

The world of man -and what he thinks matters! 😔

Life isn’t perfect; but those who really try -sometimes come pretty close!

In the area that you live in, do they take extra precautions? Asking provide ID’s along with taking your insurance card at the doctor? Scanning you at all the government offices for weapons? CIf so, this could be a sign the area you’re living in has got more than its fair share of less than desirable individuals! Like where we live!

We have to think about other people; that’s the heart and soul of a civilization! Of a society! Of any species!

■satan wants us to believe God’s blessings are the lie! It’s quite simple really -the game of seek-out-and-destroy! Is a chest match of sorts! More like a game of shadows actually-it’s unfortunate that we brought this upon ourselves! But it is what it is, and we must do our best! We hold the key actually! There is no chance in this game! We either utilize the tools and the opportunities available to us -or we fail, WE LOSE!

■Maybe my own mistrust is the price I pay for my own deception in my past!

■My uncle calls me up once again yesterday, asking me if I know where his third pair of pants went? I think this is possibly having a direct effect on my own trust in my relationship -in a surprising sort of way. Not only is he implanting in me the notion that the world cannot be trusted, but that not even family can be trusted. Does he do this with his own children? Grandchildren?

■The inner child either wants a play-mate or a parent. Not too interested in a partner. I think Maggie is more of a partner and a parent than a playmate. Whereas Ana was more of a playmate and a partner. I don’t think the inner-child is too happy with the partner parent thing at this point in life. REVOLTING?

■ I think my family’s own untrustworthiness [parents/certain family-members hypocricy] coupled with their own mistrust of the world; is really f’ing with me -A FAMILY CURSE?

■ I’m not as desirable as other people.

is your partner ALL YOU EVER WANTED -or merely “the best you’ve ever had?”

Some people in our lives are irreplaceable; non-upgradeable! 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

*****The worst place in the world for and Alcoholic is: Not having a drink and not yet having the program!

What’s normal is what GOD asks of us! In the 90’s, 00’s, what came out was “What’s normal” -another plot of satan to try and confuse man, dilute man further!

It’s a wonderful thing not thinking you’re great when you are -it can also be very uncomfortable, or painful in “the extreme”!

Interdependence

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1] a) what would cause you to walk away from this relationship? Or marriage later?

Well. In answer to question a or 1, unfaithfulness or abusiveness would cause me to walk away.

But walk away, well, probably if you made it so staying together wouldn’t work.If you were unhappy with me, or wanted someone else [but we don’t have to worry bout that].

1] b) is simply losing interest a possible facet?

In answer to question b, the only way I’m gonna lose interest is if you are unfaithful or abusive

😘 Not sure I could lose interest, I’ve demonstrated, learned rather, when u trly love. It never dies

Don’t see happening, you’re TOO BEAUTIFUL

2] You are holding another man’s hand in a meeting that is very attractive to you; or somebody who’s clever or very interesting… I mean someone that catches your attention and stirs feelings in you?

And for question 2, I’m with you and will be with you. Therefore no one else of the opposite sex is of interest to me. PERIOD.

Provided u were not in love with and yearning for some one else

You don’t need to worry about that tho. Im not an unfaithful person

Yes, I realize the latter was a non-issue after I sent it

It didn’t take me long because I know myself love

I made many of the mistakes you didn’t, the pain of them has given me growth equating to something like character; and I’ve come to realize the very bad examples, and advice in my childhood are BS

I also expressed to you that I believe relationships are very much like parent and child relationships you don’t throw people away for something “better”. The person your with is irreplaceable because they are one-of-akind. If you already have one person in your heart why would you go looking for someone else or want someone else there?

And lastly I’m looking for love not superficial pleasures or superficial happiness. Besides happiness has never been a huge priority of mine anyways lol. Love and being connected has. Besides I don’t have a very high opinion of the human race nor of most women I’ve encountered. I tend to shy away from women anyways as opposed to… a great number of men who want to… 🤷‍♂️

Honestly, I know all about the trade-up game and the pleasure game and being treated like an asset or a liability, people in general deserve better -THEREFORE, MY PARTNER MOST CERTAINLY DOES!

Showing love through giving, and doing, and sacrificing

Even slight unrequittance can be a problem in relationships. How many people want this or are in the mood for that their partners or not?

When you’re dealing with a person a very high character, and smarts-they do not respond typically!

People think they’re over a resentment with someone till they’re in the same room with them. And if you think that’s the only time it’s eating you alive…

Men have to worry more about their women than other men [than do men (being over-powered or encroached upon by other women)]; but aren’t I a man (and therefore shouldn’t my partner have atleast some concern (not for my values, but I mean based upon the reputation of our species)?

How can we be at our worst and our best? Well, that’s a hard question to answer but I will give it my best. Man tends to vacillate between GOD’S will and satan’s. When he is doing GOD’S will, satan goes on the attack. When he is not doing GOD’S will, satan tends to encourage man! Perhaps even lend empowerment [since our will in “this” is so set].

