As the way things stand now -a lot of men have to do without a woman unwillingly. In order for things to change now -a lot of men have to do without a woman willingly. But we men are too weak and too greedy and too selfish. 🤷‍♂️

Do you think we should aspire to come or admire the approach and the responses of people in the dating game in this country given it lack luster history? Look at the way men approach women. And look at the reception of most women. Most men are hunting and most women are either hunting themselves or carry an attitude of entitlement.

It was recommended to me on my counselor to get on to -One of the major social media websites. One of the things I immediately found rather interesthing when initiating a chat with a woman, Is a little prompt that shows up immediately saying offer a compliment and choose from these by clicking here. I thought that very odd yesterday. But this morning I realized 2 things: People out in the world seldom compliment. As a result of this lack of practice most probably don’t even know how to give one anyways -hence the offer of selection to choose from on this website. THIS WORLD MAN! 😕 SIGHS. I give compliments all the time -and I know how to give them.

This country is filled with men who kiss women’s asses. Like my friend Anna says, “what happened to their balls?” I’ve seen a lot of black men cater to women. On the other hand, I’ve seen many Mexican men on the other end of the spectrum. They don’t even have respect for their women. And before you go crying racism here, I’m part Hispanic. My dad was a primary example of this. If it’s OK for a black man to call another black man a n*****. Then I guess it’s OK for a Hispanic man to criticize his own race right? Like I stated previously, one of the stupidest things I’ve ever witnessed is white men have been called into Washington to testify if they’ve ever used the word n*****. Did they bother to call one black man in there and do the same? No! And if you don’t think black men use that word, you must be living under a rock. What’s my point? Is it less offensive when it’s used by a black man than a white man? No it isn’t!

People say I shouldn’t judge. But where do I get that from? Americans and from what I understand people in general are extremely judgmental of one another. Some people will even attempt a technical explanation as to the validity and importance of doing so. Women do it all the time in the name of self preservation. But when I do it…

There’s nothing worse than wanting something so bad, but having to deny yourself, because you know it wouldn’t be good for you. Food is the 1st thing that comes to mind. The 2nd thing is getting involved in a relationship with the majority of people in this country – As a matter of historical-record, most human beings aren’t very nice people all the time. I think that’s my problem. My attitude indicates that people are not a very healthy diet for me. As much as I would love to have one in my life much like an overreater would love to have a piece of chocolate cake. It’s torturous having to deny oneself, but it comes down to a matter of self-preservation, and self-love!

One thing of young man told me many years ago is that women are worse than men. 🤷‍♂️

I saw a movie where in my opinion they degraded women by saying, by inferring… look what women ate willing to do to survive. It wasn’t a pretty picture.

People get conditioned and they don’t even realize it, and if it’s to their benefit they don’t even want to change it. This applies to a lot of women and men in different ways

Women are not the only ones who have been hurt

Alot of women whether by conditioning or by conscious expectation expect us men to compete with the other men out there. Perhaps because there’s women they have been conditioned to have to compete among one another. At the end of the day or by circumstance, man is still very much an animalistic creature!

They tell you when Alcoholics Anonymous and in counseling not to have expectations of others where to keep them low. But h***, everyone in this country has an expectation of someone. Women of their husbands. Fathers of their children… the employers of their employees. The American people of their politicians

“No human beings were injured during the making of this film.”

********************It dawned on me this evening after talking to a woman on Facebook who has 5 children. She told me about how she had been struggling to make ends meet. So I offered to give her some she was ever able to get across the border. She said nobody does anything for free. That’s the kind of experience she’s been having in life. A woman severely in need surrounded by people who want something for something. I felt compassion for this woman. My attitude and my demeanor have been different for the last hour hour and a 1/2 ever since. It also made me realize what I continually carry around is a lack of compassion for women based on my own pain and feelings of being rejected.

A lot of other countries don’t consider certain things as insults like we do here.

*FACEBOOK Oftentimes life can be an escalator going down while we’re trying to go up. And the thing of it is, in order to go up we have to make an effort that outdoes life itself. Because if we don’t outdo and outlast life, then we will surely go down or backwards, rather than up and forwards. 🤷‍♂️

I know this isn’t easy for some of you to hear -as is the case with me -being a number one offender. Many of us Americans think we know-it-all; as is the case in many countries around the world. But there are also many people around the world who are not only humble -but recognize their own ignorance [->the capstone of humility?]. These people quite often are open, and as a consequence; absorb new information, and suggestions readily*. I think many of us should take notice of their invaluable example.👍

None of us is perfect. We’re all on a journey, and if we’re lucky we continue to learn aome things along the way.

*Ever wonder why some people learn fast and others do not?

Find out for yourself! Are you willing to do that? It takes courage! It also takes character!

Only the Strong Survive certain things! But the weak the Strong Survive many different things.

Each person has their own rules. And sometimes that’s a good thing and sometimes it’s not. Sometimes it’s a better thing and sometimes it’s not-speaking of individuality that is. Society doesn’t have all the right answers -trust me!

A lot of people speak their mind [like me]*. It’s not necessarily a bad thing and it’s not necessarily a good thing. But I know there’s a lot of things in this society that are deemed inappropriate or rude when they shouldn’t be. Some of it is the content but most of it is the person’s intention. What I’m trying to say is there’s a lot of content this day that’s red flagged that shouldn’t be. Additional income there’s not nearly enough emphasis put on a person’s intent. We judge people merely from what we observe and based upon our own perceptions strictly in many cases.

*It’s not so much that I’m bold as that I tend to have a thinner filter than most people do.

What do you suppose the are for a relationship lasting where each person gives 100%? Then just imagine the numbers at 50%!

How difficult do you suppose it is to give 100% to your relationships continually‽ Well frankly, qith all the distractions and superficialitiies going on in this country today the answer to that question is NEAR IMPOSSIBLE [IMPOSSIBLE]. So what does that tell us? It tells us that as long as we continue to live under this sort of reality, our relationships will continue to be at risk, and sub-quality!

Today it’s the pain of certain realities that have just about been around since the beginning of man’s existence [being booted from the [GARDEN]. What that makes me realize is that I’m nearing the end of the road and entering a new one. For the last 33 years I have strived to address my issues in the hope of being rid of my suffering and problematic life. Now I believe I am coming to the place where most of my issues have been largely resolved and what’s left are life-problems, and the problems plaguing humanity from the start. What I know now is that my life will never be pain free. Only that I have the choice each day not to be a part of the problem -which you people have taught me.

• if a skilled craftsman is plying his trade while scrambling an egg, talking on the phone, and worrying about how he is going to pay his electric bill… how many of us are juggling just like this while trying to have relationship with their wife, husband, children, GOD, and of course our selves! 🤷‍♂️🤷🏼‍♀️

However you get it -get it!

Relationships were never that easy to begin. And of course now that we seemed to know less and less about what we’re doing and have less and less time to put into them… Less and less willingness to give rather than take… 🤷‍♂️🤷🏼‍♀️

Is it honest, is it true, and is it sincere?

Just because it happens to be true doesn’t mean we should mention it necessarily.

Your heart not only has to be protected but it has to be prepared. And going through life day-to-day whether we know it or not, whether we are willing or not, we are preparing our heart for the emotions that will come back and radiate both inwardly and outwardly. What we do in life and what we experience in life prepares our heart for the very things that it was made to manufacturer or radiate. Various organs in the body secrete…. The heart, the emotional heart secretes…

When a person goes against their own defense mechanisms even though they’re unhealthy calm and they do it too quickly.. It can have a worse effect than the actual consequences of the defense mechanism itself.

I get the feeling that a lot of women these days don’t want a man who’s a pig but they don’t want him to reserve their proper either to the point where hes boring.

It was hard enough when things were a little more in our favor to make a relationship work. These days it seems almost impossible. And from what I understand and tell me going to get worse.

*****I guess what I was trying to say in the meeting today is that if you think you’re ever going to get well enough that you no longer feel pain [in life] [or that all your pain is going to go away -maybe that -but where did the pain start to begin with? LIFE and life has a habit of repeatingitselfno matter how well WE GET] or no longer have problems… GUESS AGAIN!

There’s what we focus on and there’s how we look at things. These all affect our emotional and mental and physical and spiritual States. Remember what I said earlier about having to prepare our hearts, our emotional hearts. I have been reckless all of my life in this regard.

I’m guessing a lot of people aren’t very healthy. I’m guessing the environment were operating within is not very healthy. What I’m saying is all of these things are not unrelated to our establishing relationships to one another. I’m guessing the majority of it is having a direct impact on our ability to establish relationships between one another. The relationships in humanity is where our strength and power lies. And when we start thinking individually calm when we start thinking about ourselves in all these sick and twisted ways, hour place in relation to the whole of humanity, those relationships are generally what people focus on, try and effect, manipulate, exploit, conquer… Or try and be apart of!

Even though women say they don’t like being treated a certain way by a man, they’re overblown ego and their deflated self esteem and their heritage all betray them.

It’s not just that women don’t trust their husbands or their boyfriend’s, they don’t trust other women. Look at a man who’s got a beautiful woman and have jealous he. He’s going to secure he gets. And men tend to be the more intellectual than he. You imagine a woman with a highly attractive man? The female of the species is probably more competitive when looking for the right man to create a nest and bear offspring with and brings stability to that process than a man is.

There’s not just a lot of hurt in this country there’s a lot of arrogance. Both of those are deadly to form in relationship.

A picture isn’t always better than a 1000 words lol A picture isn’t always better than a 1000 words lol 🤔 A picture may be worth a 1000 words but it’s not always better than a 1000 words lol In fact, sometimes it’s not better than a 100 words lol

Sometimes what we don’t do is the most spiritual thing in the world-Buddhism? What’s the main purpose of the 12 steps of Alcoholics Anonymous? Is it to get us back on our feet spiritually and live right and have a right relationship with our creator? Once you begin to do that instinctively again is that called living the program and the steps rather than working them? I don’t seem to be doing much workgladly as far as the 12 steps go in practicing a lot of the suggestions formally, but I am trying to live right and do right by God Teachings.

You know what I think rich? I think you got something supernatural going on here, and I think God’s on top of it all the way!

With us human beings it’s largely about competition. Some are qualified and a lot of others lie and manipulate and pretend. The ones that aren’t exactly qualified and aren’t willing to lie though why and manipulate ant pretend… Well you know the story about nice guys finishing last right? And now you know why so many men lie. Because women have little sympathy for their plight. When they should in fact. If women were more empathetic men would be less inclined to have to manipulate.

If I’m willing to give everything I own to someone I don’t know can you imagine what I’d be willing to do for the people I do? If Jesus was willing to give his all to those who didn’t know him, can you imagine what he would be willing to do for those who do?

It’s only my opinion but to me there are 2 basic masks: the one that says “let me see what I can get out of you” and the other one that says “stay the h*** away from me”.It’s only my opinion but to me there are 2 basic masks: the one that says “let me see what I can get out of you” and the other one that says “stay the h*** away from me”.

There’s what man does to us; and then what we do to man and hence to ourselves as a consequence.

“If you don’t get in the game you have no chance of winning. But… 🤔 the game is brutal and merciless”.🤷‍♂️ Even many of the seemingly most positive people out there -have a major grudge for having to abandon themselves in order to survive! 🤷‍♂️

Do you really think most of these people know what they’re doing? Even if they are successful and well liked seemingly?

It would probably take a 1000 or 10000 people the level of awareness that floats around in this one brain of mine. Which is why it is so difficult for anyone individual to be able to relate to me. If you look at the body of work to date, please tell me how many people carry around all this inside? Perhaps they do but they’re not letting anybody know about it.

The adult male is the most neglected and forgotten individual among humanity. Also lmost feared.

I was told earlier this morning that I don’t necessarily have the best social skills and that I talk excrssively. Do you remember when Luke Skywalker 1st met yoda? He would do a lot of talking and he was going through Luke’s things without permission. Like a person who had no social etiquette or awareness of others whatsoever. He was like a child who didn’t know any better. Whether or not this was strictly the case or if he was testing Luke I’m not sure. But you can be sure that yoda had it on the ball a lot more than the rest of us. As with God however our ways are not his. In American society we like to pride ourselves as being all grown up. And what exactly do we have to show to be so proud of in this society for being all grown up? Most of our relationships are a mess. Are children are in crisis as is the future of this once great country. Everything I just mentioned is the epitome of a great country not the wealth and a surplus and the power.

