From a conscious frame of mind: studying GOD is one thing; choosing to draw closer to HIM is another.
I think it’s true that men men who view and treat women as sisters rather than as potential mates get along far better with him and also put a woman far more at ease. The exception of course may be with women who preferred to be viewed at potential partners and bot sisters.
Is it possible to have your childhood completely disregard disrupted and to come out of it more or less normal? I’m guessing your perspective on yourself and others has a lot to do with it. Your emotional state as you begin to reach adulthood. I would imagine there are some people that come out of something like that fairly unscathed. Have relationships, function in a career. These people apparently didn’t go the route most people do who come out with something like that. And I think that’s the essence of it is what route you go down having gone through such an experience. And lastly what was affected and how was affected and to what degree. If it’s possible that a person can go through something like that and come out of it simply thinking this is how I need to move forward and live my life and then act upon it, I certainly wasn’t one of those people. If you can maintain some semblance of sane thinking having come out of something like that then chances are you will live a normal life. Isn’t insanity what is that the root of dysfunctional people?