Some people do not plan for their future semi: others are scared to death not to! So they spend their life slaving away…
My Uncle learned it all well-he learned how to have a great respect for his spouse but she probably learned from his parents. He learned that the world is a bad place and should be shunned. He learned that if the world respects you you respected and if it doesn’t respect you you don’t respect it. Most of us have picked up mixed messages and lessons from our family and this is a classic example. He learned to work hard and make your own way.
A lot of people in this country are immature. Drugs, alcohol, growing up in survival mode will do that to a person -stunt their maturity. This just in from GOD just look at where our interests lie . Immaturity and unhealthiness are the chief causes of problematic individuals- Stunted development and unhealthy rearing.
Family help people isn’t that what we’re supposed to do?
Aunt Nin’s obituary
FACEBOOK “Have you sought change in your own life; or do you feel that you are good enough just as you are? It’s a simple question.”
How much success has the judicial system had imposing restitution on offenders? I think it’s a world of difference in GOD’S eyes when someone is forced to make restitution versus someone willfully making restitution.
FACEBOOK “Would GOD still punish a man after admitting his fault and making restitution for harm done [and being (already) reformed by choice]? I don’t think so. But a judge probably would. The law probably demands such!”
FACEBOOK “For most of us certain things matter for personal reasons and certain things don’t matter for personal reasons. But is that the end of it? Should that be the end of it?”
I guess I really don’t want to leave my family and I really wish, need for them to be different [better]. It’s one helluva dilemma to find one’s self in. You say you want to leave but what you’re really saying thru your actions are that you can’t leave them and that their actions are practically unbearable -that is the predicament so many people find themselves in. Because for many of us the world is a scary alternative as is being alone SHIT!
FACEBOOK “Spiritual reasoning often differs dramatically from human reasoning. Today I tried to have a discussion with my uncle. I tried to discuss things from a spiritual advantage point well he immediately took the position of human reasoning. Not only did it end in disagreement, he, it seems, attempted to convince me otherwise! Many men will strongly cling to their own human reasoning -however inferior. They use their human success to bolster their confidence They use their human successes to bolster their confidence!”
☆I tried to explain to him that there was some validity in wrong doing and going back to another and admitting your fault and doing your best to make amends. This is a Godly tradition. As a judge, he insisted that just because you go back and say you’re sorry not only does it excuse the act, but it can never fully write the ship, the heart ache and hardship you cause that individual even if you go back and pay double what you took for instance as a thief. You see that’s human reasoning. And of course the law does not accept apologies for law breaking. Not entirely in most cases. Though there may be some lineancy added. I told him that in GOD’S world, in the Bible it states that when a man is sorry for his wrongs and tries to change his life… GOD is very much pleased and eager to forgive. Don’t ask me to show you the exact words where he says he is pleased and eager to forgive…. You would have to know GOD’S ❤️ in order to recognize the truth above. And if you do not know it then perhaps you might want to read the Bible through. I learned the teachings above from Alcoholics Anonymous. Personally, and they have served me well always. I would even think that someone working in the judicial system would be more pleased with an individual willing to step forward and make amends willfully then to have punishment heaped upon him or her forcefully. And we all know the success rate of reformation formation and an individual who is willing versus an individual that is forced is drastically different. What do you suppose is the success rate of man’s approach to a man who breaks his human law versus God’s approach to a man who breaks HIS DIVINE law? The other thing I tried to impress upon him is the difference between a man [if only in his heart, in his character] who does wrong and feels nothing for his victim versus a man who does wrong and is hearfully sorry -he, it appeared felt nothing for the offender in either case; it was all about the victim. I asked him if he thought GOD felt this way. Or just people? He answered both. It was the same for both he believed. I think it’s pretty evident, once again if you’ve read anything about GOD; that his line of thinking is very different in many ways and on many levels -then man’s. Man often prefers punishment rather than reformation. GOD almost certainly prefers a man to change in his heart over punishing him. Man often sees himself separately from his fellow man; whereas GOD sees himself as joined eternally. Man is GOD’S child and GOD is man’s FATHER. And man is man’s brother. And anyone who refuses to see things as such is bound to be coarse with his fellow -and we see this played out time-and-time again! Many times we hear a man portraying [complaining of] GOD as a punishing GOD. Wouldn’t it be [more] fair to say that man, when afforded the opportunity -is himself a punishing god with regard to his fellow brother? When man accuses GOD of being a punishing GOD, isn’t he speaking more of himself in all actuality! 🤔
FACEBOOK “So many of man’s ills… all he need do is let go of. But like a dog refusing to let go of a rancid bone, he clings to these things in his own demise and misery.”