JESUS didn’t come down here because everything was fine in the world! And with regard to your argument about whether or not Jesus actually existed, we know this much calm of the world is definitely a need of a Jesus to come down here into the world and save it. Some people try to play this down. But answer me this, if the world isn’t so bad then why are so many in this country filled with fear and mistrust these days? The either have an overblown sense of reality or our societies are riddled with people to be feared and mistrusted. Now you tell me which it is?

Who are the walking dead? I bet you didn’t know that there were actual zombies walking around in society!

When we become attached to others we take on their pain! When we share our pain with another person’s it is cut in half! Yin/yang.

The things I drank over were still there when I came into AA. MY BROKENNESS, THE WORLD WITH ALL ITS… I GOT TO DRAL WITH MY SHIT SUCCESSFULLY. AS FOR THE WORLD -IT’S STILL LARGELY THE SAME!

Empower people but don’t give them power OVER YOU!

There are things we allow ourselves to do when we are single that we feel would be wrong if we’re in a relationship. But the Gray area there is that there are things that are wrong whether you are single or in a relationship I-tryi to remember that period.

You know human relationships are messy and they are basically self constructed. If you try to approach them in a manner that defies this…

I’m surprised a lot of people in the world now that yes I’ve made the transition, no the difference between a lack of drama and Serenity in their lives.

Your perception of yourself in the world is everything with regard to not only how you will be perceived but… let’s just say it’s an aura that allows you to float or sink.

Part of me is scared to death of people and part of me doesn’t give a s***.

With regard to approaching life, dealing with people Thomas sometimes you gotta be on top instead of on the bottom.

Some people’s 50% is better than some people’s 100%. How does that make you feel?

The danger saying is I really don’t know what I am.

Life is either tearing your heart out with cold indifference or merciless rejection or God is saving you.

The less I think about the things that bring me down, the less I get brought down.

You know some people experience life long back pain? Some people experience life long emotional pain!

People won’t stand for me make it harder on them to connect with me. So I suppose I should return the favor?

The advantage many people have as they have no clue. Because people who have a clue.. I see this over and over again… of people blissfully passing by while I sufferings… Disparagingly…

What have you got? What I’ve got I’ve got written down! 🤷‍♂️

When it comes to a relationship with a woman some men can do all the work-I can’t!

Some people can be in the middle of a storm and stay calm-I can’t!

Just let it go the way it goes come and God will be there to walk with you through it just as he has a 100 billion times before.

Some men don’t care about what the women want comment what matters is what they want to.. But I care because I want something mutual.

Some men don’t care if the woman wants to be no longer in their life, all they care about is that the woman is in their life.

Some women want you to fight for them. Some men are willing to fight for a woman even though that woman is not necessarily invested in him. Some women will start a fight and have their man finish it for them. Well that’s a woman that really cares.

I may be a tower with holes throughout the exterior of the structure but that material was used in order for the tower to reach even higher at the top.

I’m a little leary of people, scratch that, I’m a lot leary of people, and I shouldn’t overlook that, I shouldn’t fight it.. Too many people do simply so they can get what they have no business getting.

Many men bring money to the table. And as hard as it would be for many people in this society 2 comprehend, money is not the most important thing to bring to a relationship.

If you’re one of those people who makes a relationship harder rather than easier for me, I’m out of there.

People aren’t usually as smart as they’re trying to be.

I can’t say as I’m very comfortable around people -well there’s nothing crazy about that.

If you want to but won’t, you probably can with the right. If you don’t want to, you probably can’t with any person.

“THEY’RE JUST PEOPLE!” Some people develop a fixation or a complex to the point where people have tremendous power over them. There’s that Yin-Yang again. If there are people who have a God complex. Then it only stands to reason that people have a deity complex with regard to human beings. At least in one instance I believe it refers to being stuck in thstage of development where human beings towering over us appear to be God’s. I think that applies to me some. You could probably produce people like this wfor sale with a minimal amount of understanding of how this comes about. Aren’t we human beings simply fascinating on both sides of the microscope?

It’s not just about turning the other cheek; when a person can take a hit, when a person can take a number of hits and remain steady and even hopeful, if not loving -it is perhaps one of the most powerful demonstrations of all human traits or abilities!

Making friends with others generally works out better with those who make it easier for me rather than harder for me. 🤷‍♂️ Ancient Chinese secret?

If you’re not good with people, being nice is a good…

A 100 years ago being nice and being friendly was admirable, even expected. Now it’s looked upon with either disdain or great caution. What is happens to our country?

I don’t belong here -if I did explain to me how a person can have so much broad and in depth awareness of humanity and still not fit in?

When you are trying to get the rest of the cheese or potatoes off of the greater, -turn it upside down lol Something I just discovered on my 59th birthday lol there is a GOD!

What things are covid going to have an effect on not just presently where the body is weakened but in natural weakening diseases and illnesses later in life that it will also attack or exploit and bring someone to a premature age?

You know what’s cool? Doing what’s right and treating people right even when they don’t treat you right. The coolest thing is setting out on the journey GOD has planned for us.

If GOD is a punishing God then why did he create Alcoholics Anonymous?

LARRY-There are many wonderful examples in Alcoholics Anonymous. There’s a gentleman that I know of who exemplifies gentleness, a degree of humbleness, level headedness, and gentleness. These are many of the attributes that are the fertile ground for us to be able to connect with one another. And these days we need more than ever.

If you didn’t like the 1st half of stairway to heaven you love the 2nd half. If you didn’t love the 2nd half of stairway to heaven you’ll love the 1st half lol

It’s not so much that it depends on what mood I am in as it depends on what preceded that mood to begin with.

DON’T THINK-JUST LIVE!

It’s very important that you STAY SMALL through this!

I should have done this Facebook dating differently. I should have went in thinking along the lines of the highest standards. Quality rather than quantity. I’m not saying I was looking for 20 women because that is not the case. But I went in there with the attitude of throwing out 20 lines once I kind of figured out what was going on, hoping to meet one and a couple of friends. That is the absolute truth! But I think things also were a little bit hazy walking in. We have to be sure of what we want, that is a must! We have to be sure of what we want as much as is possible before we walk into a situation not during or after. It’s so easy to get into trouble otherwise. I can’t afford to let whatever feelings or notions floating around in my brain to derail me from what at this stage I think I have a pretty clear idea about.

I talked on the phone yesterday with the gal I met on Facebook. I had mentioned that I was frustrated because you ask people how they are and how their day went and… And they either don’t answer you or they answer you one time and then you don’t hear from him again when you proceed to the next call conversation. She told me that women want to be interested. They don’t just want to get the standard initial interaction. Which only frustrated me further lol. But what came to mind just now was that there are many different people out there. You don’t have to grab everybody from the start in order for them to privilege you with their time. Some people are just looking for somebody to be real and decent -trust me! I think those are the people we should look for. But of course everybody’s different and everybody’s looking for something different. Some people like a challenge. That’s not something I’m up for. You know the other thing is that I thought about howhat I’m looking for in a person is decency and being real, and some substance. I’m not looking for somebody to grab me I’m looking for somebody that I feel It’s just basically a good person. A person who has the ability to care and who appreciates the fact that I care. Of course there has to be an attraction there but… I guess everybody as their own string with regard to that. Substance would be a real bonus. That is to say having some deep conversations. Loving people who are simplistic are equally awesome however.

Do white men approach white women with the idea of needing to entertain them right off the bat? It seems to me living in the area I live in that that is the case with the Hispanic population. Being a very passionate race they are looking to be swept it seems.

Some people will tell you that you shouldn’t get involved with certain people. Insinuating that no one should get involved with them. But nobody should walk this planet alone unless it is deemed so by God himself.

A lot of people go along with society because they cannot think no reason for themselves to the extent which allows them to challenge the status quo comfortably. Others because they do not want to suffer the consequences of having done so.

We may be entitled to our feelings but were also responsible for them.

You Make a comment to one woman and she gets offended, you make the same comment to another woman and she finds it humorous.

Forget about what society tells you, when a man and a woman come together it’s between the 2 of them.

Staying yourself under any and all conditions -is not me! THE GOOD PARTS BEING BROUGHT TO AS MANY OF OUR AFFAIRS AS POSSIBLE 👍👍👍👍

There’s essentially 2 kinds of people who date or connect with others. The ones would know what they’re doing and the ones who don’t know what they’re doing. With regard to the latter, it’s a certain kind of don’t know what they’re doing not just any kind. In either case people always seem to be looking for a certain kind. That’s what we do.. Some people will just accept or have a broad scope of acceptance. But most of us don’t.

The more of your personality you reveal [or spirit] the more people are either drawn to you, or repelled!

The writing may appear negative in and of themselves -as was inferred by another recently. Bit in and of themselves is not their intent whatsoever. Ultimately they are intended for people to reroute, or regroup.

As someone once pointed out, the dating game is rough -there doesn’t seem to be too many free-lunches as with all of life among we humans. But perhaps the issue at hand is that whether most of us want to admit it. We are looking for a pass, or a free lunch in one regard or another. Just imagine two hookers trying to pick up on each other lol. Someone’s gotta pay for lunch at some point!

It’s not about an ocean of people who cannot be trusted. It’s more about an ocean of people who either can’t be trusted or who are unqualified. 🤷‍♂️

************All I can do is console myself for struggling with meeting people and maintaining relationships of various kinds. ALL THIS AWARENESS!!!! ALL THIS DATA!!!! ALL THIS REALITY!!!! I FEEL LIKE DARTH-VADER WHEN HE SAYS TO HIS SON “IT’S TOO LATE FOR ME LUKE”. And it’s not as if I get to see the fruits of it -all I see is the negative side of it planted; that is the seed with the hope of something good sprouting from it in the lives of people I will never even know [probably long after I am gone as is so often the case with significant impacts on humanity (hopefully) I won’t even enjoy a legacy because by choice I have chosen anonymity]. It’s very difficult to participate in society, while writing about them at length and at depth -at the same. It’s like the burnt out cop who [can’t help seeing] sees society as “them” rather than as “us”. So often, not a thought, but a feeling “I wish someone could hold me, that I could hold someone”. Partly, I am a victim of the very world that through these awarenesses -I have become all-to-familiar-with! 😔 A victim by design [cause and effect rather] of the various awarenesses that have made me all-too-familiar with this world -and it’s trappings! 🤷‍♂️ A person cannot stare into the abyss for long without being gravely effected! ☀️<- I knew a young man many years ago who on LSD stared at the sun and burnt his iris’s/retinas[?] and ruined his sight for life and wasn’t allowed to drive. He ran everywhere. This guy had oaks for legs [they were originally from the midwest [Toledo was their last name] -but anyways… 😔

A 59 year old man sends alike to a 29 year old girl on Facebook. The girl season is a dirty old man. But what are many 29 year old men, if not dirty young men? SHRUGS! 🤷‍♂️

When a person begins to lose faith in humanity, in their fellow man, all sorts of things can begin to go wrong. Thank you God for reminding me of what I could not recall but tried about an hour ago too.

I have forgotten so many of the things of youth that likely made it possible for me to relate to a woman at all. Sayings and witty little gestures. I probably forgotten more things than a lot of people ever even knew. I know it’s cliche’ but maybe it’s true. Hey, a rhyme! Lol

I don’t think I trust people very much. But it’s not so much about that childhood trauma that pervades [transfers over to the idea that everyone’s screwed up] all of humanity skewed to the extreme. It’s reality. And honestly, most of us, whether we had issues that skewed our approach later in life or grew up quite grounded and healthy, STRUGGLE WHEN WE SEE WHAT HUMANITY LARGELY IS. I mean even when you deal with the baggage of the past which skews your perception and causes you to tar all of humanity with the same brush. Once you get a realistic taste of humanity, you kind of sort of end up in the same place. Not trusting 🤷‍♂️ WOWSVILLE MAN!

You know there’s not a lot of free lunches in this world but I’d like to think that I give one out here and there because I’m not cut throat. I’m not just in it for me.