Awareness can be the best thing; or the worst thing!

satan’s want to continually provoke, and confuse us!

THE JEWS! Either:

■ There isn’t a GOD;

■ HE doesn’t care;

■ They brought “the Holocaust” on themselves;

■ THEY’RE OWN SUFFERING IS SAVING MILLIONS OF SOULS!

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Make Peace and Serenity your priority!

Keep your mind clear and guard it!

WORRYING weakens a man; FAITH strengthens a man!

You’re not responsible for what other people do; Only for what you do!

satan wants us to believe GOD’S Blessing’s are the lie!

Don’t make ANY WAVES!

Look for what you can contribute; not what you can take away!

Stay in the now! Stay with GOD!

Not having Faith in others is one thing! Not having Faith in yourself is something entirely different!

I AM TRUSTWORTHY; BUT I DON’T TRUST PEOPLE!

“STOP WORRYING”! “JUST BE HAPPY!”

“CARRY YOUR SELF WELL! CARRY YOUR SELF WITH A SENSE OF “JOY” AND “SINCERITY”.”

I don’t think very highly of myself as far as somebody wanting me come and I don’t trust the world to leave my girlfriend alone! I have the double whammy!

“You know what I think 🤔, I think you’re already done suffering! I think you’ve already saved plenty of souls through your own anguish; and GOD simply wants you to be happy for the remainder of your life -that’s what I think!” BUT WHAT YOU HAD TO GO THROUGH HAS LEFT YOU “Decimated” [had to look up sp?].

With ANA it was the playmate-partner; With MAGGIE it’s the partner-parent. I think little Ricky felt more a part of with Ana than with Maggie. I think little Ricky is very angry about having Maggie replace Ana! HE HAD HOPED… FOR THE LONGEST TIME… I kept asking Greg my counselor why I feel so insecure with Maggie and so secure with Ana – Even though Maggie has done nothing to harm me and Ana has? What I explained to Greg the counselor was that the part of me that really got injured was a young boy, an infant in fact. The part of me that Ana managed to appease was that part! That is why the fear of being betrayed once again, was so subdued with Ana -even though she had betrayed me. But Greg retorted by stating that Maggie in her parenting was also providing healing. But there’s a big difference between healing, and subduing, and appeasing. Giving a child or an infant what they need versus what they want has precarious consequences. Giving the child what they need doesn’t necessarily appease them immediately. Sometimes it makes them even more uncomfortable at the onset!*

*Besides, what does the inner child care whether it’s playmate is having an affair with or sleeping with someone else? What doess a child care about sex? Only about playing and friendship. Oh, I’m sure there can be some jealousy in there under the right conditions. But it never really surfaced with Ana. Which leads me to this conclusion!

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FACEBOOK “Man is becoming greedier. He is turning to his more base self once again. That is the reason prices are going up [CONSUMPTION*]. Don’t fool yourself. That is precisely what is going on with our economy! Why do you think structures like ours only last a couple of 100 years*? One final note “The less he asks of God the more he demands of his fellow man!””

*Resources are running low and man is cutting into them more and more due to his base self increasing over his spiritual self.

*Man is, and has always been -His Own Worst Enemy!

Our attitude has to be different from the world with regard to taking up the slack of others-met deliver

When the moment is good, satan has but no other recourse to twist you back into the past or the present which is bad. True or false,

Some people are desirable among there peers in certain areas. Some people however are desirable anywhere in the world! It’s all a matter of relativity.

The problem for me with FAITH is that GOD allows bad things to happen even to good people. So even if… no matter how far I’ve come… when is it MY TURN? Well? Are those people bad things are happening to, in fact good? 🤔 IF you want to know your future, look at your past. If you want to know what GOD has in store for you; look at what HE has done for you, allowed to happen to you in the past! 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️ I think in my case, GOD has been “very” [Jessica meeting noon] good to ne!

“Don’t be the one who ruins it!”

If you don’t shoot the basketball far enough -YOU HAVE 0 CHANCE OF MAKING IT IN THE BASKET. SO, 100% OF THE TIME, “SHOOT IT FAR ENOUGH!”

I don’t have a problem with temporary pain or damage, it’s the permanent that I have a problem with!

FACEBOOK “Human’s require substance! How can we tell when we’re getting it? And when we’re not?”

FACEBOOK “Lack of FAITH; weakens us: Lack of TRUST; weakens our relationships!” ONE SHOULD STRIVE TO STRENGTHEN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS; NOT WEAKEN THEM [AS IS TOO OFTEN THE CASE]! 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

People who have not suffered tremendous anguish at the hands of their fellows 🤔… when they face “the risks” associated with every day interactions among human-beings, THEY DO NOT ASSOCIATE SOMETHING EXTREMELY PAINFUL, LET ALONE “BEYOND THEIR OWN ABILITY TO WITHSTAND”. THEY ARE CALM AND RELAXED ->WHICH IS EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT TO BE WHEN “FACING LIFE”!

