Don’t forget to say happy Father’s Day to God on Father’s Day and happy Mother’s Day to the blessed Virgin mother Mary on Mother’s Day!
People who are kind hearted but try to be cold or abrasive because they feel hurt, tend to show a much lighter display/version than those who do so who are naturally course or abrasive naturally!
When people have a beef with you come a chip on their shoulder from days past, they are less likely to show you a kindness or be giving towards you. Maybe you can yeah stupid maybe you can pick up on this with some people in your own circle.