This is a very stressful society. It used to be the people that drank excessively in this country where the odd man out. Now everybody’s doing it because the structure has changed so much in this society. Now when I talk about stress I’m talking about all kinds of stuff. Including people being estranged from one another. And just think about how much harder it is for an alcohol that can recovery and an addict in recovery to stay sober these days because life is coming at us 247 like a Chinese drop a water torture chamber. We don’t have any relief man except for the work we can do and the people we can reach out too. I guess everybody has their own relief. People drink and drug and have a relief people in the 12 step programs have one. But they’re not being bombarded 247 by reality we are.

How do I say this? I have a vision of being everything a woman wants me to be and nothing she doesn’t want me to be. Or rather, being wholly helpful and thoughtful without being problematic whatsoever.

What is the difference between love that stems from the senses and love that stems from the spirit?

Your thoughts, certain thoughts will deteriorate your ability and your readiness to perform.

If we really think about life we begin to recognize how formidable it is. If we choose to go down this road alone it can be extraordinarily frightening for most of us. But if we choose not to go down this road alone… 💁🏼‍♀️🤷‍♂️

It seems to work in me when I’m not distracted or giving off enormous amounts of energy elsewhere.

These people who talk about GOD with seeming reverence yet have a mouth like a sailor.

Who needs research when you have principles?

If your emotions tied to a particular experience or situation are exaggerated then your depiction of it is probably also going to be.🤷‍♂️

Living/visiting in the grey or the black without actually participating in it SOBER is not for everyone [re: the writings].

Some people’s history, family background, relationships encourage them to act in an unhealthy fashion rather than in a healthy fashion.

You know why I never got anywhere in life? Because every time GOD gave me something my ego and my arrogance and my pomp and I don’t know what else would step up. And even my defiance and even my disrespect.

How is it that some people who don’t know what they’re doing manage to succeed? And many people who do don’t?

It’s hard but hardly impossible for me to switch from a serious frame of mind to a humorous frame of mind. I don’t mean in the moment I’m talking about a significant dynamic shift.

All you’re doing is putting a damper on your potential to side numer with the thought you have going on currently. Think certain thoughts and… You encourage or discourage a frame of mind that is humorous and light..

Just be grateful for everything God is granted you Whatever you get from humanity is simply a bonus.🤷‍♂️

How am I supposed to think sensibly within the realm of normal human consciousness while thinking outside of the Box at the same time?

There are many ways and many doors to view in any given Play she happened to be at that’s affecting you based upon whatever’s on your mind or whatever you’ve gotten yourself into or whatever you are exploring…. They appear to each have a different effect on how we feel or something beyond that that leaves traces in the form of feelings. Naturally we all wanna feel good or confident or safe for hopeful…

What is the lynchpin of all humanity?

If you’re not solid what are you then?

You can have good intentions or be free from bad intentions but eventually when you dance to the beat of your own drum you’re gonna rub people…

In every given situation from moment to moment the key to success is doing what needs to be done not what you think needs to be done. 🤷‍♂️ Where did that 1 come from? You’ve heard the old saying, “He was the kind of man who did things the way you wanted them done; not the way he wanted them done”. Well if you do things the way the situation wants them done rather than the way you want them done, you should have success every time. Of course there are scenarios that counter one another. Forces in any given situation that often conflict. In this case, you have to figure out which force you want to obey so that the outcome lost in the malaise will eke out ahead in the end. Are there multiple forces in conflict; or simply a part of the scenario that you can serve that will produce the same outcome? Or does every force produce its own separate outcome? And what about combinations? Do they often align in such a way that you can so to speak kill-two- 🐦 -with-one-stone?Encourage multiple forces with one act? Can you encourage multiple forces with one act and still have have a different outcome regarding each force? Or still have the same outcome regarding each force? What happens when multiple forces can reach the same conclusion individually, and yet they are all encouraged together? How does that work?

JESUS didn’t need technology; HE could produce any outcome/thing at will.

Some people repeatedly knocked themselves down and still manage a degree of success. 🤷‍♂️💁🏼‍♀️

If you are experiencing repeated failures and there are a lot of factors working against you. We’re one very powerful 1 that is consistently overriding everything usually. Just as if you were experiencing repeated success is you would have to conclude there are a lot of factors working in your favor. Or one very powerful 1 that is consistently overriding everything usually. So what are they? Are they above the surface factors or below the surface factors?

Don’t get too wrapped up in these things, they’re just fleeting moments!

There are people you don’t like because they hurt you so you don’t prefer to be around them. But how can you hope to assert the sort of impact on them that God himself might have been in their presence -if you choose not to be in their presence? If you hope to be a godly presence working in God’s stead*.

* 6. (in phrases, now literary) The position or function (of someone or something), as taken on by a successor. [from 15th c.] quotations ▼

https://en.m.wiktionary.org/wiki/stead#English

Nailing it is not so easy as we would like it to be.

I wouldn’t rule out the notion that some people also think they can get what they want in HEAVEN because they’re a woman or rich… Stairway to Heaven?

As GOD deemed it so! We can solve just about every problem or come up with a solution for just about every problem collectively, but not individually. We have the power to defeat everything that comes with God’s help, but not without it. Think about it 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

People, including myself, and this is very pervasive I believe, DO NOT realize [or care for] how inherent character building is with regard to GOD’S plan for us. VIA RESISTENCE/CHALLENGE!

There’s a fine art to knowing when one should explain themselves and when 1 should not. Based on my own experience, or should I say mistakes, most of the time one should not.

When referring to an animal or a pet and one’s self [in the same sentence], should one also use the same rules of grammar as with two humans?

As in love, in war! In love, as in war! In conflict walk away. In matters of the heart, have the merit to allow the other person to walk away when they’re ready.

What kind of a person are you temperamentally? Serious? Easy going? Humorous…? It just depends on what I’ve been thinking about!

Life got so much better just not drinking, I lived on that for a very long time! With others it’s different.

Alcohol is not my friend. I think I figured that out after after I found Heroin.

I used to say, the world hasn’t changed much, but it has! Just not for the better in many areas.

If we marry someone drunk why would you wanna be married to them when they sober up?

We have a problem in the rooms of Alcohol Aynonymous and them telling us about a GOD; but we didn’t have a problem with drinking or taking drugs through the hole in fence, or from the bootleggers. We’re when they’re telling us to trust in God all of a sudden we become so particular.

There are people who drink alcoholicly but they’re not alcoholics… 90% of the people in this country are on something.

People in Alcoholics Anonymous want the freedom to choose their own God. But when someone else chooses the God of religion or Christianity, these people repel and don’t want to hear. They’re not practicing the very thing they want others to practice with their beliefs.

Is it a matter of life-and-death? Then don’t worry about it!

Don’t let your mind s**** y** over phantoms to the point where it debility. Like when we think somebody doesn’t like us or is not attracted to us we played over and over and over and over and over in our head until we find ourselves in front of them on a date and we’re a wreck. I tell you the women I impressed most are the ones that I’m not attracted to or don’t really care what they think about me.

You would be surprised how many people say one thing but really inside they are experiencing something completely different. Like they will say, I’m not attracted to him or her, I’m done dating for the rest of my life. They tell that to a person that’s attracted to them and then they start acting totally different as they get to know them and fairly quickly too.

For the longest time I didn’t give a d*** about improving my persona or my presentation.

The power of learning from each other. Even when the shittiest team in football plays the best team in football and manages to give them a hard time or even win, everybody else is watching to see what they are doing. And then the better teams adopt this strategy and Viola

If you can tell a penalty is going to be called you can cheap chart somebody in the NFL and get away with it! 🤷‍♂️

Beauty is not only a powerful thing; it can be a lethal thing!

A lot of people make socializing the number one’s priority. I have a lot of things going on in my head and socializing really takes a back seat – Even though I would like to be on the top of my game in that area.

Some people recognize the value need for fostering growth in others [by allowing or encouraging them to DO IT THEMSELVES].

Just because a lot of the pieces are falling into place didn’t mean that’s the person for you. Seriously. And not only is that the criteria for most people. A lot of people never dawn to the fact that that’s just life happening, and that someone else… Is out there for you with the most important foundation of all which will allow the most important blossoming of the relationship to take place.

Probably not trying to make things hard on each other, trying to make things easier on each other is probably one of the best ways to insure the quality and longevity of any relationship.

That’s rough, when the resentments and the animosity start to build in a relationship…

How many of us go out gift shopping for a gift that we know we wouldn’t enjoy but we’re thinking the other person would?

With speaking your mind has to stay just ahead of your mouth. Be able to form sentences without really even consciously… That’s how it seems to work for me. But I’m no brain or thinking specialist.

All we can do is be ourselves. Now if we know we have some issues that need to be corrected….. 🤷‍♂️

I’ve done what I’ve done all my life to keep people in check. That fact has never been clearer than now.

—————My positive-side really gets hunker down on by my protective self when I am in fear. You can hardly detect anything easy going about me. It would take tremendous effort to be able to tap into it under these circumstances.

Man likes to minimize his risks not maximize them. Living by certain principles often means maximizing risk in certain instances. For example you meet 2 women right around the same time and you like them both and you are unsure about what the future holds with either one but you only want 1. But at the same time you feel guilty about courting both of them. Not sleeping with him but simply getting to know both of them better at the same time. You could pick one early on but what if it’s the wrong one? What if it doesn’t go anywhere? By choosing one over the other sooner rather than later you increase your risk of winding up with nothing -possibly.

Some people may not be aware of this but they use some pretty filthy language in the movies in the sixties and seventies as well.

Everybody’s life is interesting. You don’t live and laugh and love and love and love and love and lose and… That would be an interesting. Some people just seem to lack the ability to write it up the way it is. They overdo it, they underdo it, they leave this out…

There’s always something interesting to talk about! Other people and the conversations they have with others is living proof of that. Some people just can’t seem to get there though. I mean we can talk about anything we want so.. If a person can’t find anything interesting selecting from that brought a base to work from… 🤔🤷‍♂️

There’s a difference between not trusting people in the here and now because of childhood experiences; And not trusting people in the here and now because of previous adult experiences; And not trusting people in the here and now because of current or more recent experiences. Where is the? Or is the?

It’s easy to accept dying when you have nothing to live for! Thank you Father for answering my prayer 5 minutes earlier and reminding me of this one. It’s the hardest thing in the world when you feel you have everything to live for!

When a person speaks from the heart it’s easy to come up with purity. When a person connects or reconnect with love for life, it’s easy to be loving. But so many of us too often fail to speak from the heart. And so many of us have our love within us buried under hurt, fear, ego, anger…

If God has a plan you don’t fight it unless that plan is to build strength and character in you. Which is how strength and character are built! But what if…

Instead of saying who cares or the h*** with it or the h*** with them, ask what else can I do?

When man is faced with the decision between what GOD wants on the left and what he would prefer on the right… Like a woman he desires or feels is perfect for him versus what GOD has had planned for him all along and picked out especially for him.

In man’s mind the discrepancy is huge while in GOD’S it is very little. In man’s mind the discrepancy is very little while in GOD it is huge.

So many human beings walk around thinking they’re hugely different from their fellows-is that really the case? When the difference between a man and a monkey is only 2%? A black man and a white man is 0.5%? Something along those lines

Nothing’s as good as it seems nor as bad as it seems -sol stop worrying..

I think I have a faulty processor

I don’t think being genuine get you as far as being fake with a lot of people in this country. SADD

Don’t we all wish we could have somebody in our life we could tell everything to about ourselves and be accepted! That should give us all some clue about just how incredible [incredibly rare] a quality that is! 🤷‍♂️

Man doesn’t need an excuse to raise his profit margin-but he’ll take one!

Everybody’s got a motive even GOD – Although somehow I get the feeling GOD’S in a league all HIS own!

GOD doesn’t react well to people who demand [anger] or feel their owed [arrogance]!

Maybe that’s why Ray formed the personality he has, because ANA -Because he learned that women need a man with a sense of humor to help them with their depression. Additionally, women being very emotional, he learned to be flatline to balance it out.