EVERY NOW-AND-AGAIN I HAVE “A MOMENT OF CLARITY” with regard to GOD’S awe and wonder! It’s very, very comforting and makes me proud to know HIM -TO KNOW HE HAS MY BACK IF I WANT IT! HE can do everything; HE knows everything; and HE fears nothing! A VERY GOOD MAN TO KNOW! 🙏🏻👍🏻🙏🏻

The more of GOD you can absorb in any given environment you happen to be in…

Every direction we go in, neew doors open, other doors close.

We each… where we are at as far as coordinates go; have individually, places we feel more “at home with”. Feel a connection to!

The deeper you set the bar on a person [look into them], the less their issues are issues for you, to you!

MY GOD…

KNOWS EVERYTHING!

CAN DO ANYTHING!

AND FEARS NOTHING!

EXACTLY WHAT I NEED!

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

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MY GOD…

KNOWS EVERYTHING!

CAN DO ANYTHING!

FEARS NOTHING!

EXACTLY WHAT I NEED!

🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

Just about every relationship has something that can be said that will change your partner forever; and turn them against you [atleast decimate their hope, their ability to venture forward together -forevermore].

“People gave up their lives in this country “to get freedom” -and the cost of keeping it “is no less”! If you’re not willing to die “to keep your freedom”, then “you will lose it” -and that exactly what happened with the “Snowden ordeal” and “911 ordeal” respectively -or conjointly!” AND THERE YOU HAVE IT! 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️ UPDATE “Death, or freedom rather, is a funny thing: Things have to get bad enough for people to be willing to die for it. A compromise in freedom; often leads to a compromise in willingness to die for freedom; in it’s purist form! Rulers throughout history; take away more and more of the people’s freedom; leading to revolt! Endless cycle!!!! ARE WE LEARNING YET????”

The more privileges are being abused the more they will be taken away, or challenged. That is why it is important that the crop of people existing among societies respect these privileges. Because… these privileges cost*. And whomsoever they cost -are just waiting for any reason, any justification -to take them away!

* And when I say cost, what I mean to say is that “the cost” can be:

▪︎Out of pocket [loss of current revenue or advantage (or depletion)];

▪︎”Potential pocket” loss [loss, or postponement of “potential-gain”] -you see some men operate “one way” others “another way”.

UNFORTUNATELY: THIS IS HUMANITY!

Don’t people or companies care anymore that 5 different companies are all claiming to be the best? Now everybody just claims to be the best and nobody gives a d***? Nobody wants to contend with someone else’s claim?

Did many people refuse to go to Vietnam because it was wrong or because they were no longer willing to die for their country? Was it a combination? Did some people do it for the one reason and others for the other? Or did some individuals have a combination of both working on them inside?

There’s a lot of things the law expects us to put up with Or that in their minds wouldn’t be worth the trouble of going through illegal process. The legal process is long and arduous, but should it be with regard to regard to many of the issues we face in America? I mean should we suck up certain things simply because in comparison seemingly-the legal system really when you Are honest about it… fails us? And then this idea of having to pay for Justice when it falls outside of the circle of “a threat to society”? What about a threat to me?

They’re just men, slaves to their own egos, slaves to their own narrow way of thinking! WARD/AUSTIN

“Healthy people don’t think that way, and if they do -they certainly don’t respond the way you do to those thoughts”.

Most people have a gauge or a m for when they are being over stimulated and under stimulated by their Partners company for example. It exists whether we know it; whether we like it, or not!

It’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard of; making things cheaper so they will break at a measured amount of time so a person can buy another one. And if that’s what is required for the system to maintain itself-then get a new system dammit!

You think talking all day long on the phone your partner through texting and then getting home at the end of the day and talking some more is healthy? The normal healthy working relationships throughout the day allows for [takes the place of and] the natural issues of want and desire to fill the void so that when you get home you want them all the more and miss them. It takes away the time from the relationship so that when you see each other at the end of the day you want them all the more. It also prevents over stimulation in a relationship between the 2 of you leading to boredom, taking things for granted, and just plain getting tired of each other. But people texting throughout the day on and on has subverted these principles. People are giving into their neediness rather than allowing for a forlorned sense of wanting to take shape. Constant seeking out of attention from your partner and interaction would be considered needing as once upon a time! Maybe that’s why I’m not having the issues I had in the past because I’m constantly being fed throughout the day. It maybe that’s the case with a lot of people like myself. Maybe that’s the case with a lot of people in modern day America who have developed the neediness because their needs have not been properly or adequately meant to begin with and it’s being covered up by this constant texting.

Sure, you ask God to Grant you your wish or your desire-but what do you lose, what do you give up by diverting away from god’s initial and better plan for you? 🤷‍♀️🤔🤷‍♂️

When you are amongst a group of people for example, do you think at all of their well-being?

☆☆☆☆☆What WE MUST strive for is: JESUS’ frame-of-being in all aspects! How often do we speak things, or frame things in ways JESUS NEVER WOULD? 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

Until you hear it from the person being talked-about, IT IS UNTRUE!

