1)There’s what the eye sees;

2)and then there’s what the brain sees. 🤷‍♂️

Lower your voice; soften your tone!

Men who cannot wait to get their grubby, greedy little fingers on beauty! 😏😔

Ever since I’ve been sober I’ve been told not to have expectations of others. But what about when others have expectations of me? I think a lot of people try you out, don’t say much, and if they decide it’s not going to work [you don’t have what they’re looking for] they just split. That’s one way not to have any expectations. So they say we’re all equal. But people decide whether or not were good enough for them. Including me. You see, I’m not sure what not not having expectations of other people look like in so far as having a relationship with them; And I’m not sure how you reject people without actually thinking you deserve better. Yeah I’m aware of the old line “I’m just looking for something different”. Yeah like somebody with a bigger house -who makes me laugh. I’ve asked people a number of times what they look for and a partner and I have yet to hear somebody say it’s not about what they can give me it’s about what I can give them.