I’m not sure a person can manipulate someone to where they want to wear that 110 and then from that point on treat them read them straightforward kind and honestly.
There are not as many options for the top-tier women as one might think. As they might like one to believe. Many of these women, inspire of [seemingly] having more options than the rest of us often find themselves experiencing feelings of having run out of options. There may be some of these feelings stem from since the day they have got more options than the rest of us the bus and therefore still finding themselves wanting, they feel even more the reality of the limitations of this world, of humanity, in spite of or again, because of their seeming advantages.
People come at least in this society, get so wrapped up in the outside appearance and the initial impressions that they often overlook what’s buried, hidden inside <- the things that [should] matter most really. It’s the inside that we should be concerned most with from the start [and to the very end].
Many people are not even aware that they have motives for the things they do things they do -motives beyond the ones they are aware of. 🤷♂️
If you want to accomplish something it goes a whole lot better without conflicting efforts. Or should I say ambiguous feelings. It also goes a lot better if every action adds to the accomplishment accomplishment of attaining that goal rather than mixed actions which which add and take away from attaining that goal. Most people are mixed to some degree whether they realize it or not.