IT DOESN’T MATTER WHERE YOU LIVE. HOW SMART YOU ARE, WHO YOU KNOW, HOW PRETTY, OR HANDSIME YOU ARE, HOW SHAPELY YOU ARE, HOW MUCH MONEY YOU MAKE; IN THE AA PROGRAM “WE ALL GOTTS DO “THE DEAL””! 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

It might be s very good thing to “ask of GOD”, but your motives may be off! 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

WE ASK GOD for things we are perfectly capable of achieving; which imay be why HE DOESN’T… -hasn’t granted it to us?

The Master enters the room and states “I’m here to learn”.

Are the holidays now to boost the economy and for people to make a killing?

When you think about it Tom people putting up shops so they can sell things to the public and get rich and highly successful… as opposed to serving the basic needs of the American Family in a way that is affordable to them. It sounds a lot like a racket to me! Ahhh, give me back the good old days!

Competition in games, our societies are riddled with them. Jesus never competed – This should tell you somyething. Something,coming from the Master who knows all! As for games, I don’t have to say much about that.

Use God’s wall instead of your own send my calling it works better and it doesn’t keep god out and it doesn’t keep the people out that shouldn’t be kept out.

You ever go faster than the speed limit and then hunk at someone for getting in your way when they’re in your way because you’re going faster than the speed limit?

Try to be a little more than fair.

I want nothing but joy and goodness in my heart!

There’s a difference between a person who doesn’t have values and a person who is screwed up. Though sometimes it may be difficult to tell the difference.

It’s not the thing it’s the thinking! The thought that counts?

What man doesn’t like is the fact that GOD doesn’t bend to his, or her whims, like other men so often do -when there is something in it for them or, when it suits him or, when he is confused (even in his best intentions).

The first GOD WE are introduced to as infants is these huge, and often fallable, human-beings! This is where much of our confusion about GOD begins -further complicated by those who have the audacity to speak of GOD with little or no understanding of this GOD and hence proceed to COMPLETELY CONFUSE THE ISSUE ALTOGETHER! IN EXTREME CASES HYPOCRISY! IN EXTREME CASES, GOD ENDS UP BEING VIEWED NEGATIVELY!!!! WE AS PARENTS ARE REPRESENTATIONS OF GOD [to our children; to all children GET THAT! 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️] whether we wish to be, or not!

I’ve noticed, when I’m in fear I’m very thoughtless of others. So 🤔 the more I am free from fear, the less inclined I am to be “thoughtless of others”.Early in my sobriety I WAS FILLED WITH FEAR -AND HENCE, FILLED WOULD CONTINUAL THOUGHTLESSNESS OF OTHERS!

My GOD…. IS THE ONE THAT HAS BEEN WRITTEN ABOUT FOR MILLENIA, DON’T TRUST MYSELF BEING AN ALCOHOLIC!

Out in front of the ARID Club about 🤔 8 years ago -it dawned on me WE WANT GOD TO ACCEPT US AS WE ARE IN OUR ENTIRETY; BUT WE PICK AND CHOOSE WHO WE WANT GOD TO BE! SO, I SET OUT TO READ ABOUT THIS GOD FOR THE ENSUING YEARS!

Tremendous love showing restraint. How many of us, if we had “the power to intervene” in our children’s lives when in trouble -ACTUALLY WOULD? ACTUALLY COULD? GOD doesn’t come running every time we get our selves into a jam! 🤷‍♀️🤔🤷‍♂️

1]Better to believevin GOD and discover there isn’t one… 2]Uhm, GOD didn’t hurt me, people did!

When you know a certain action is going to bring about a negative consequence or unwanted outcome…….. And you do it nonetheless… 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

As a child I learned not to trust adults!

You get what you pay for in this life. But some things should not be that way like medical care. Everybody working in the medical field should be afforded the best possible training and education so that they can present that to the public who deserved the very best!

Vulnerability, manipulation, the more vulnerable I feel the more fear I feel… I’m not interested in trusting I’m interested in knowing! Because how can you ever really completely know what people are doing when they’re not in your vicinity?

The system is taking what it can get, that didn’t used to be the case years ago. The system cannot function if it asks for more than what it can get. But people suffer when the system pushes it to the limit which is exactly what’s going on now. And you always have to look at the level of excess consumption going on in society pushing it. Access grieve too. If everybody would pull back it would offer relief but that’s not the direction this society is going in period people are becoming more entrenched with materialism and less focused on principles which soothe the inner savage beast.

Suffering is intended to serve a purpose. But what good is it if a person doesn’t realize they’re suffering?

The world has a special place in it tart for young viral omen to middle aged men. It largely disregards or is very untrusting of them. I suppose everybody pays in one way or another including women, children, elderly… The fact of the matter is that the world isn’t really good to anyone unless they have use for them or desire them or can exploit them in the majority of cases -all tolled!

Watch for enthusiasm to drop off in your relationship-they generally do live a lot but watch for where they actually get oir start approaching the red zone.