***** When a person who wants to quit drinking crosses paths with Alcoholics Anonymous something very special happens! And bill Wilson talks about how what would normally take years can often be a accomplished in a matter of months. Well it took me decades to get where I’m at. Which tells me I never would have gotten where I’m at by myself. It took me forever to get past the anger and the feeling that I was owed, or deserved better than what I had gotten as a child. A word of advice, GOD doesn’t move very fast when we demand in anger, or think HE owes us [Bill W. mentions this as well -in the child’s greedy little Christmas-list]! I either demand a things from people or I put myself in harm’s way for decades before and in sobriety. It was a combination of ego and anger – 2 very formidable opponents. COMPLIMENT often and GIVE of what you have freely. PINK FLOYD

It dawned on me over 20-25 years ago that for whatever reason[?], A person who is underdeveloped or immature emotionally, tends to age more slowly. Like me when mine was stunted? Or is it more someone with a youthful mentality or spirit?

Some people are great as understanding power between us human beings. They always know how to end up in that position. Some people are excellent at manipulating to where things are always on their terms. There is a rule whether it be in the universe or somewhat skewed among humanity that once something has been spotted that works better, ultimately a shift will take place towards that… Are black players who are often faster, and more durable as quarterbacks -the thing of the future? This has been raised before I take it.

That’s how you win football games -you don’t stop where other people get stopped.

Some people understand humanity so well and have such a lack of fiber or values, that they can practically wrap a person around their finger as well. 🤷‍♂️😔

A lot of people cannot handle positions of fame or power or beauty.

When somebody offends, someone has to take “THE HIT”. Point? When we retaliate in our relationships, or against people in general… WE SET IN MOTION… IN ALMOST EVERY CASE!

2 basic problems in relationships: 1] Most young people don’t know what they’re doing [not necessarily bad; 2] Older people [like myself lol] tend to be stuck in their ways [usually bad, but not always].

Humors’ always a bit risky, just as telling the truth is!!!!

When you are unaware of either yourself or others or have a connection between yourself and others, you cannot satisfy people. That’s not exactly what I mean it encompasses much more than that. But what I’m trying to say as a person who is in touch with themselves and others and has a link between the 2, when they for example make love with another person they know exactly what to do. What feels wonderful and how to convey it.

Why hold back your feelings are away till next week or next month or next year? The world needs more love in it and in a timely fashion common not less or later. I know what the social norms are silly…

These is people in the world to kill are those who love us.

We all get on each other’s nerves sometimes. But believe it or not some of us get on each other’s nerves for being [too] good, not for necaessarily being bad -or thoughtless or senseless or ignorant.

You can only express anger when you’re filled with anger. You can only express love when you’re filled with love. When you are no longer filled with anger you cannot express anger. When you’re no longer filled with love you can no longer express love.. When you are filled with love it’s easy to be loving. One cannot help but be loving. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

getting worse with no cure -fear

When you get overly upset the 1st thing one should ask is what’s really wrong? So many people think that what or who they’re angry at is what or who they’re really angry at. Take the stain out of it especially when it’s someone we care about or especially when it’s a situation or outcome rather than a person really eating at us. The thing we want to avoid most is hurting ourselves or others.

People are so shocked when they see somebody they know get upset for the 1st time. Why should you be shocked? They’re human aren’t they? And you’re human aren’t you?

The ultimate self-sabotage? Provoking GOD!

With regard to sexual impulse, women have more control over there’s than men -which is why they have the power. Take notice man!

Money I suppose is a necessity of life. They even allude to it in The Bible. But I wonder just how much to set up in this country and in the world of late has got a negative connotation. Or maybe it’s the lack of something else? When people lose their wallet or lose a money order or lose their jobs they become so terribly frightei did that they often go into fits of rage or take measures that are extremely unscrupulous. So how can dependence on money then be a positive thing? The way the system is set up and here to allow such things needs correcting.

Spiritually Transmitted Disease. It appears somebody wrote a book by that title but I came up with or was told that by God some 28 years ago maybe more.

I could not reach the kind of gentleness that could only attain that kind of love and connection with another human being for decades! What we exude has a source within us!

We’re all intricate pieces of the puzzle. Pink Floyd singer David Gilmore. Myself. The garbage truck driver. Picasso. The janitor at your elementary school.

Sometimes while I’m drifting away and doing something, I get it even more right than if I was attempting to focus. 🤷‍♂️

Momentum is not good in weight lifting especially when you are older -it can lead to injuries. And you want to work harder -not less to build those muscles.

For being the sharpest animal on the planet… WE SURE ARE F’ING UP THIS PLANET!

If you can hold off and get past other people’s front, you will find that they are as lacking in confidence as you are and perhaps even more in many instances. It always comes down to who is going to flinch 1st with most people.

If people are cautious they are also easily led and want to be lead because they want to be led.

People will try and put on you their own insecurities. And yes the own flaws.

One definition of wisdom or maturity is that instead of falling prey to your own b******* after the fact, you can see it coming just before you’re going to fall prey to it anyways 🤷‍♂️ Or perhaps maturity means seeing it before it comes -while wisdom means you’ve learned how to duck! 😆

I wonder how many songs can be written or imagined from these writings?

You know why we experience so much rejection in this country? Fear and ego. You managed to minimize both of those in this country and you would see a complete turnaround.

I guess I don’t have much faith in the system. The dating system either. So I wander 🤷‍♂️

☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆☆ Favorite quotes “People come and people go”. “Some people make you love them more as you get to know them; and some people make you love them less”. 🤷‍♂️

I think if you’re consistently good to a person -it eliminates a lot of potential issues. I’m working on that department.

With regard to relationships I think most people look in the wrong place. Or, they themselves whether they know it or not, are simply not up to the challenge -THE GREATEST CHALLENGE [BY CHOICE] ANY OF US CAN FACE! 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️ RELATIINSHIPS ARE ALMOST ALWAYS DAUNTING. And often times they reveal more about us than we care to know.

It’s just an estimate calm about 10% of the population has a gift in any given area. Some people in relationships. Some people in music. And we look at these people in these areas that either personally or generally speaking are the areas where humanity seems to long most for success And then we envy them. There’s gotta be another secret to life than just “the gift”. Something deeper. My original point was that the biggest problem with relationships given this above statement [10%-rule] is that most of us don’t know what we’re doing [we’re limited in our natural abilities which means WE HAVE TO WORK!]. We probably don’t even realize it so therefore -we really don’t try to do anything about it. The fact is -most of us are either too lazy or too distracted elsewhere, or in denial. Hard fax? Have a better suggestion?

You have to wonder just how invested someone is in a relationship when they never get upset. Aren’t relationships supposed to be about Passion to a certain degree?

A friend of mine wore a shirt years ago that read “Experience is what you get when you didn’t get what you wanted”. That was 30 years ago. How profound has it turned out to be in my own life?

It’s not good to say “I’ve been through a lot”. It”s better to say “Some people would say I’ve been through a lot”. 🤷‍♂️

*****Live right and stop putting yourself into other people. Have the best possible relationship with God however long that takes. Learn to deal with and except both the UPS and Downs of life. And try to be life’s solution wherever you go -not it’s problem. 👍

The more we fear on the physical plain, the more it indicates our being for whatever reason, is living in it -rather than in the spiritual- where faith in something far greater can be found!

*FACEBOOK “JUST LET IT CHANGE YOU! After all, that’s it’s purpose for happening in your life at this time!” Most/many changes come through things we seek to avoid or control. Mankind hasn’t figured out yet when to let it ride -even after all these millennia. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

A lot of the things we used out there to get drunk and high we can use in hear to stay clean and sober. Like Passion!

Drugs and alcohol kick my a** and the 12 step program kicks my addiction’s a**-kicks drugs and alcohol’s a**!

There’s no denying that at the start relationship like an embryo or a seedling is that it’s most vulnerable stage. But a lot of people in order to get around this try to be fake/on their best behavior.

A lot of women aren’t just afraid of being harmed by a man but by how a man makes them feel. It’s two obstacles, negative and positive as usual.

Things are always fueled by money. Anything that man builds or does he seemingly wants something out of it. A simple little thing on a website that you would think there’s nothing really behind it, but people are counting their pennies as they come through..You know there’s no law that says that we can’t evolve past money into a system of love. And don’t tell me it wouldn’t work because too many people would take advantage of. There are plenty of people taking advantage of the system as it is right now. From the bottom and the top.

People don’t have just one conversation anymore a lot of people on social media are talking to 5 people at the same time it’s ridiculous. But who cares as long as that website is making money right?

I understand that our society has not only become very lazy but short with their attention span. I guess when you’re writing on these social media sites to one another you gotta keep it short into the point. Otherwise people will just wander off. What a wonderful place America has become.

It’s what or how other people believe or perceive [this, that, each other] -right or wrong!

In many cases nowadays both people going into a relationship don’t know what the h*** they’re doing. I just don’t understand why we’re allowing this. 🤔

I haven’t been protecting myself. We become weak and battered and unprepared for challenges and opportunities on the horizon.

Well we have done a h*** of a job since the sixties f****** each other over to the point where now nobody f****** believes anybody.

Man hasn’t figured out which battles to lose in order to win the war. He wants to win every battle and every war. But it doesn’t work that way.

Others aren’t daily ones who pick up on or sense things. I do too. Sometimes it’s the front of the mind that’s running things and sometimes it’s the back of the mind. I am sure quite often that the front of my brain and my rear of my brain are in conflict. The front tells me what I want. The back tells me whether or not I should have it.

A generation, person can become so toxic, do they begin to repel that which is intended. Like being forthright! Forthcoming! Forthcoming!

*FACEBOOK It’s too bad more people [these days] can’t make each other feel stronger [build each other up] -rather than weakening one another [tearing each other down].

*FACEBOOK “Whether people want to admit it or not, we live in a fragmented society today more than ever. You say “Not in my neck of the woods” Well maybe not -but look around you! Listen!” And worst of all “we fail to recognize the devastating consequences”. Just as when we fail to consume a rounded diet. It’s a miracle how the body can go for years with an improper diet and still function. Same thing with the soul. The human spirit. Sometimes I think that’s a drawback in God’s plan because it allows us to go forever without actually making any changes. Until it’s too late 😔

“Instead of focusing [so much] on being better off financially -why don’t you focus on becoming a better person [first]?”

Some people make a terrible first impression -and yet they are the most wonderful people in the world. Some people make the most wonderful first impressions -and yet they are some of the most terrible people in the world. THINK ABOUT IT! 🤷‍♂️

Look out for people who initially make an effort without you yourself really having to put forth any effort. Just imagine what they’ll be like when you do! 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

*FACEBOOK Some people’s last impression is pretty much the same as their first -but not so with most of us! Some people are remarkably consistent -as well as remarkably genuine! 🤷‍♂️

We’re not in charge of other people -GOD IS! So if HE allows something to happen -it’s for a good reason. And HE sure seems to allow a lot to happen -so I guess HE’S got a lot of good reasons lol. By the way, what would life be like if we could control other people? It wouldn’t be life would at all! It would in fact be a life centered around ourselves wouldn’t it? Besides calm a people wouldn’t like this very much. If they didn’t fear us, they would eventually [grow to] resent us.🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

When something goes wrong you can’t always backup [or out]. You simply cannot unscramble that egg. But sometimes when we’re headed in the wrong direction, we can backup -we can unscramble that egg. What’s happening in this society as indicated, among other things, with our economy -we can backup! But one of the problems is that no matter how bad things seem to get certain people always seem to benefit. So they resist I’m doing things even though it would benefit far more people. And many of these people unfortunately are people in power.

You know how they say sometimes people work things out a certain way to get a certain outcome? Like they will say, why would I do something like that knowing I was gonna get caught? The answer, because when you get caught then you can say why would I do something like that if I knew I was gonna get caught? But the problem with this ploy is that you will forever in certain people’s mind be suspect. You don’t get off Scott free.

