I just had a thought from many years ago about one of my early relations. My girlfriend and I had great sex until that one fateful day came when she said “I don’t feel like it toda or tonight”. It makes a person start wondering -at least it did me. I was unable to accept it for what it was if that in fact all it was. It nodded at me because I thought there was something wrong with me or something was going on with her and someone else. It nawed not at me until I broke the relationship. It wasn’t the last relationship this occurred. Have problems with things like this throughout my life. Problems like this at other men would probably take issue with as well as women. But also problems that I’m sad healthier, more well rounded people are able to cope with better.

If you are under the impression that life isn’t tough [for all of us]… When it is you may find yourself:

•Caught off-guard;

•Thinking life isn’t fair;

•Thinking you’re justified and turning to alcohol or drugs;

•Thinking about violence or manipulation or lying as a means of getting around your situation;

•Thinking your a victim [and all sorts of things can ensue from there[;

•If we say think something’s not right we’re more apt to deal with it wrong [some of us].