Just to give me an idea of how screwed up the world is, I want to Taco Bell and they wanted almost $5 for a burrito supreme, so I went down to Albertson’s and got me a 1.17 pound New York steak for $6.42 which means that a burrito at Taco Bell should be about a $99 at most.

The fact of the matter is that with so many things changing so rapidly, men really don’t know what the long term effects are of the majority of these things because there is so new. All they know is there the raking in revenues in the moment. MAN!!!!!🤷‍♂️

“How far will you have come when you reach the end of your life?”

Sincerity is what determines how much in any given moment in time. The more sincere we are the more we shall receive! The more the door is opened! 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️ I asked, and very quickly I received. “I cannot think of the word, but maybe the LORD will grant it to me. Less than a minute later this came to me “FERVOR”. YOU SEE 🤔 GOD TRULY IS!!!!” 🤷‍♂️

“Protect my mind Lord from all enemies foreign and domestic!” 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

90% of what people do for example in their relationships is unnecessary-while 90% of what they dail to do is!

Many a man is already derelict in his duties, so when something comes along like covid to mask it.. Like doctors not calling or following up with their patients lab results – Which they were at times already derelict of duty before covered… And they will use the code as the explanation. M&R👫

turning the other cheek; and giving without asking in return ‐ Are 2 of the most impactful, profound, magical actions which can take place among our species!. Given that so often, retaliation and making sure we get ours are so prevalent -AND DAMAGING -AND NON-HEALING -AND NON-ENCOURAGING TO BONDS BETEEEN US! JESUS accepted kindness from people -only when it was beneficial to them or not harmful to them. 🙏🏻

“GUARD YOUR MIND”

FACEBOOK “Let’s be honest here, the world isn’t the nicest place. But what we don’t want to do is react to it; or deal with it like the typical unhealthy, faithless person. Respond don’t react (with “higher-principles”)?” 🤷‍♂️

FACEBOOK “Throughout my life, I’ve never really placed much of a priority on JOY [Serenity] and Happiness! Though what I pursued throughout life -I was hoping would bring me some*!” 🤷‍♂️

*Essentially, I threw away all hope of joy and happiness [and therefore Serenity], in pursuit of these things! 🤷‍♂️

“Protect yourself, and your relationships; through faith 🙏🏻, not fear 🥺!”

● Life was bad in the past;

● Good in the present;

● And I don’t know what the future holds.

■ And that’s all there is! 🤷‍♂️

Humanity is so varied across the Spectrum from good to bad; healthy to unhealthy; good and evil; strong and weak.. And then, as is so often is the case; we have such a very different set of goals and agendas from GOD’S! This is also true of individual’s themselves:! Is it any wonder that GOD so often refuses us our requests. 🤔🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

Recognizing something and seeing something are 2 different things – Open my heart GOD, not just my eyes!

Lawyers in court can use extortion and threats, but we out here in the world cannot?

The problem isn’t your situation come of the problem issue hiding it. That’s where the problem begins for you. A lot of situations we shouldn’t hide and shouldn’t have to hide.

FACEBOOK “If you as a partner cannot handle the truth then -don’t expect your partner to go on telling it to you in the future. Especially if you’re violent or abuseive or disrespectful.”

If you don’t have anything to give -then you can’t set GOD’S plan in motion! If you’re afraid (and lack courage) -then you can’t set GOD’S plan in motion!

FACEBOOK “For example, we think about the next thing on our mind we want to do in the presence of our partner… Last night my partner and I made love. We gazed into each other’s eyes for an hour maybe longer. Then I thought about turning on the TV and watching a movie together. Then, I thought about how I would feel if I was in her shoes and at some point she decided she wanted to turn on the TV and watch a movie. It took on an entirely different shape. I never turned on the TV to watch the movie -Never even dared bring it up.” 🤔🤷‍♂️

Practice being yourself not who people provoke you to be!

How can you expect GOD to bless you with a wonderful relationship -when you’re maliciously envious of others and theirs?

I sometimes have malicious thoughts of others, but at the end of the day if I had a m**** w*** and could materialize those thoughts I would never do it -Some people however…!

Speak with sincerity and with conviction -always!!!!

High taxes and corrupt government officials DO NOT BODE WELL FOR TAX-PAYING-AMERICANS! NM

The authorities resort to “force” and tell us WE CANNOT! Isn’t that kind of like a parent smoking, and telling their kids “not to”?

What we practice out in the world; we bring into our homes. What we practice in our home; we take out into the world [whether we like it; whether we believe it].

Try to adhere to (practicing) the highest conduct, mannerisms, attitudes… in spite of the world! THIS IN TURN WILL PROMOTE “A NEW PERSONA”!

Worrying only makes us weak. Faith makes it strong!