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*FACEBOOK Some people cannot simply say “no” or refuse -IT’S JUST NOT IN THEM [AT THAT TIME]. So they have these rather elaborate subconscious schemes or coping mechanisms that come out after the fact… I know it seems messy, but asks what’s so many human beings, we’re a mess. We can all say to each other in one area or another, “Why did you do it that way”. 🤔 “Because I’m not quite right in the head -of course” lol”.

so-called “Higher-ups”

[it’s a done deal]

*FACEBOOK Many bad people see the world itself as bad. Once again, I had to look up a word to be sure. Therefore, they have no “compunction” whatsoever about returning the favor to the world itself. But every now and again they will run into a kind caring soul and think twice before they act. So just imagine the transformation that could wholly take place in such an individual -if we were all examples of kindness and caring [which we should be anyways 🤷‍♂️]! At the very least, the individual would have to repeatedly think twice to the point where he would perhaps no longer wish to wreak havoc on the world 🤷‍♂️ And BTW, for our own part in this ~WE REAP WHAT WE SOW~ WE ACT COLD AND INDIFFERENT [AND THAT’S NOT THE HALF OF IT WITH MANY OF US] WE GET IT BACK 10-FOLD? Oftentimes we harm/snub our fellow human beings in subtle ways. And oftentimes when we return the favor it either goes completely over their head or doesn’t seem to make an impact whatsoever. What bothers us, may not bother other people. Sooooo, what often happens in the world is that people retaliate under these circumstances in not-so-subtle ways. When a sensitive person is harmed or offended by an insensitive person, it often requires the sensitive person who has been harmed or offended to retaliate in a more aggressive fashion in order to produce a similar degree of harm. Human beings, not being the most attuned… Will often overshoot the mark without even thinking twice about having done so becaaaaause, quite often, our retaliation stems from multiple offenses over time which continue to mount into an emotional mountain of pain and anger that many of us simply carry because our normal processing which should alleviate the effects over time regarding each of these experiences simply isn’t working, or working fast enough or effectively enough -which is why so many people either lash out, seek counsel/therapy, turn to drugs and other addictions, or commit suicide eventually! 😔

Pay attention to the people who make an effort in the people who do not. Not all of them are selfish self-centered prix. LoL

*FACEBOOK Just because a person knows a lot -doesn’t mean that they choose correctly or are able to choose correctly from their arsenal [pool of knowledge] when people seek advice or counsel from them. Having vast knowledge and knowing which, and when, and where, and how, and with whom to use it -are two different things [sorta -one is knowledge, the other a knack, gift, skill].

*FACEBOOK There’s 2 ways of gaining an advantage over your fellow human being: Making yourself stronger; Weakening them. Both are a common tactic among human beings unfortunately.

*FACEBOOK I said the other day that for someone like GOD who is in control of everything, HE sure lets a lot of things go, let’s a lot of things slide, let’s a lot of things happen. There are at least 4 reasons why HE does this. The 1st is that HE loves us beyond comprehension. The 2nd is that HE gave us free will because of that love. The 3rd is that HE wants us to learn and grow in HIS likeness. And the 4th is that HE wants us to gain merit through victory over our struggles. 🤷‍♂️

*FACEBOOK People don’t ask for GOD’S will to be done, they ask for HIM to Grant us our will. And when this doesn’t happen we either become angry at HIM or refuse to believe HE exists any more. See the fallacy behind our logic to begin with? The fallacy that we think we know more than GOD; and the fallacy that we think we know more than GOD with regard to how to love.

*FACEBOOK Man was created [meant] to become strong through struggle ~not weak through apathy! THINK ABOUT WHICH ROAD IN LIFE YOU HAVE CHOSEN! Well, 🤔 Apparently that became part of the plan after the fall from grace. 🤷‍♂️

*FACEBOOK There’s a difference between a strong America and a healthy America [in this case]. People seem to have lost sight of that. And also an America that could be stronger. An America that could be “all it can be”, rather than an America that only needs to be so strong. Our strength and our integrity as a nation should not be dependent upon the state or condition of the world around us. If we found ourselves living in a very weak world, does that mean that we only need to be so strong and make so much effort and exert so much of our resources to be just a little bit stronger and a little bit better than the rest? NONSENSE! All-too-often man does just enough – And forgets his children, and his fellow man are watching! 😔

*FACEBOOK We’re [some people are] more concerned about what other people think than we are about what GOD thinks. We know we can’t hide it from GOD -but we do “it” anyways. We know we can hide it from other people and that’s precisely what we do. If we knew we couldn’t hide it from other people we probably wouldn’t do “it” in the 1st place. PEOPLE… 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️ Again, sometimes I get annoyed at the way GOD has set things up in this universe. It seems as if it was designed for us to be able to screw up too easily. 😏

*FACEBOOK You think all we need in this country is a strong army, alot of things, and a lot of mistrust? You think we can survive on those things! Along with a sound effort to separate ourselves from those we feel are not worthy of us [Separation by classes]?

Thieves are a fact of life and some people are terrified of the idea of being taken advantage of by then. BUT GOD says there are ways around this. Don’t put your treasures where thieves and moths can get to them.

*FACEBOOK Whatever you’re worried about -stop worrying about it, just do what you can and leave the rest to GOD -And trust me, GOD will do HIS part ! And trust me, it’s an unbeatable combination once we have done our part [it’s a done deal]! And the end outcome is not the one on Earth -although you can put all your eggs in that basket if you so choose. GOD operates from the vantage point of eternity and a Heaven far and away from this place. So even when things don’t turn out the way we wanted them to, ultimately we can still win [the war] if we don’t allow ourselves to be pushed off the balance-beam-of-Grace by these outcomes. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

Seriously how many people go to a pawn shop to pawn something because they like the atmosphere? It’s desperation usually. And there are things that a pawn shop can do for you that nobody else can. It’s just a cold hard transaction with stuff of value of front and money over the counter and return. And one never wants to offend GOD -if it can be avoided.

It’s no crime to be poor -it’s the poor people with no values we have to worry about. 😔 But even then, we should not despair over these matters too much. The offender is usually worse off than we are [compassion], and the one who offends us is the one who offends GOD!

*****If you practice guitar even though you don’t want to learn it, YOU’RE GOING TO LEARN IT -SAM AS ALCOHOLISM!

Too shy [cultural], too afraid, too arrogant. The difference between beautiful men being hit on versus beautiful women! 🤷‍♂️

*****10,000 hours to become a master instrumentalist. A master diamind-cutter, an alcoholic. And just as what, only 10٪ even if they reach the 10,000 hour mark, they will not reach mastery-level! Same with addiction, only a small percentage, no matter how much they practice can reach that pinnacle. Becoming Alcoholic, becoming an addict is the pinnacle of that endeavor respectively -but it’s an upside-down pinnacle!

*****Don’t manufacture more shit in recovery!

SPIKES occur in people’s IQ! IT’S AN AVERAGE REMEMBER!

When a person who is already gifted hones that gift further…

**********FACEBOOK Just enjoy the ride and stop thinking you’re doing the driving –GOD IS!

I think I’m turning into one of those guys that you either love her you hate lol

*FACEBOOK When somebody says something that offends you and they didn’t mean to, that’s a huge difference from someone who is. But with a lot of people, having pointed that out -they don’t seem to get over it. There’s a big difference between intentional and unintentional -but there doesn’t seem to be a big difference with some people in terms of their [initial] feelings once they have been made aware of their own misinterpretation -get it? I’ve seen this!

*FACEBOOK Worrying weakens us! Playing things over and over and over again [in our minds, in our 💕…] distorts us!

*FACEBOOK Some people need 5 years [or more] before they can begin to open up to the possibility of having sex with someone, while other people only need 5 seconds.🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

*****The pinnacle of low bottomness-alcoholism and addiction!

*FACEBOOK It’s a free country; people can do what they want. It’s just too bad so many people don’t know what they want. And worse yet, what they need! 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

*FACEBOOK Would you trade your wife or your husband for your [restored] health? HONESTLY! Would you give up your health -to restore theirs? HONESTLY?

☆☆☆☆☆From now on, when somebody asks me what I do for a living, my response shall be “I don’t work, I write!”

*FACEBOOK We pay so much money for an education so we can earn a living. We often do it for the sake of our partner and children. But how much money do most of us invest in learning how to raise a child and give them everything they need? And then there’s the pride of having the freedom to raise our children as we please. Pride in the fact that no one can tell us how to raise our children, when in fact -in many instances, that is precisely what is needed in the home. The point is this, how important is making money [and all it can provide] versus raising our children properly?

*FACEBOOK A lot of people go to work so they can buy a 1/2 a million dollar house for a family they seldom see [hardly know]. Don’t you think it’s better to live in a $150,000 home and be there to participate and watch your children grow up? 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

Some people deal with relationship problems and family problems by living at work.

*FACEBOOK If you really want to screw over your enemy, get him from the day he is born and raise him wrong. I was speaking with some people earlier in the day about how people who become Alcoholics don’t do so intentionally. And yet their actions in the form of repeated drinking over many years is precisely how most people get there. In addition, most parents do not raise their children to have them go through life unprepared and with continual struggles with normal everyday experiences. They do not raise their children with the intention of them growing up sitting on a couch in some therapist’s office trying to figure out where it all went wrong, while their peers are out enjoying the full fruits of life in this wonderful country of ours. Do you see where I’m going with this? One of the most important things you will ever do or decide on in this life is -whether or not to raise your children properly.

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Many adults either have children, or end up with children who wind up being the parent [or companion] to them -rather than the other way around. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️ Women tend to be more open with their friends than men do their friends. Women often are granted their children in the separation or divorce were as men or not. And we wonder why men act the way they do -running around! Some men make better parents than women. Some men love their children more than some women. And yet almost unilaterally -we grant custody of women to their children.

Abortion? When abortion became legal the religious people rebelled. Now that abortion is illegal the abortionists are rebelling. The people who are pro abortion felt that the people who were not should comply with the law in many instances. Just as I’m sure now the anti-abortionists feel that the prohibitionists should comply with a law. Women going to shady places to get abortions is no reason for making abortion legal. And this thing about a lot of women using abortion as a contraception… BS! And this idea that a man and a woman get together to create a child and thit is solely the decision of the woman to make that decision when it was 2 people voluntarily creating this life… that’s a fallacy! The idea that life doesn’t begin until a certain point. They had to come up with some kind of an excuse before they could kill it. Before they could convince some of the hard liners to soft enough a little bit and either become neutral or even supportive of their cause. Sounds like a bunch of lawyer. I was like the OJ Simpson case. Oh yeah life doesn’t begin until… So we’re not actually killing a child. Can you imagine if they had just come right out and said yeah we’re killing a child but so what we don’t want it and that’s what matters most. Well that would gain little support from any side. It always comes down to support.

In a person talking against the system gains a lot of attention and support here she becomes a threat and that’s when the government steps in. Additionally, do you really believe that the American public are running this country or are in charge of it? As is stipulated in the Constitution of the United States of America. Try rising up against the government as an American people and see if it won’t try and do anything necessary to survive like any organism.

What happens when everyone breaks a law?

A lot of people couldn’t comprehend why people who owe child support were not allowed to have a license when they needed a license to pay the child support. These people [10% ?] were being punished perhaps rather unjustly in order to be used as an example to the remaining 90% who also might be tempted to revolt. Without incentive many people are not going to voluntarily give up their money -Not even for their children!

One person screws up and we all pay. One person screws up and then make a new. We don’t need more laws in this country we need more law abiding citizens with common sense and deeper values. The more we screw up the more license we give the government to control us. And the more the people around us go along with it for their own safety.

200 years ago people were willing to die for freedom. Today people are willing to give up their freedom in order to be safe. That is a big mistake! 200 years ago the government was a 100% accountable to the. Is that percentage has dropped significantly. Think about how the government and corporate America have benefited from 911. It really makes you wonder.

Man always gets over punished by man -but never so with God. Because with man not only is man being punished for his crime hes being punished to set an example and to discourage others from following suit.

A lot of things went unchecked in this country for a long. Unpaid child support. DWI… It wasn’t until the government was able to figure out they could make money off of these things that they started to act? Seldom lead this man put his efforts into an endeavor that only drains or puts a burden on the system rather than a return. Efforts that are of a good cause [strictly] seldom make the grade. Money Money Money!

Man is an opportunistic creature!

MAN-THE-HUNTER -When we stopped hunting deer and rabbits -we started hunting each other!