FACEBOOK “Ever try to change the mind of an unreasonable person?”
FACEBOOK “Many men get discouraged over a situation with another man where the outcome is not as he had hoped or planned*. Failing to recognize that perhaps in his own seeming failure bear the fruit of God’s own success even though he may not think so or even care. Besides, so often men will not even stick around to witness such a truth or fact unfold -for man is not only self-centered in his motives, but impatient as well.” 🤷♂️
*Many men actually go so far as to look to take credit for the changes he witnesses in his fellow man. Therefore, he wants his plan to be the source of triumph over his fellow man; rather than GOD’S!
I think GOD takes the most broken and in some cases wants to se just how far he van take a person in restoring them anew. This seems to only occur thru pain & HIS principles.
In this day-and-age, man seems to struggle to differentiate healthy pain from unhealthy pain. We’re the first to kick our selves, be the first therefore to pat yourself on the back!
A triumph of/via GOD’S principles is often the last thing on man’s mind. 😪
Some Alcoholics attempt to escape life via drink, others via the teachings of AA. THEY DON’T RECOGNIZE, OR DIFFERENTIATE HEALTHY PAIN FROM UNHEALTHY PAIN!
Some women you will never pay a compliment to a man! They will however do so with other women.
How do certain stores get away with selling things for the prices they do when you combine them for a fraction of the price elsewhere? I can get something 5 times as nice as a pawn shop for a third of the price you pay at a department store.
Which is more important, to base your confidence on your status among men or your status in the eyes of GOD?
Not drinking is not enough. Try not drinking and not applying any principles to your life.
I can’t believe that after all this time we still have people running around thinking or questioning the existence of God-intelligent people.
For so many people it’s all about money. So many christians fall prey to this as well.
You can create resistance in your own mind. Resistance is so critical in many different areas of growth/increasing strength!
FACEBOOK “You know why so many people have a difficult time transitioning from a bad experience with an individual to the belief that they have changed? Because they themselves have tried to change in certain areas and failed!”
That conversation with my Uncle yesterday left me feeling like some people just don’t care about life, just don’t care about the triumph of the human spirit, just can’t see what but it is about us that matters most to GOD!
FACEBOOK “What matters to GOD alot should matter to us alot; What matters little to GOD should matter little to us.” “Why?” you ask. Because FATHER knows best!” 🤷♂️
FACEBOOK “I’ve met a lot of interesting people over the years. People who don’t believe in the healing power of forgiveness [starting with their own]. People who believe in forgiving but not forgetting -who have no problem holding themselves down in an effort to hold others down. People who don’t believe people can change -because they themselves found the challenge in their lives too daunting or simply meaningless/fruitless. People who regardless of what comes out of their mouths, only seem to believe in this world and in this moment. People who devote 98% of their energy or more to their own survival and comfort. People who refuse to believe in the bonding power and the binding power of charity towards others.” 😪
FACEBOOK “There are many small things you can change in your life that reap huge benefits. Some people prefer the term rewards. There are other things that require monumental effort which reap very little that is beneficial, or that can even be considered harmful!”
FACEBOOK “In the eyes of the law there’s a big difference between stealing, and lusting over another man’s wife [Hence, one is legal the other is not]. In the eyes of GOD there is less of a difference -if any at all. You see the difference between man and GOD? Man sees many of his offenses as small whereas GOD sees them as big. GOD sees many of man’s offenses as small where as man sees them as big.”
Healthy pain will subside when GOD says it’s time. 🤷♂️
FACEBOOK “Man’s approach to life is to protect himself from man while GOD’S approach to life is to save man from himself. Do you see the different approaches?”