There are alot of situations you have yet to encounter which would bring out various issues you are not yet aware of -those of you who consider yourselves RELATIVELY HEALTHY! *And there are numerous things in life WE MUST be able to face IF WE ARE TO BE CONSIDERED “HEALTHY” -many people tend to “pick & choose”! 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

●There didn’t seem to be a GOD out there that cared about me -but look at the places I was hanging out at

●God didn’t fulfill our wishes. But the thing so many people overlook is the fact that HE kept us alive so we could get here!

GOD’S WILL? The principles!

NOTHING WILL ENSURE FAILURE/FREEDOM FROM DRINKING!

FACEBOOK “We feed ourselves with what we see rather than what we are and what we do and what we refrain from!” Laziness… Lustfulness… Shallowness… Lack of self-love… 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

FACEBOOK “There’s too many people in this country that don’t give a d*** about other people!”

Exercise in “self-awareness” A lot of people aren’t self aware; Even the ones that are have holes. It’s amazing how many people don’t realize that when they’re with their partner they’re looking a little longer than they should at a man or a woman who catches their. You asked them about it and they won’t have any clue what they’re talking about. It takes a lot of energy to be self aware and a lot of people aren’t interested in expending it. And oftentimes they are very subtle nuances. Most of us tend to look a little longer at someone who catches our eye who is attractive than someone who is unattractive. Natural? I say that little extra time is disrespectful to our partner.

FACEBOOK “That” doesn’t mean you can’t trust your partner! “That’s” your ego!

FACEBOOK “Recovery is an act of self-love!”

FACEBOOK “We can’t control people; but in some instances we can overpower them! Even if we could control people, what would we have? SERIOUSLY!!!! Think it through; I mean THE DESTINATION, not the journey!”

I’m experiencing 2 problems (make that 3):

● Trust in relationships*;

● Very demeaning (bashing/backbiting) judgments of others in my mind**;

● Family very mistrusting***;

● Selfishness!

● Animosity in our family

● The teachings of man as a wicked creature in our Christian faith

*Both of my parents engaged in infidelity and were perhaps promiscuous.

**I heard numerous conversations -character assassination of others from my family. Judgemental… Critical…

***It dawned on me that numerous members of my family are either scared to death of the 🌎 or extremely leary of it. And they pass it on to us [THIS “LACK OF FAITH”]****.

****We human-beings pass on numerous good and bad qualities; generation 🤔 after generation 🤔 after generation 🤔 after generation 🙄!!!!! 💯%

So what do people think about, how do they view life… exc? Happy end at peace living in a world that is so riddled with different kinds of people? Different kinds of character and values?

Some people deal with problems by being confrontational. Should I say, some people deal with their fear of other people through confrontation. Try to cut off the threat that way. Others come by being friendly or passive, pacifying the threat.

I have been hurt by people through the years on a number of occasions; But harmed… I would have to say that GOD has protected me in that manner greatly!

FACEBOOK “Some people know how to hate just as deeply as they know how to love!”

Some people satan can not touch, try as he may to stamp out their FLAME -They already suffered tremandously, early in life -and will not be allowed any further harm!

We need to pity screwed up people not take vengeance on them! They, in many instances are either:

▪︎Their own worst enemy, or;

▪︎Have essentially been robbed of the opportunities so many others tend to take for granted, besides;

▪︎It’s GOD’S will.

FACEBOOK “KEEP in mind; 🤔 When you have a powerful technology in place for example; placing the masses in a vulnerable position and constant or inevitable “changing of the guard” so-to-speak; all it takes is “one-bad-apple” coming in to turn things upside-down!” 🤷‍♀️😔🤷‍♂️

FACEBOOK “They say we can’t control people, or that we’re powerless over them. Try spitting in someone’s face -and see if you’re powerless over them. Try donating a little something to a parent who is desperate to get medicine for their ailing child -and see if you’re powerless over them. About 90% of the time when you offend the ego of an American, they are going to react. Powerless my… Spiritual principles are perhaps the most powerful thing in the universe! Whose spiritual principles we not only affect people -but we can actually help in transforming them! Reforming them!” 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️ Try spitting in someone’s face and see how they react! Try giving them $10 and see how they react! You see, we do affect each other! Sometimes we control, or even have power over them. Power and control are often a matter of the individual giving them over to us. If not always the case! We see this in our own lives, and the lives of those we know and love.

FACEBOOK “What do we as human-beings agree upon completely? Think about it!” 🤔

FACEBOOK “I can’t tell other people what to do, or how to behave; so why should a company be able to? I don’t have any power to tell people they can’t discriminate; so why therefore should a company have that power?”