*FACEBOOK People like to pick on JESUS! Degrade HIS status for example. The idea of JESUS getting married and having children doesn’t seem to fit with some people’s idea of purity. A lot of so-called “HIGHER-UPS” in the church in particular. If the Blessed Virgin was the spouse of GOD HIMSELF representing all purity. Why couldn’t JESUS have a spouse as well, originally representing all that is impure? And my second point is this? When we use human standards of impurity with regard to our selves… sure, JESUS looks less than pure. Third pointz how arrogant are we to try and judge JESUS by our own human standards? Who are we to judge JESUS when we ourselves are so flawed -and HE has demonstrated HIMSELF to be so perfect? The old saying ~WE HUMANS DO -BECAUSE WE CAN~ We are also often prone to placing opinion above respect and regard for… What do most of us really know about respect at the highest level -let alone reverence! We revere the rich and the powerful and celebrity in this country. Really??? That’s our foundation [OUR TEMPLATE] for “THE HIGHEST REGARD FOR…” 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

If I were satan, I would be doing exactly what he is doing. I would do my level best to ensure people are skeptical of my existence. While also doing my level best to ensure people are skeptical GOD doesn’t exist [either].

Darwin -man is so easily duped [the easiest thing for a human being to believe is a lie that he or she wants to believe. And the hardest truth to believe is the one you don’t want to believe]. That’s why conmen and men who try to exploit women are often so successful. Because they tell them what they want to hear based on self-interest on both sides is why it works. In the case of the man exploding the woman for sex. Don’t both sides want something selfishly and greedily? If a woman is not allured by a man’s waving of bait under their nose… The woman would not be vulnerable. When a man temps a woman by telling her that he is going to do all these wonderful things for her… 🤷‍♂️ A woman should not be so concerned about what a man is going to do for her as she should be with regard to his character. This is the greatest way to ensure protection from being taken in. And the same goes for the con artist. And also the politician. America will never be great because of politician solves other problems – Let’s be clear about that!. The only way this country is ever going to be great again is by the average americansidism standing up-and-doing what’s necessary. But we’re so run down and. That’s also ignorant of what’s really going on in this country… If the owner of a store is never around, the store starts looking more and more like the employees that work there -rather than the owner themselves. 🤷‍♂️

We refuse to believe, many of us -that The Bible is GOD’S word incarnate. But we believe our government and we believe our scientists… Based on what? Have any of us… How many of us have gone to school so that we could literally dissect the information we have been fed? How many of us are given access… so we can literally come through the evidence for ourselves with a knowledgeable approach to what we are looking at before our very eyes? How the h*** do we know that dinosaur is made of real bone at the museum? And this business of evolving from a primate… Based on what evidence? How can we ourselves as laymen confirm that evidence? Every theory sounds wonderful until somebody who knows what they’re doing challenges! Just like everyone has a plan until they get hit. People are going to challenge these writings. Let them do so! While satan has a problem with scrutiny –GOD does not!

Money is afraid of risk, love on the other hand is at its best when facing risk! Go apply for a loan at the bank with lousy credit… Now go to a friend or family member who truly loves you… And ask to borrow money from them!

As the stock in money goes up the stock in love has to go down. As the stock in love goes up the stock and money has to go down. Money is highly limited and what it can do, love is not -except for in our own 💕 [hearts]! When there is little or no love in the world, money and materialism are everything! Do you understand? People who are looking to get rich and exploit humanity really want as little love in the world is possible. You take the Walton’s for example, the seventies TV show, people were sitting around in their living rooms talking at the end of the day about how each other’s day went. How much money was corporate America making off of people like this at that time? Assuming even if they had a lot of money, if they were sitting around talking with each other and listening to the radio how much money was corporate America making off of them? None!

Now about the addictive model! Nothing like a customer who needs you! Historically the greatest scheme for ensuring success in a business is the model of the drug dealer. But if you can transfer that over to the masses somehow… Restless irritable and discontent. Is shutting out God. Low self-esteem and self-worth. Isolation.

By separating us as a nation the government and corporate America each accomplished something vital to their empowerment and very existence: Divide and conquer! These are very old concepts! When you divide something you weaken it. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️ These are concepts I wrote about 28 years ago. Some of them 15 years ago. They are some of the very best! And for some reason -at this time, God is chosen to revive them! To awaken them in me! Now to continue! AWARENESS! What did Jesus come for if not to bring awareness! Truth with love! In the early part of last century when America was strong and United. The government and corporate America were like puppets. There’s one thing power and arrogance cannot stand, it’s being a puppet. The Kent State debacle – I believe that people in this country have been working very hard for a long time to make sure that that never happens! We’ve been hearing for years “You can’t fight city hall!” This country was founded on the concept of fighting city hall calm and anything or anyone foreign or domestic who challenges us FOR GOD-SAKES! 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️ Nowadays nobody wants to fight city hall because they figure it’s a lost cause. And you know what… you would be absolutely right! Few people can assail in single handed combat and emerge Victorious! When you go into a storm complain nobody gives a d*** Nowadays. But a 100 years ago, when there was something wrong, the whole d***** country protested. You should have seen the reaction from corporate America. Now they just stare at us and yawn! It’s always a matter of power. A 100 years ago America had the power. Now that Americans have been convinced they need all this junk -corporate America is selling them… Corporate America has the power -and rightly so [we are now the puppets on a string*]! Arrogant power hungry people hate being subservient! People who hunger for power want only one thing, more power! It never stops! Which leads me to ask the question where will it end? If man refuses to halt his behavior… That behavior is destructive… Then it can only end one way-destruction!

I always thought the idea of JESUS having children running around on the planet was a wonderful thought -not a demeaning one! 🤷‍♂️

*And this is all largely taking place with things we don’t even need. I understand now corporate America is starting to buy up land regarding foods. If they have power over us with regard to things we do not need imagine what kind of power they will have with regard to the things we do need! Tell me something, when a company put something on sale you think they’re doing it because they like us? Business as usual can be the most cut throat thing on Earth. Just as I believed many years ago that women were the soft spot in society, would I have been told and what I have witnessed personally is that many women can be as cold blooded as they come. I believe my aunt used the term ruthless one evening with regard to this subject.

If one person can make a difference! Then imagine what we can all do together! The powers that be -have always has been afraid of the masses uniting. Our money is our greatest weapon in the society such as this founded on commercialism. America could make government and corporate America tumble within a week simply by changing our direction and our priorities. Start it in that direction anyways.

When I was on a path of destruction with my addiction that final year in 1989 I was scared shitless. Imagine something destructive. Imagine being powerless over than your own life. And imagine it having the facet of picking up speed and progressing as time goes on? That’s a pretty scary scenario wouldn’t you say?

Depending on what a particular society values, determines the gifts each of us have been granted by God as defining success [capable of attaining success -of course some people are highly adept -most of us ARE NOT]. People who can sing great are highly valued in this country. People who know how to make money or highly valued in this country. People who know how to act are highly valued in this country. But I will say that some of the greatest voices ever created by GOD will never see a stage or record a record. It is more likely never see a stage rather than record a record. People in power generally make the rules -that is understood. So they’re going to place the things of value in the structure that mirror their own abilities and skills.

People having to go to school to learn how to act human? What is it that grabs us in movies? What quality does an actor have to have in order to grab our attention? What do we all lack in society that so many people shun us or simply behave as if we don’t exist at all? We pay to see people in movies who represent what we aspire to be!! Or what we loathe! The two extremes [emotionally charged]! We haven’t the slightest interest in sitting around watching those who fit somewhere in between. That is to say, the typical human being by our own estimate!

How many people would pay you or me to see us act? Pretty sad when you think about it!

Negative attention is better than no attention at all! At least when a man sees an attractive woman, he has determined she has some value. However base that value may appear. And however many women may see it as lewd. Believe it or not, many women actually benefit from that attention emotionally and in their self-esteem. Now you take the woman who walks past the man and asks if he has nothing whatsoever to offer. This has the complete opposite effect on his psyche and his emotions. It develops within him a complex, an insecurity, a feeling of worthlessness. Which in turn translates to neurosis possibly as well as anxiety and even anger or rage. So who creates these scenarios? So fulfilling prophecies! Why wouldn’t women be afraid of men walking around feeling like this? But the real question is why would women treat men as such? Are we not civilized? Are we not caring and compassionate?The answer in many cases is a resounding -NO WE ARE NOT! We are simply out for ourselves like everybody else we perceive as such! Or just as we were taught growing up! Or both!

When the car is in the driveway we have no real concern about going out and taking a ride or going to the grocery store or going to pay a bill. When the car is in the shop… We tend to get very anxious knowing that that option is not available. Even though we may in fact not have any need for it at that time. Women take great comfort in the notion that there is always a man out there available to them if they so choose. Man on the other hand tend to operate more from the notion that the car is in the shop and that they must constantly be finding ways and means to get their needs met under those circumstances. Understand? Women carry around a certain confidence with regard to the opposite sex -that many men with regard to the opposite sex lack. Do you think the based on my experience on this planet that I am of the mind that I can just walk out my front door just about any time and get a female? H*** no! That reality in turn creates a lot of anxiety, even fear! Probably the same fear a woman has of walking out her front door at night and being accosted. In both cases we take extra precautions don’t we? Extra precautions to ensure our own safety or survival or future? With women it’s more here and now and perhaps with men it’s making sure that our seed lives to see the future [atleast that seems to be the popular theory]. I’m not sure I would agree that that’s all it’s about but…

Now men and rape and power. How many of us as children felt powerless over our mother’s? How many mothers yielded their power over their young children thoughtlessly and carelessly and even brutally at one point or another? I think it’s humiliating for a man, even at an early age to be controlled or abused by a woman. I was recently told by a counselor that the most under reported crimes in the country are men being abused or raped by women. We are ashamed! Ashamed of being considered weak!

If you look at the power and the depths and the scope of these writings-it ruins a person’s approach to all of this so-called humanity. You know how hard it is to write about all this and then come out into the world and try and participate in it?

When a society is divided 2 things happen. We take away that society’s power. Well also instilling in them a certain need to fill that void of lack of community and fellowship. In the addictive model, there are certain facets inherent to addiction. Alcoholics and addicts are notoriously separated from people increasingly as their addictions increase. They shut out God. It’s been a while since I’ve recalled this so bear with me. Oh yes, they are restless irritable and discontented. See all these things occurring in modern day America on a massive scale. And now we see people spending money frivolously left and right -At no other time in the history of this country has corporate America been more happy! Our attitude is we need them and their attitude is they don’t need us -even though they need us every bit as much now as they ever have. They have been working at this for a very long time! When you weaken and separate a society they become less of a threat to government and they become needy because like the monkey in the cage… it has a very powerful need to socialize and gravitate. That is why a wire monkey with cloth cloth is so vital to this monkey survival. In America today in the absence of any real community or even the time to invest in it…………………….. We are searching for relationship with objects. If you take away a vital need from an organism, it will gravitate to that which is available in its place. Take away human community and put a bunch of materialistic garbage in its place… And human beings will attempt to bond with it or socialize with it. Behavioral specialists have known this for a long time. We learned a great deal about human beings in the early part of the 20th century and while in many instances it was initially intended to help humanity, now it is being used to exploit humanity!

Super Bowl tickets! Nowadays this group has to choose to buy this or that but do without this or that. There are so many groups now that corporate American can afford to survive under this framework. It could not do this a 100 years ago! The number of people who are rich in this country has expanded over the last 100 years significantly. While the size of a basketball stadium or football stadium has pretty much stayed the same. That is why tickets are going up because the rich people are now fillling the stadiums. Did anybody see this coming? In many instances it appears corporate America could care less about the average family attending there highly celebrity functions. That of “the playoffs”. $3000 as of 5 years ago to attend a Super Bowl in the nosebleed section? And things are so great on the corporate scene nowadays that they’re able to buy 20, 30, 50, 100 of these tickets for clients who could care less about the game itself. POMP!

Bosses will always tell you that they’re under the wire as far as profits. Then one day they invite you out for a party on their yacht.

You know how you can tell when you’re paying too much for a product or a service with a company? When you hear on the news that they just bought a 10 billion dollar company. Swallowed up a 10 billion dollar company I should say.