■Don’t complain much
■Don’t ask for much
■ Don’t criticize much
■ Suffer quietly [GOD alone need know your pain]
■ Offer often
■ Compliment often
Some people are hard to impress
Is it BIG or is it small? What happens when we see something BIG as small? What happens when we see something small as BIG!?
What happens when a man allows himself to be too distracted from his partner’s needs?
FACEBOOK “To forgive means to let go of anything that hinders your ability to help that individual to stand upright and move forward towards the light -that’s what it means to forgive. And if the only way you can accomplish that is by forgetting than you need to forget. That’s what I believe anyways.”
FACEBOOK “Many people think they’ve forgiven someone because they no longer believe they have the feelings of anger or bitterness or resentment towards them. That is until there in the same room without person once again.”
When a sins turns from their wicked ways it’s not a big deal to certain christians.. But it is to GOD! Don’t you think we should all have the same attitude as the head of the church towards each and every event unfolding?
FACEBOOK “A lot of immoral behaviors in this Society are perfectly legal.”
When you’re a selfish, self-centered person you have this insatiable desire to serve yourself [usually] at the expense of others. When you are no longer that person and become filled with love, you have this insatiable desire to care for others and do for others. If a person is unable to meet of those needs respectively, they become sickly.
●●●●●Most important things each day:
■Faith
■Gratitude
■Constant thought of/pray for others
■ Have a positive outlook/attitude
■ Be kindly towards all GOD’S creatures
FACEBOOK “When you don’t do what you should do because you don’t feel like doing it or you don’t feel good, you throw away an opportunity to feel better later.”
FACEBOOK “The problem in our society is that so many people don’t know what the right thing is; and so many people are weak in doing the right thing. This is why we continue to have so many problems.”
Once something has done been done wrong and cannot be undone… There is alot of that going around. It’s the point of critical…
FACEBOOK “How many of you have done wrong and didn’t care? How many of you have done wrong and failed to make restitution? How many of you have done wrong and failed to go to your brother and humbly admit your offenses and ask him for his forgiveness? In certain courts-of-law this may not matter much but in the Kingdom of Heaven it is everything!”
You determine the price you charge for a job by cost and effort and profit-margin Are you able to live reasonably after all was said and done? That should be the marker.
Why pay someone more than you have to? Because it’s the right thing to do?
FACEBOOK “When a bunch of people have to be on meds [alcohol, controlled substances…] in any given society or culture in order to function, there’s something really really wrong.”
FACEBOOK “We’re a bunch of people in a society who are unhealthy, and immature [due to unsafe environments growing up and years of substance abuse], trying to have relationships with each other. Any idea what a mess that creates?” “We’re a bunch of people in a society who are unhealthy, and immature [due to unsafe environments growing up and years of substance abuse], trying to have relationships with each other [or trying not to 🤔]. Any idea what a mess that creates?”
FACEBOOK “To see man from an entirely different angle than the one you and I view from on a day to day basis. Rather than useful or disposable see him as redeemable or non-redeemable.”
FACEBOOK “You don’t want perfection you want decency, and -I’m afraid in this day-and-age that is too much to ask of many. And many people really have no clue what they’re doing. Many people don’t know what they’re doing on an earthly level. And of the ones that do, they don’t know what they’re doing from a spiritual vantage point. By the time you collect the numbers, the number of people who know what they’re truly doing on this planet is very very small.”
F Magnify the good and demagnify the bad.
F The problem I’m having is a positive one and a negative one:
F ■GOD wants us to be completely lucid. Years of not drinking or doing drugs will among other things increase your Lucidity as the years god by -and that’s good, that’s what GOD wants!
F ■However, in the society we’re living in today, so much lucidity and too much of the wrong kind of reality which man has created by failing to grasp the teachings and the principles of GOD. A person who is highly lucid in a society such as the one existing today in modern day America… To be free from drugs and alcohol and to live in a society which causes so many to turn to drugs and alcohol because of the stress and the disconnectedness…
FACEBOOK “You either figure out better ways to help yourself or better ways to help others. You can’t have it both ways. In business people are spending a lot of time trying to figure out how to help themselves [to more money].”
If the program fails it’s due to human error.
What is it about violent people? Something twisted? Immature? Both?
FACEBOOK “Dealing with the current realities in our society drunk as well as sober: Each present their own unique set of challenges.”