FACEBOOK “Some people for example, look innocent, so they don’t have to work as hard to convince people to accept or to trust them. Thieves who look innocent have an advantage for example. People who don’t look in the center however, oftentimes have to work extra hard to prove they are. A lot of criminals have this problem! When many people see someone who appears innocent for example, there’s a natural inclinations towards trusting that individual in many instances. And of course those people who do not appear to be innocent often provoke in us a natural inclination towards mistrust. Human nature?” 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

FACEBOOK “Even when man acts savagely towards his own, it works to GOD’S ends*! What, you didn’t think GOD had woven this into the fabric of HIS plan when HE created the universe and man? Everything in GOD’S universe serves a useful purpose! HE even wove into the fabric-of-the-universe [for each of us a remedy to] satan’s seemingly unfortunate plan to foil GOD’S! THAT’S JUST ONE OF THE ADVANTAGES OF KNOWING EVERYTHING; SEEING EVERYTHING; AND BEING “ALL MIGHTY”!” 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

*Unfortunately, not only is GOD’S plan thwarted… It’s not the offenders and the evil doers that foil GOD’S plan -so much as the victims! THAT’S RIGHT “THE VICTIMS” -GOD’S ULTIMATE PLAN HINGES ON MAN’S REQUIREMENT -OR STIPULATION THAT “HE ALSO BE ON BOARD WITH HIS PLAN”. WHETHER VICTIM, OR PERPETRATOR; THE REQUIREMENT TO BE WITH GOD (in the end) “IS TO CHOOSE GOD, OR AT THE VERY LEAST, SOMETHING GODLY -TO TURN AWAY FROM UNGODLY THINGS WITH A SINCERITY IN OUR HEARTS”. There has to be some good in us, and a willingness to choose the good in us over the bad at some point! We all have to make a choice** where our “eternal souls” will ultimately reside -since they cannot die! 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

**One of the things woven into the fabric of the universe, and laid upon the shoulders of man is -That in life he must choose between the 2 dimensions he exists in. Put another way; the 2 most important choices laid at his feet from the very beginning -Whether he is to be a good man or a bad man. Whether he is to willfully choose the principles of GOD; or the principles of satan! Can you deny that both exist in our universe (as evidenced by man’s deeds)? Is not life itself comprised of one or the other? What would man’s life be with neither? Put in that light (the only light really -is there any other?), a decision one way or another seems unavoidable -don’t you agree?

FACEBOOK “GOD IS SMARTER THAN satan; but unfortunately -MOST MEN ARE NOT*!” 😔

*FOR EXAMPLE: It’s like I’ve always said “Alcohol is more cunning, baffling, and powerful than man. But the 12-step program of Alcoholics Anonymous is more cunning, baffling, and powerful than alcohol”! Ever try changing the starter on your car with your own 2 hands, and no tools? We need GOD, and we need the tools GOD has availed us, if WE, and those we love, are to EMERGE VICTORIOUS with regard to the most important CHALLENGE we will ever face in our lives -BEING WITH GOD OR NOT IN THE END**!

**It’s the one choice in the universe that IS GUARANTEED TO US BY GOD THE ENTIRETY OF OUR LIVES!

FACEBOOK “Meekness- Thinking more of what others think -than what you think!”

FACEBOOK “One of the earliest things we should teach our children is to never let the world dictate who we are -WHO WE BECOME!”

FACEBOOK “Self-consciousness vs Self-awareness”.

FACEBOOK “DISTRACTION & INTERFERENCE KILL GOD’S PLAN FOR US -THEREFORE, FOCUS & CLARITY!!!!” PURPOSE????

FACEBOOK “I’ve never had a problem admitting I was wrong; as long as I could blame someone else!”

FACEBOOK “Mental [imbalance] vs Chemical [imbalance]-Bi-Polar!”

FACEBOOK “If you’ve still got a lot of changing to do [growing, healing…]; you might want to do it before you get into a long-term relationship!”

FACEBOOK “Many years ago we had freedom and safety in this country. Largely due to the fact that most people were good and decent. You can’t have freedom; And a bunch of immoral people running around your society; And increasing numbers of people angry at you around the globe; Without compromising that freedom in order to remain safe. Our 2 best options to remain safe are:

▪︎To hold ourselves to the highest standards possible*;

▪︎ To ensure that the world is populated with as many good and decent human beings as possible*!

* We are failing in both areas!” 🤷‍♂️🤔🤷‍♀️

FACEBOOK “Some people only care about being satisfied (sated). Content. They’re mindset is so lacking in any sort of perspective otherwise… that they have no balance whatsoever. A degree of denial… a fortress of protection against anything that might offset, topple…! PEOPLE LIKE THAT DO EXIST!”

FACEBOOK “I understand there are also corporate types likened to serial killers. No remorse or feeling whatsoever! SCARY! 🤔 BUT NOTHING PHASES GOD! NOTHING!”

FACEBOOK “I once quipped, “It’s easy for GOD: All powerful; Never having to worry about starving, or; Finding shelter, or; being assaulted, or; Getting sick, or; Being cold, or; being stranded…””

FACEBOOK “I used to think 🤔 it would be far more interesting to have GOD’S job!”

FACEBOOK “When people feel they are weak, inept, or inferior to a situation; they tend to run away, or avoid, or seek out assistance. When they feel strong and confident, they tend to face and deal with it; or attempt to overpower it! 🤷‍♂️ THAT’S PEOPLE! Ever think about certain situations in life in those terms? I mean really think 🤔 about some of the things that you perceive yourself as weak, inept, or inferior too? That you are in fact weak, inept, or inferior to? Some of those things might really cause you to raise a brow.” 😏

FACEBOOK “If our world is to become a better place; We must move up from the physical realm; We must become better ourselves!”

