I said it many decades ago, the prototypical athlete is about 6′ 2 or 3, 215-230 pounds. Now I see some young lady saying “what you want is a man whose height starts with a six, and whose weight starts with a two”. No IQ ay? No emotional IQ either ay? LoL SHAKES HIS HEAD! One things for certain -SELDOM RELY ON OTHER PEOPLE’S JUDGEMENT.
People run their mouths “BECAUSE THEY CAN [NOT WHEN THEY SHOULD]”. 🤷🏾♂️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷♂️
Most of the time people are either going to do what’s in their best interest, or in a f’ed up sort of way [like my mother and father], what’s worse for them, rather than what’s best for their children. Sound cynical? If the truth is cynical [hurts], so be it. How can the truth be anything but -in certain instances. Incidently, the human condition is not a truth, it’s a fact, and facts can be changed, however unlikely, but not impossible!