These is extraordinarily difficult, and delicate subject-matter on the site. And while I cannot argue against the offense some will take towards certain views, or statements -I can say with absolute certainty that the motivation(s) behind them are benign in nature. Yes, it is true that with regard to certain some of the subjects I am deeply passionate about, protective of -even biased towards -even prejudiced! Now those are two words that will raise “red-flags”, even impregnation.
I can give you a line I have spoken numerous times in meetings of Alcoholics Anonymous that will basically sum up my feelings about these blogs -and therefore, my motivations! “The only real issue I have ever had in a meeting are rude people (a-holes) and people giving out wrong/bad information (it’s a life-and-death ordeal). Prejudice? Bias? Yes -against anything that harms humanity. Physically, emotionally, psychologically, spiritually… Am I this great person on a crusade? More than likely, I am simply a regular person who has been subjected to many cruelties of the world -a person with something of a flare for the verbos coupled with great zeal for vengeance (against the true causes of those injustices perpetrated against me -and others of “my kind” (that would include everyone).*
You say “things that are harmful” is a purely subjective or personal thing”. While I agree some things effect some people more than others -perhaps even in different ways. There are even people in the world who are diametrically opposed to certain things while others appear to show enormous zest or zeal for them. Let me just say this, it’s often a long road (and in some cases a very short one) in life that helps to shape our attitudes and feelings towards things, possibilities in the world around us (and their effects on us). Just because something feels good doesn’t mean it’s good for us. Just because something doesn’t feel bad doesn’t mean it’s not bad for us. Just because someone tells us it’s OK to do something doesn’t mean it is. And just because somebody we trust or revere does something, doesn’t mean we should trust or revere their choices. One thing about man is that he has always had his own mind -for better or for worse. Many people often choose their own way -as opposed to the best way! I can give you some Philosophical idioms:
“The good (and certainly the worst) is often the enemy of the best”.
“All is permitted, but not all is beneficial”.
“To the insane, sanity seems insane”. (God told me this some 27 years or so ago).*
*Now here’s the kicker: if a person isn’t quite right:
ā¢Prone to self-destructive tendencies (however seemingly harmless; smoking, poor diet, little porn now and again… (if I were the devil I’d be whispering the same thing “a little…”š¤·āāļø).
ā¢And this is a big one, first introduced to me in Psyche 101. “Man’s inclination is to avoid pain and seek pleasure”. Anyone out there guilty of this one (even just “a little”).
One thing I picked up on a very long time ago is this: If a person š¤ let’s say in this case a child, is missing some of the crucial basic necessities from his or her environment, the child (if relatively functional) will adapt or substitute. Now, if you try and take away from that child that which they have come to rely upon in place of… They will likely put up a fight. And of course:
ā¢As adults come we form even more elaborate and complex ways of defending those thingsā¦
ā¢In the United States (and in the world) of course there are many many things which not only are own children but we is adults are lacking. So “Papa” (term used in the documentary “Burzynski: The Cancer Cure Cover-up”)… You see, not only do children look around at what’s available to them to substitute⦠Is a very skimming or crafty or nor knowledgeable adult can put things in the vicinity of this child and they will reach for them. The rat, and the pellet, and the button and the⦠in a cage. What we learn about human behavior can be used for the benefit of mankind or to exploit it. So, I find it very interesting that in this country with the decline of the family and interpersonal relationships there was an explosion of “things” to ease our anxieties, our emptiness -how else could a system such as our survive without their 1st being a deep deep void! Same as the plight of the Alcoholic/Addict (see model).
SO MY POINT IS THIS -MANY, MANY PEOPLE ARE GOING TO VIEW THESE BLOGS OBJECTIONABLY, DISDAINFULLY, AND WITH BIAS, EVEN PREJUDICE. The whole idea of telling people that what they’re doing is all wrong-has a tendency to go over very badly. Jesus tried it!! A lot of people don’t want a Savior because they don’t want to be saved. š¤·āāļø But that doesn’t make the truth of it all any less true -many, many people throughout history, have sought to thwart the truth for numerous reasons (and not just people). I suspected when I signed on for this that there would be few supporters and many, many adversaries (sound familiar -history repeats itself – and people haven’t changed much in the past 6-8,000 years).
Lastly**, I too have my own biases, and prejudices -I wouldn’t be human if I didn’t. But I also appear to be one of those somewhat unique individuals who possess a tad bit more ability to:
ā¢recognize my own bias’ -even admit to some of them
⢔You know that Scott Fitzgerald thing about uh, an artist who’s a man, who has two opposing ideas in his head and, you know, he believes in them both simultaneously?” “I heard of it, yeah.” “Well, that’s sort of the beginning of it.” “So, what’s that like, not being anyone in particular?” [From the movie “Edge of Darkness” starring Mel Gibson, Ray Winston, Danny Huston, Bojan Novakovic, Shawn Robert’s. Directed by Martin Campbell (2010)].
My personal answer to the above quote “Very Lonely”. I find that people who believe in something very strongly, even though it may be wrong (or unpopular) tend to have a large or small following -but a following none-the-less! Conversely, people who don’t believe in any particular thingā¦!
**I don’t think I would be very effective in such a controversial array of subjects without the above-stated facets to my character. I wouldn’t be very good at all at my writing -I would simply be “just another voice in a sea of voices -largest clamoring for their own personal benefit while remaining enslaved to my own personal demons and fears!” – You may or may not agree that people who accept the challenge of stepping forward -share a number of traits in common! That about does it. I hope, with some of you atleast, that I have clarified, if not expelled any preconceived notions! “CONTEMPT(S) PRIOR TO INVESTIGATION”.
Family -Mankind conveniently draws lines on family. He even does so within his own bloodlines in certain instances. Imagine if every time somebody in this world went down we had to go down with them. What a terrifying thought 𤠓A whole world filled with a people’s who stick to one another’s side thru thick-and-thin!”***
***The more Love’s stock goes up in the world, the more stock in things, money, elitism goes down -and vise versa! (Remember “The Omega Man” ->”Without each other, things matter little”.) The Omega Man (stylized as The Ī©mega Man) is a 1971 American post-apocalyptic action film[3] directed by Boris Sagal and starring Charlton Heston as a survivor of a global pandemic. It was written by John William Corrington and Joyce Corrington, based on the 1954 novel I Am Legend by American writer Richard Matheson.