I used to go to a store. They gave great veterans discounts and had lay aways on their guns. There’s another company bought them out and there were no more veterans discounts. Companies grow in size due to choice to do business with them. Give us all these perks in the beginning. But being resentful at us for having to cower to us to begin with in order to grow and expand-once they do grow and expand they give us the finger! What kind of gratitude is that! Bank of America at one point tried to charge its members to use the ATM It rebelled and Bank of America back down. You see? Corporate America is always watching to see what their competitors can get away with so they can follow. Ericans should be doing the same exact thing! It’s corporate America keeps lawyers on hand at all times geared up for a fight. They also know that the average American is not prepared to do so as well. So corporate America gets away with a bunch of s***. Corporate America rarely challenges the rich because it’s too expensive. So they challenged the poor who tend to simply cave in. It’s the same old story about the powerful challenging the weak. It’s the bully syndrome.

Why does man keep failing to progress and certain areas? One reason is that when it’s not broke he tries to fix it. The other reason is man is constantly trying to get the upper hand with his fellow human being. He selfishly withholds critical and important pieces of information to himself. He also continually tries to mislead. Instead of information and quality building in ensuing generations… We go back-and-forth. We rise and then we fall we rise and then we fall with the idea of a select few looking to rise themselves above all and every.

A man made world where man can become God. In God’s world man is far too limited. But in a man made world man is God.

Corporate America is slowly but surely taking the power out of the average employee. There’s no longer any room for fairness or empathy or compassion on the part of the employee dealing with the customer.

The system always places itself 1st and the individual 2nd. That is why there are more people than there are jobs available than people. And how can we expect for people to not turn to crime in a society that is unable to support all of its people? Can we blame people? I don’t have a problem so much with a man breaking into my house to feed his children. But I do have a problem with a man breaking into my house to feed his drug addiction or to take a woman out on the date.

At the end of the day man is a creature that is easily manipulated because he operates off of shallow, flimsy structures designed to serve himself -rather than GOD and others.

If you make survival or anything else on this planet the top priority, satan has already won! JESUS gave us an example of how to subvert power on an earthly plane both with regard to satan and our fellow.

*****FACEBOOK First they try to bribe us, and if that doesn’t work; They try to threaten us; And if that doesn’t work they threaten to harm those we love. By the time it gets to the latter, people are more than willing to comply. In order to put an end to crime and satan’s reign we have to stop caving in! In order to put a stop to politicians doing what they do… We have to stop falling for their lies and stop expecting them to bail us out. You will always attract to a mouse trap a mouse when you use CHEESE. You will always attract shallow politicians when what you offer them is a lot of money, perks,, and celebrity -rather than hard work, low pay, and little appreciation. Only principled people will accept or undertake this sort of responsibility. Nowadays politics is big business. Is it any wonder we have increasingly shallow people applying for the job!!!! THINK ABOUT IT! 🤷‍♂️

*FACEBOOK In a hold-up, or hostage situation… for example, people [almost] always fall for the ploy, “We’ll let you live if you cooperate with us”.

*FACEBOOK Depending on what part of history you take a slice from, the world either looks like it’s getting better or worse.

*FACEBOOK People who are unfamiliar with the history of the world think we are living in the end times. Fact of the matter is -there have been places in history where the world was far worse. So who really knows! 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️ Just my opinion -what do I know! 🤷‍♂️

*FACEBOOK If people stood up to crime and satan, “they [crime & satan] would lose their steam”. Anything meeting with resistance generally does in the known universe [except… always reach for more, or less depending…]. But when a person stands up to crime or evil in the world, they naturally draw [negative] attention to themselves. They in fact often pay a heavy price. What’s that old saying, “In order for evil to triumph -all that is necessary is for good men to stand by and do nothing.” As long as people are more inclined towards saving their own skins rather than standing up for what is right, evil will continue to thrive! Have you ever seen someone out in public do a courageous thing? It’s quite startling isn’t it?

**FACEBOOK Little-by-little the system is attacking the individual. Quite often, the attitude in this country is that as long as it isn’t me -but only my neighbor. Don’t worry, sooner or later they’ll get around to you, and then to those you love… That is why we have to start standing up for one another. As long as we continue standing up for ourselves they will continue picking us off one at a time… until it’s too late. They use the natural inclinations of humanity against us. Which is why it is so important for us to go against our own natural inclinations -which tend to doom us.

It used to be that when someone was dishonest, it was frowned upon and considered very surprising. Nowadays it seems that when somebody does an honest act… It is viewed in similar fashion.

God says there are 2 things man has a problem with. What a man has [envy]; What a man is [jealousy].

Often times, the things that sound very nice and poetic -are being passed on as truth. And the things that don’t sound so nice or don’t sound so poetic -are simply sloughed off.

Imagine how much money we spend in this country, waste in this country on esthetics. Man, especially the arrogant and the hottie like things to look pretty as well as functional.

If you look at mankind and it’s cities for example, Actually appear to be pretty cold.

I think the gold and precious metal resources along with other resources which have been carefully placed and distributed throughout the world give balance to and effect this planet and its rotation and movement around the Sun and otherwise; and when we started removing it we began to throw things off.

The more the population is growing and the more man is drawn to materialism, the greater the stress we will put on the resource base in this world.

Why did GOD distribute the precious metals and other resources the way he did?

We think we own this planet. We put up borders and fences and other obstacles to either keep people in or keep people out. Our local University has got fencing all over the place where we once were able to roam these beautiful fields and walk our dogs and jog. People tell us where we can and cannot go on this planet that God gave all of us. Corporations are buying up various properties around the world and skyrocketing the values. There was a time when there were 2 few of them to cover the entire globe. Now that the rich have expanded and the notion that money is where it’s at and not principles… people are going on a rampage and just bind up for example all of the coastal properties and all of the places of beauty and trying to profit from it. Keeping out the poor and bringing in the rich.

At the tower of Babylon supposedly God-made separate languages so that man would not become too powerful. Too arrogant! For example in this country they are trying to do away with any kind of pure blood races. Everybody’s just becoming an amalgamum of humanity. When you break down certain lines and establish others… It paves the way for one rule. When we no longer have separation in the world that’s when satan can come in and rule over all. Imagine that we can’t agree on one God in the spiritual sense but will agree to one God in the physical sense: food, shelter, clothing -and the belief that one person can save us all -since by that time we will have long forgotten about God -most of us.

They used to have laws in this country against monopolizing. And of course mankind has seen fit to break down those barriers so that corporate America could continue to raise the ceiling on just how powerful it could become. With regard to capitalism once you reach a ceiling what is their left to reach for? Some people’s whole lives are about reaching for more. It used to be that the notion of being a millionaire was what people thought or dreamed of here-and-there. Then it became a little more people dreaming about becoming a billionaire. Now it’s an epidemic of people dreaming about being multibillionaires by the time there 23 like someone we know. Man’s animal self always needs more to achieve the same effect. In spirituality not so. And even if it does happen to be so -at least it’s beneficial and not destructive.

People continue to buy into this lottery thing. The only one that wins every week is the government.

Paying for water

Paying someone $10 $15 in order to take our payment. When is it gonna be a $100?

We don’t need more laws in this country -we need better people.

People in this country are beginning to place more and more emphasis on money rather than principles. Try this sometime, in the middle of the week park out in front of any local church and see how much traffic comes and goes in-and-out of the building. Then, park in front of your local bank, and see how much traffic comes and goes in-and-out of the building. It’s a simple exercise with profound results.

When is the interest rate going to be 40 50 60%?

I’ve been saying for about 10 years now that prices are going up and the boxes are shrinking in the grocery stores. I think now we’re down to 52 oz half galfun jugs of Orange juice! Half gallon ice cream containers are shrinking down to one-and-a-half, or even one-and-a-quarter. GEEEEEEZ… .The new way of doing things in this country and in the world… They want us old people to die off so the new generation has no clue about what it really meant to have a good life and what it meant to be fair and just and what it meant to be free and what it meant to believe in God. So the things like charging people to take a payment can be common place and not an absurdity. Do you remember what real half-and-half tasted like 50 years ago? You buy half-and-half at the store to day and it tastes like milk.

Now I know why people in 12-step programs with a lot of time blow their brains out rather than get drunk or high. The greater disparity in spirituality between these individuals and the world, the more frustrated and disillusioned they become.

They say now the key to winning a war is to get people to willfully surrender. Willfully surrender their rights and their freedoms. That seems to be the case now as people begin to lose both hope and courage. Once again, The people who founded this country stated “Give me liberty or give me death”. But nowadays people are saying “OK, if I have to give up some of my freedom to be safe, so be it!”

*FACEBOOK When George Orwell wrote his book, he may have been trying to warn the world -but he also provided a template to those who would attempt to exploit and rule it. Anytime you bring something profound into the world, even with a good purpose, that power can be used to the detriment of mankind. Again, why do GOD make it as such/allow it? FREEWILL?

*FACEBOOK I understand that a person can walk into a building, a certain building in Washington and look at the plans for building an atomic bomb. But they will not allow you to look at certain papers drawn up by Tesla with regard to his theories on gravity.

*FACEBOOK What is taking GOD so long?

Removing the commandments and certain statues from government building…

As I stated previously, covid not only could be attacking weaker areas of the body in the present -but it could be going after things programmed into the DNA to appear later in life as well. People with Alzheimer’s in their DNA or dementia could be experiencing it’s symptoms far sooner in life rather than later at its appointed time naturally.

I don’t want to offend people-but I can’t help it if the truth does! This is perhaps what I was brought into the world for!

The most critical or vulnerable time for an alcoholic is when they put the bottle down and haven’t yet grasped the program of Alcoholics Anonymous.

Don’t cause yourself pain you will eventually be forced to run away from to various venues or avenues that will harm you or cost you dearly in the end!

If someone denied a war that your son went and fought in and died for calm how would that make you feel? How do you think God feels when we deny that Jesus is our savior? Did he die on the cross for our sins in agony?

Facial-expressions [when stressed or in an awkward…] can often break up the…

“I don’t need anything more than a good woman I’m attracted to.” 🤷‍♂️

I don’t need a beautiful woman I only need a woman I’m attracted to. I don’t need an attractive woman I just need a woman I’m attracted too. I’d rather have a woman I’m attracted to than an attractive woman but I’m not.

If you are in a conflict or struggle, the thing that you don’t give up on is the thing that will win up. I’m referring to being between the solution and the problem and the direction you choose to go in end the direction you choose not to go in.

The more information a person is able to take in, like a fishing net… The more negative information about human beings and your environment your apt to capture. Along with positive information as well naturally. Life is filled with balances correct? But when it comes to negativity or threats, Human beings do not tend to weigh them in terms of negative, or “bad to good” [ratios]. They simply weigh the negative or the bad. So a human being who has a greater awareness will filter in far more negative than someone else who is not. Get it? There’s not a balance when it comes to our survival between good and bad. A threat is a threat in most people’s minds -and that tends to be taken solely on its own. What’s my point? With that being said… far more intelligent [aware] people, granted that they too are not taking into account the balance between good and bad, will see the world as a far more threatening place than others. 👀

We all miss things -but the difference is are you one of those people that’s willing to admit to it and do something about it or to Slough it off or get defensive when people point it out!

There are two kinds of people in the world: The ones who have flaws and can admit to them and are willing to do something about them and the ones who cannot admit to them and are unwilling to do anything about them.

Women keep going after the same man over and over and over again. The man who looks good on the front end -only to discover he is anything but on the back end!🤷‍♂️

would you rather have a man whose mediocre but willing to improve… tortuous or the hare

Don’t pick someone who lacks the ability to commit long-term!

Through the struggles we go through-and-through the struggles we our children go through even the struggles we ourselves put them through calm and they have a choice to fall by the wayside or to become stronger and greater in character.

Look at Wales with all their scars from living life-are they ugly? H*** no what would they be like perfectly smooth?

Human beings can be the greatest gift to one another or the greatest curse.

God never gives us more than we can handle but we ourselves often take on more than we should and can handle

It should be enough that God allows each of us to take part in his beautiful plan as it unfold then to try and step in and take all credit for it ourselves. 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

In the Jewish culture kids are considered responsible and grown for their own conduct at the age of 12. I think there’s something to be learned from that, something to be learned from these very wise people. In the United States it’s not that at all. But we’ve learned some pretty hard lessons over the years about how that probably should have been something instilled in our children rather than them thinking they can get away with things much longer than they should have.

the Jewish for example of a much older Nation than we are, we could learn a lot from them.

many Jewish people are poor even though there is a percentage of them that seem to excel to the very top of the ladder just as is the case with the blacks.