FACEBOOK “Through the spy program on all Americans, corporate America can gain an advantage by improving on their goods and services as well as exploiting. It’s no secret that corporate America for a very long time through Lobbyist’s* have an infiltrating, buying government and politicians through donations as well. So why wouldn’t they be able to infiltrate or access that information eventually and use it to their advantage in selling and manipulating?
*And it’s also no secret that our system of living has already run its course which is about 200 years from what I read. We know that our money system is in trouble because we keep printing more and more. We know the certain corporations/companies use phony moneys to bring in real profits. At least that’s what zeitgeist.com states.
FACEBOOK “I’m watching the movie the shoes of the fisherman… In the interview of the priest on his writings this came to mind… GOD created everything for the purpose of good but with a possibility of it being used for purposes other than good. In doing so he opened up the gate to man to choose between being good and being evil. Things turned to evil are just things – but the choice man makes determines the state of his soul/spirit; His relationship with his creator in that moment; The direction he faces in that moment should he die – Towards heaven or hell. Towards the saints or the demons.” 🤷♂️
*One thing is for certain, everything that exists was created by GOD except for sin [POEM OF THE MAN-GOD.PDF]. So everything else serves either a good purpose or a useful purpose.
A lot of women with insecurities are attracted to men who, those insecurities truly or falsely so… in a genuine manner or in a manner that only gives the appearance of… but the cost of this for many of these men while calming their insecurities, lowers their self-esteem. It’s like a puzzle. Many men who have the ability to calm a woman’s insecurities or give the appearance of calming their insecurities tend to be demeaning or even grow unattentive over time. Perhaps some of these men feel themselves being used and not genuinely loved. 🤷♂️ One thing is for certain, everything that exists was created by God except for sin [POEM OF THE MAN-GOD]. So everything else serves either a good purpose or a useful purpose.
■■■■■CSI COLD; SELFISH; I…
FACEBOOK “Some people don’t get a lot of things right but they get the most important things right. Some people get a lot of things right but they don’t get the most important things right.” 🤷♂️
FACEBOOK “Intelligence definitely does not equate to openness as observed in many human beings.”
FACEBOOK 🤔 “…And what about the separation of “CORPORATE AMERICA AND STATE” [Since we already have separation of “CHURCH AND STATE”]? When are we gonna start making decisions that don’t benefit us rather than decisions that do? Misnomer? The fact of the matter is human beings have trouble making decisions where they do benefit them; At least in the highest sense.”
FACEBOOK “Man picks and chooses at his leisure the things that he feels are unacceptable morally speaking. As long as they make us look good and in all actuality they’re not an issue that pertains to us, and therefore we don’t really have to give up anything -it’s the perfect formula. Try getting a man to give up something that does pertain to him and has great meaning that is immoral. Man is notorious for struggling to give up vices that are deeply rooted in his being. It’s easy to fight a cause when it’s not your issue but somebody elses. It’s easy to fight a cause when you benefit in doing so. Try fighting against your own issue so that you can benefit personally. How easy is that? Many of us have these little crusades that we embark upon for our own sense of doing good in the world, in many cases for our own sense of relief of guilt. Guilt with regard to the notion that we need to do something worthwhile in the world, something worthwhile for our fellow man. Yes I know, it sounds pretty selfish doesn’t it?”
Superiority. Many-a-man feels his, or her position[s] is superior to his fellows [when in fact…] 🤷♂️ The only truly superior position among men is that of GOD’S!
Man thinks certain offenses are greater than others. Problem is 🤔 they do not fall in line with GOD’S “hierarchy of offenses”.
■■■■■My family wants an arrangement, not a WORKING RELATIONSHIP BASED ON LOVE!
Man has theories about everything. This includes the truth [we call that “an opinion”]. Sometimes even believes his own theories to be the truth. Sometimes even believes his own theories about the truth are the truth. NONSENSE!
FACEBOOK “It’s easy for alot of people to do something stupid and hard for them to do something sensible. It’s easy for certain people to do something stupid and hard for them to do something sensible; like taking responsibility for starters, regarding doing something stupid!”