FACEBOOK “Even when people do you wrong; Stand firm in who YOU WANT TO BE*(**)!”

*When we act like the people we loathe and despise; we begin to loathe and despise OURSELVES!

**Withstand the [initial] shock; And avoid “the ripple-effect”; Avoid “the chain-reaction-effect”; that is continually (consuming and) hammering our species!

It’s important to identify what’s pulling you down:

▪︎ This town

▪︎ The writings

▪︎ My family situation

▪︎ Perhaps the absence of my family

▪︎ Experiences over the last few months where I attempted to reach out to the world

▪︎ Concerns about the future and outcome of this relationship way heavy on my mind. My worth and my trust are very low.

▪︎ The direction this country is going in. People scrambling to stay above board financially and psychologically and emotionally and spiritually – We just can’t seem to pull our heads out of our a**’s!

▪︎Early Christian upbringing about about the wickedness of the world [has likely played an early role in (my foundation as well as others) laying a foundation of “rampant mistrust” in this country].

So what’s bringing you up:

▪︎ Maggie

▪︎ In pretty good health

▪︎ Accomplishment and the progress of the writings

▪︎ Being sober and clean

Some people when they speak, speak from the conscious mind. Some people when they speak, are speaking of their subconscious mind. 👍🏻

Sometimes we heap a little extra to our words because words cannot and capsulate the way we are feeling.

Man has to mix things up to see what and how it works. He has only just scratched the surface on the things that react together. His fallen ability tourism has left many of these things undiscovered.

Love is supposed to be messy and painful at times.

The mind is a very cunning thing – Sometimes we buy into our own b*******. Oftentimes as a matter of fact

Relationship advice: Stay out of the way and stay small!

How much of the things in life you participate in [in your relationships for example] have attitude that has no business being there?

Stay out of the way and stay small; Stay in your own lane and stay strong! STAY-SHARP! STAY-LOOSE! STAY-FOCUSED!

Don’t get discouraged and don’t get an attitude, just practice, practice, practice!

When a person decides to leave their partner; is it generally more about them or the other person?

People have long thought highly of Canada and its citizens. The way they take care of their own. The fact that they don’t get too involved in warlike conflicts. Is it by mistake that they seem tone of the few countries in the Western hemisphere being affected by global warming?

FAITH strengthens a man! Worrying weakens a man!

The problem with most relationships is they eventually become littered -leading to TOXICITY?

Relationships require a lot of time, effort, know-how! Things that all seem in short supply in modern America these days! And we wonder about the state of our relationship’s? You want to screw up a relationship cut back on time effort don’t know how and the result will be evident every single time!

If your partner trust you completely, and you are in fact completely trustworthy… you have done your job of conveying who you are.realistically; And they apparently have the ability to see who you are realistically. On the other hand, if you are having problems with trusting your partner…. Use the above criteria to evaluate…

The reason for mistrust and low self esteem in his country is self-evident:

▪︎ People really don’t know much about relationships so why wouldn’t they be suspicious that they’re partner may not be pleased with them and look elsewhere possibly?

▪︎ The other thing is that with the advent of television; and so much “good-fortune”, living in a somewhat pompous society, with an attitude of entitlement…

▪︎ Today, even those of us who are relatively healthy and know about relationchips -stand the risk of rejection or going unappreciated. Because so many people today are unhealthy “up is down” right is wrong” and “wrong is right” Can you think of a better definition of “dysfunctional”?

So how do you win in a society of this sort? GREAT QUESTION!

FACEBOOK “Some of the greatest medicine; some of the most magical moments in man’s history take place when He has been treated, at times even, in the most egregious of ways, and -responds with LOVE! JESUS WAS RIGHT ABOUT HOW POWERFUL THIS ACTION IS -on the 💕 & 🧠 🧠 of men!”

FACEBOOK “Everyone has their own opinion on beauty; But some things simply are!”

FACEBOOK “Learn from the people who seem less threatened by the world -and appear to fare well!”

FACEBOOK “Well when people are good to each other; one can’t help but heal -become whole again?” M&R 👫

▪︎calm

▪︎quiet

▪︎kindness

▪︎ unconditional love

▪︎growth

▪︎Love doesn’t have to hurt or be painful

Hearing something one time in a key moment in a child’s life can be more powerful than hearing something a 1000 times

The combination of my family being so mistrusting while at the same time being so untrustworthy…. I believe has really f***** me up!

Some people hear the wrong thing, or never hear something they should have. We need to let these people know that what they heard as children were wrong; We need to tell these people the things they should have heard as a child and never did!

Not trusting in people and believing you aint worth a s*** as a bad combination. Especially when people come a callin’

One of the worst things you can do is mistrust or accuse a person who is trustworthy!