Some people offer their love through the lens of obligation, responsibility, devotion. To their children or whoever else fits into that category of is category of deserving. Unfortunately, those who do not fit into that category do not receive love from them. I feel that is the case for me with my Aunt and Uncle. They certainly don’t feel responsible or obligated. As for devotion, that is an emotion saved for the sentimental or sensitive type -which they are not. My Uncle has a side to him but it is very selective unfortunately. My aunt on the other hand is not the mothering type whatsoever.

Getting where you want and getting what you want or sometimes 2 different things.

GOD’S PLAN for us doesn’t always include being safe. 🤷‍♂️

Maybe the lives of other people I dream about also living aren’t so perfect as in my dreams. 🤷‍♂️

There’s a difference between perception and intuition. I believe Marlon Brando was highly perceptive while I am my son the perceptive while I myself am highly intuitive. Each brings about its own set of unique rewards and responsibilities. But I know I’m not rich and I’m not famous. But I’ve come a long way in my personal growth. INSTINCT????? COMBO????? IMAGINATION????? You know that just goes to show what some people are really like. Anyone who would be drawn to somebody like this if I do this it’s got to be unhealthy.

Often times people don’t know who they are, and therefore what they do… Even when you point it out to them they don’t understand or see it either the way you see it or perhaps for what it is. It’s an issue that goes on and on and on with the human condition

Let me preface this by saying men have their own issues otherwise we wouldn’t be talking about the woman’s issue right now. Is it our culture or is it in the nature of a woman to find a man she’s got a fix? Or a man only worthy worthy of her own sense of worthlessness? Can’t we rectify this pattern? Instead of people making dumb or unhealthy mistakes early in their life, getting burned, suffering severe heart-ache, and only learning later in life to make better choices? I mean this pattern has been going on for centuries. Why do we insist on not growing wing in this area or not outgrowing this pattern?