A lot of people aren’t up on current events in terms of other people’s character. 🤷♂️🤔
FACEBOOK “Love for our fellow man is one of the most important things and vital things to our spirits. It has nothing to do with how attractive a person is, whether we like them, what they have for us to get out of them… And it’s simply astonishing how many people either don’t get this or lack the strength or the goodwill to apply this.”
*People think as long as they are safe and as long as they have things to come for them… that’s all they require. Things like trust, goodwill towards others… They think it’s all unnecessary! All hogwarsh!
Faith, Gratitude, Humility
FAITH; GRATITUDE; ?
F■A man can never be whole lacking love for his fellow man!
F■A man can never be whole lacking love for himself!
F■A man can never be whole lacking love for GOD!
F■A man can never be whole lacking love for all things GOD created!
Life creates situations we need to learn from. We create situations we need to learn from!
Opinions vs Truths
Lost & Disconnected
FACEBOOK “I can’t believe some people believe GOD isn’t watching them; watching what they’re doing!”
A great tactical approach carries over on any surface in tennis. 👍👍
FACEBOOK “The taking of one’s life, GOD-given life, for granted… almost always is absent in men who busy themselves sinning against their fellow man! No man, grateful to GOD for his or her life, even on the smallest scale, would have the consciousness of mind to show animosity towards his fellow human-being.”
FACEBOOK “Doing the wrong thing &/OR doing the right thing can be equally debilitating. When we do the wrong thing, consequences ensue when we go against GOD’S laws! The right thing when we go against our own limitations & twisted state currently [prematurely, while too weak, alone without GOD’S help]!”
I think when we try and humble ourselves going into a situation that has the potential to humiliate is versus allowing GOD to first humble us before going into that situation… we enter & walk away overwhelmed, underwhelmed… 🤷♂️
FACEBOOK “It’s so hard, even when a man has an honest desire to seek the truth -how many of us don’t? And at times of our own choosing, we wonder why we’re sooooo in the dark!”
When people in our lives don’t do what we want them to do [self-centeredly], we feel all kinds of different feelings. When people don’t do in our lives what GOD wants them to do -we likely feel what we’re supposed to feel [just don’t cause it to send you off the rails [off the path].
Life time-and-time-again proves to be too formidable. I NEED GOD!
FACEBOOK “Too much growth can be very tiring [or dragging it out and resisting it, attempting it on your own]! When I came into AA 33 YEARS, 6 MONTHS, 23 DAYS AGO, I WAS VERY SICK AND VERY IMMATURE –YESTERDAY “MY PARTNER FOR LIFE TOLD ME I’M BOTH WISE AND MATURE BEYOND MY YEARS! When you’ve been down most of your life, behind the 8-ball… it can take a very long time to realize you, your circumstances have changed. MY family to this day treats me like i’m that same person. They appear to be “character-deaf”. I’ve always used my relationship with others and what others think of me as my guage. But in this particular case, I remained in a sense of “failed-state” for many years longer than I should have! I FEginger Alex?
I think having a clear understanding of what’s important and what isn’t is what allows certain people to dive into The Fray of life and do so seemingly unscathed. VERY IMPORTANT! And being able to accept even what GOD wants and allows, however wrong it may serm to your own way of thinking -is key.
Everything has a lifeline. Positive and negative.
If somebody stole something and you bought it from them and you refuse to say who you bought it from. They cannot say that you stole the item based on that alone. They can say you refused to cooperate but they can’t charge you with. And refusing to cooperate should carry a lesser sentence than actually stealing. You say well then everyone would be refusing to say where they got it from and taking the less her sentence. Well that’s just reality. We all have to deal with it including the law! We as citizens don’t get to make assumptions about other people and then put them in the practice as if they were reality so neither should the law. We don’t get to resort to violence. But the law justifies it. An example is an example is an example. Oftentimes our children cannot disseminate or discern or distinguish.
Many people refuse to be vulnerable in any way shape or form. You cannot be a good Christian practicing GOD’S principles, without some degree of vulnerability! Many people refuse to be humble in any way shape or form. You cannot be a good Christian practicing God’s principles, without some degree of humility!
To me words and numbers are very similar in so far is my mind’s ability to manipulate them to come up with a particular dinner equation. Sparticular formula .
LOVE FOR ALL ONE’S FELLOW HUMAN-BEINGS 🤔 NOW ISN’T THAT SOMETHING UNIQUE AMONG WE OF OUR KIND!
What is risk without reward and reward without risk? What is Faith without works and works without Faith? What is love without sacrifice and sacrifice without love? What is intimacy without vulnerability and vulnerability without intimacy? … without investment? And what is a man without GOD?
FACEBOOK “2 kinds of love: L O V E; L of E [Lack of Effort].” I find people very strange in the majority of those I encounter appeared to be largely
FACEBOOK “I find people to be very strange in that the majority of those I encounter appear to be predominantly invested in their own interests.”
“Whatever I was placed upon the Earth for; changing the ❤️’s, and minds, and attitudes of men successfully [via direct interaction] does not appear to be one of them.”
Most people have no clue the value of use until they no longer possess it.
Do you know what the chief complaint of the common criminal is? Chief motivating factor? Do you know what the chief complaint of the woman hater is?
They don’t just have individuals who have no issue with exploring society we have networks of people-why is that? It’s one thing for an individual to think a certain way but when you have a legion of people doing so there’s something to it.
When a man rapes a woman and goes to prison who is he paying the debt to? To the family of the woman who was raped into the woman herself? Or 2 society? When the doctor performs malpractice on a patient he pays his get directly to the family affected through a lawsuit. That’s how you make compensation however small it may seem. But when a person goes to prison how are they compensating the harmed individual and family? These archaic ways in which we handle things… And yes the doctor may end up paying society and the individual for harm’s done by monetary means and incarceration. But a lot of these things don’t make any sense. That’s why people take matters into their own hands and seek revenge. Societies have had plenty of time to come up with alternatives and yet they continue to apply the same approach decade after decades century after century. Adopting what are previous generations applied. In this day and age where imagination seems to be running wild -why can’t we apply this to this area?
People seem largely lost and disconnected in the society.
Life often lulls us, even hypnotized us. For example, we fade away from our partners slowly. Or rather, they begin to fade from our own sight.
It doesn’t take anything to fall to pieces -just life [outside of us]! But sometimes it takes everything in us -not to!
With many people the more money they make the more they throw away.
You look at successive decades forwards and backwards and you see something there that is very telling about life comes the universe with man in it. There’s just something when you take each decade and usage is a frame to create a piece of film that is.
The first thing is to see something or to realize something is there even though you can’t actually detect it through physical means.
If a man decides he has nothing worth living for, he may no longer fear death, even welcome it in fact. If a man feels HE has everything to live for, then he will perhaps fear death immensely. Which man is better off? Since inevitably…
A man completely divorced of himself -will have little trouble in accepting the loss of an arm or a leg.
There’s a fine line between complaining & standing up for your self -certain people will often attempt to portray an individual as a complainer rather than one who is sticking up for themselves. You can see why can you not? One way is justified the other one is unjustifiable One way is justified the other one is unjustifiable. One makes you look bad the other makes them look bad.
Families and companies are very much alike in that if you rock the boat, if you try and address issues, they will retaliate. Families and businesses alike don’t like change, especially when it’s inconvenient or usurp that which is beneficial to them!
FACEBOOK “Man is not an inventor -he is a discoverer!” M/A [Sculptor] 🤔
FACEBOOK “I would rather be with a woman I’m attracted to -than a woman who’s attractive.” 🤔
FACEBOOK “Has man been successful at healing one thing himself? Has man been successful just one time at creating life? Has man been successful just one time at altering a law of nature? Introducing a new law…”
FACEBOOK “One thing man cannot get around is making a choice. So long as he is conscious and knows right from wrong -he is accountable!” 🤷♂️
FACEBOOK “One sign of a person with problems is they reject what is good, or best for them. They often reject people on this basis while accepting, even seeking out people into their lives who are not good for them. Hence the term “dysfunctional”.”
SHE’S BEEN THROUGH THE MILL -TREAT HER THE BEST YOU CAN AT ALL TIMES! And then there’s Allie! 😒
CSI COLD, SELFISH, INCONSIDERATE, INSENSITIVE, IGNORANT, IMMATURE, INSANE