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Maggie I’m probably more like you thought I was than 8 years ago now lol

I can be extremely funny or extremely serious but it all depends on something inside that precedes them that is established or created or lives based Upon my perceptions of the things around me and what around me is occurring

I don’t seem to have much choice in the biproduct of all of this but perhaps I have a choice in my perhaps perceptions and perhaps a little bit in terms of what is happening around me.

Maggie, I’m probably more now like you thought or hoped I was back then when you 1st met me 8 years ago.

When you look at other people who make far more money than I do, I realize the miracle of how blessed I am for what I have. It’s incredible

I have alot of fluctuations I’m my personality.

be ahead of…

When you are able to begin to feel safe enough with people and with your own abilities with people… and a sense of worthiness to be able to participate in life… it’s magical the way we are transformed with regard to our presence around the rest of the world. When you are able to begin to feel safe enough with people and with your own abilities with people… and a sense of worthiness to be able to participate in life… it’s magical the way we are transformed with regard to our presence around the rest of the world. The short version of that I suppose is when you feel at ease with yoursel f.

For the longest time I had no control over my emotional or psychological faculties.

There’s nothing worse than pomp and arrogance in the face of God having granted us his grace to perform or function in a level that Allows us to participate in life in the finest fashion.

It’s not just how one presents themselves but the aura supporting it then determines if people will be turned off or turned on to your presence.

Well I’m working through my issues and trying to get better, you have to realize that there are other people out there that may not respond positively to the new U even if that new U is doing things in a healthy way. Because they’re not healthy. Because they’re still not healthy.

Do you understand the difference between applying self willed power versus GOD’S Grace and the presence of a situation?

God invokes every one’s help, but not every one is willing or open. When I tell people God has granted me the privilege of being a part of his work people look at me cross eyed and sometimes with I don’t know what. But I know and understand that God does not play favorites. If people are not a part of his plan it’s because it is either not the time yet or because they refuse to be open, to accept.

Once you know the principle behind something -the possibilities are endless.

What are the keys and life has been comfortable in your own. Once a person has managed to reach this level…

Wisdom? Is being able to predict, prepare or atleast recognize [the possibility] of something -not being caught off guard [of course don’t lose “the spontaneity-of-life”] by something.. Expect the best -prepare for the worst?

The key 2 women is don’t think about them too much. Is shame on the moon-Bob Seger?

A person on the comeback trail, once they have gotten themselves back… their “GOD-SELF” back, THE POSSIBILITIES ARE ENDLESS! 🤷‍♂️

We human beings are the greatest gift and sometimes the greatest curse to one another.

Sex is one of the greatest gifts from GOD and one of the greatest curses between men [mankind].

Why did GOD make sex feel so good? Could man not even procreate if it weren’t? Or is it something that HE wanted to challenge us with in order to gain merit?

Love is not so much game of strategy, but a…[?] of patience.

When God begins to lift the veil from your eyes that man or ourselves placed there… ☆☆☆☆☆ 🙈🙉🙊👌

FOR BABE When a person has made peace with their past, and when a person has made sincere amends* (deeply and sincerely as best they are (cap)able) asked for forgiveness… GOD doesn’t need…] to GOD for his transgressions, the flood gates of GRACE begin to open once again! 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

*I was grasping for the right word and of course an hour later God granted to me -contrition!

…POMP AND ARROGANCE IN THE FACE OF GOD’S GRACE IS SOMETHING GOD HAS LITTLE TOLERANCE FOR!

I can’t say that we exceed god with our intentions but we can say that sometimes with our intentions we exceed God where he has knowledge and knows better and we do not. It’s not a bad thing, it’s not that God is looking down on us because anytime we do anything with the right intention, Even in our ignorance, God Smiles down on us. But sometimes, man does act with goodness where GOD would not -because he knows it is not the ultimate act at the precise time!

Barry Gibb-good-looking men like that who choose or have a soul as such, can have it all literally! God gave me something most men cannot or will not ever have -but the other half, the other that is mine and mine alone to choose [by GOD’S offering…] -i’ve either squandered of rejected ALL OF MY LIFE! 🤷‍♂️ Terrible, terrible thing!

Just enjoy GOD’S Love, Mercy, Generosity!

“I don’t think we’ll go this route -this time. The route we’ve chosen countless times leading hopeless and despair.” 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

I can see now that when we allow ourselves to dwell in God’s Grace… But without God’s favor and without at least some sense that we are worthy -even though we can never be fully… Without both of these… And I’ve gone without both for so long… It’s an unbeatable combination in terms of thwarting GOD’S Grace… Never 👍🏻 [thumb] your 👃 up at “THE ALMIGHTY”! “GOD has been wanting to give me this gift [back] for so long! But I was so angry and so arrogant.”

When things work on us subconsciously, intently and intensely… For mankind without an example, he is lost! I finally was given a intricate example that has been missing from my life for so long. It was right in front of me for the last 14 and a 1/2 years. A man that could have been my father even though hes my peer. I cannot emphasize the profoundness of the impact is having on my life! In many ways the antithesis of my own father. RAY It’s almost embarrassing looking at a contemporary and appear is here in this way… But it happens to be true! 🤷‍♂️

Once that veil has been lifted, we begin to see for one thing, that there are some incredibly beautiful people out there in the world-incredibly gifted with a God-self!

As soon as you’ve got [captured/recaptured] whatever “it is” -it [the law of “cause-and-effect” can happen just that fast [snaps fingers] around you!

They tell me I’m not responsible for other people and yet I feel I am with regard to my decisions no matter how healthy they may be. We are definitely responsible for how we harm people but now I’m told we’re not responsible for the incredibly positive impact we have on them once we have found grace, once we have found our way back to grace. Difficult concept 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️ I’m not even sure this is correct. Man, the ultimate bungler.

I have largely over the years discussed only one side of the coin with regard to these writings -the despair, the focus I have largely suffered at my own hands 🤲

A lot of people, a lot of young people in particular in the world believe that they should be able to sit on the phone for hours and talk to I suppose demonstrate or to bask in what they perceive as “the love’connection”. I lead a very simple, peaceful life-and therefore there’s not going to be a lot to talk about. 🤷‍♂️ Therefore, we spend a few minutes on the phone here and there, and we enjoy listening to the love and the affinity we are developing for one another 🤷‍♂️ IT’S ABOUT QUALITY NOT QUANTITY! Thank you My GOD! How many people were adamant about “the other formula -the formula of quantity?” The one that is in direct violation “absence making the ❤ grow fonder”.

Women get offended when a man is too aggressive, and then they offend when he is not aggressive enough. 🤔🤷‍♂️😔

GOD CAN SEE IN THE DARK! 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

“Let go of all the things you’re not responsible for -then, now, in future!” 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♂️

PPF-

When a person feels unworthy it is impossible to calculate all the ways in which we shun opportunity.

GOD will prevail! The only thing satan has going for him is man’s twisted nature; and the ease with which he is so often duped.

A person, it is imperative that each of us know when we are wrong and when we are not in the wrong. How much they are in the wrong. If “wrong” is even the appropriate [too harsh] applicable term… Esteem, common sense, uncommon sense, wisdom, intellect to some degree plays a roll as well… because without this, life… relating… 🤷‍♂️

“I don’t think at this point in my life; I’m going to be spending much time anymore -contesting other people’s…” 🤷‍♂️

Oftentimes people will give off mixed messages-we should however pay careful attention to all of them. To each of them.

Teacher bowling flexible.

Some people have nothing to choose from others too much to choose from. Some people have no choices other people have too many.

Some people are good and some people only pretend to be good. There are a lot of benefits to being good. There are a lot of benefits to being [real or acting] good here on Earth. But that just doesn’t work with God when it’s not genuine.

The beautiful thing about Alcoholics Anonymous is that the same rules applied everyone. It really doesn’t matter how beautiful you are or how much money you make or what part of town you live in or how high your IQ is or what kind of connections you have…. That’s the beauty of the spiritual realm and of GOD’S…

I don’t know what other people are thinking and I have to be careful about how much time I spend trying to figure that out… Trying to figure them out… 🤷‍♂️

If we care so much like about this football player from the Buffalo Bills, then why are we so separated as a country?

Many people in 12 step programs don’t like the reference to their higher power as GOD! Does it matter what you call a shovel? It still can perform the same task cannot it? Where we get into trouble is trying to use it for something other than it was meant for I suppose. The 12 step program is an extension of our own limitations. It’s like a wrench -if you care to look at it in the most basic sense. Have you tried changing the starter on your car with your bare hands?

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The reason people in Alcoholics Anonymous fail so often is that they either take on too much too soon, or they don’t follow all the suggestions. Until we accept something… If I don’t accept that my tire is flat on my car -I’m probably not going to bother changing it. Acceptance in a way is an acknowledgment of reality. Acceptance is not condoning something. I used to tell people in the hospital that following the suggestions of the AA program each new day, is like waking up to a flat tire on your car each new day. In order to go back out into the world and participate -you might want to fix that flat so you can get in your car and drive off to do the things you need to do. Now the question with regard to this metaphor about following the suggestions of the 12-step program is this: Once the flat tire has been repaired, and you place the tire back up on the hub; how many lug-nuts are you going to put back on the lugs [what kind of mood are you in today -Lazy? Defiant? Angry? Jealous?]? Each one representing a separate suggestion from the 12-step program. 1? 2? 3? 8? All 12? The fewer suggestions we choose to follow -the more in danger we are of crashing! 😔

FACEBOOK Why do some Atheists tend to be more godly than some Christians? Why does their tree seem to bare better fruit than some Christians? It’s not so much about what comes out of your mouth [though we have to be careful nonetheless -what does], it’s about what is or isn’t in your ❤ 💙 [what you let in and what you don’t let in] -that’s “Y”! 🤷‍♂️

Some men think they’re all that. When you can create something rather than simply discover something GOD has already created… When you can create a new law that subverts or overcomes GOD’S… come talk to me!

To me intelligence is about openness!

Are people intelligent because they get things right -or do people get things right because they are intelligent?

It doesn’t matter what you call GOD! What matters is if you’re open to HIM. What matters is if you have a relationship with HIM!

Fine, protect yourself if that’s what you need to do! 🤷‍♂️

If we all got together and shared our innermost thoughts and… The nature of those thoughts… And how much trouble they cause us… We would without a doubt come to the conclusion that there is something evil in the universe affecting us, attacking us! This separation between so many of us is what allows the devil to continue to exist in the details prompted by our denial, ignorance, small sample [our own minds]; larger picture [humanities mind]!

There’s a difference between good people who make bad decisions that hurt you and bad people who make bad decisions that hurt you.

Seldom does something good come out of poor-decision making. Many of us don’t realize the profoundness of this statement. The depth by which our lives are impacted with regard to this principle. On the other hand, I met people who seem to always shoot for the very highest and best decision making. And their lives seem to be filled with the highest quality and the greatest freedom from what many of us suffer from regularly or semi-regularly.

Taking care of myself, or protecting myself, protecting my Serenity has never been my chief character asset in life or in recovery.

Recovery in a 12 step program is an act of love.

“Do what you gotta do -I’m not gonna spend any more of my days moping around over it”. 💯

They are saying on the Fox NFL Sunday right now that we should all take a CPR class to save someone’s life. GOD told me 25 or 30 years ago that we should all be adept at some basic knowledge of various emergencies that crop up among humanity on a regular basis. But how many of us by the very fact that we know little or nothing about such things -are really concerned about ourselves or our fellow human beings? Can you refute the evidence? 🤷‍♂️

An Apple is a great way, and a lazy man’s way of cleaning their teeth after a meal, or after eating sweets. 😁

When a person loses faith in humanity -all kinds of things can go wrong in everyday life situations. All kinds of bad decisions can be made. One satan has planted this in our 💕, he oftentimes has free reign. Emotions run high [and low] and isolation doesn’t help any either.

“I’ve been through far worse in my childhood than just about anything I’ve faced in adulthood.”

If you don’t believe there is a devil then explain to me why so many of the thoughts going through [planted in] your mind -lead you to make very bad/very poor decisions [often times when you know better -It’s not just about the thoughts; but the stirring up of emotions that create biases and distortions just prior to those thoughts, or during them, or even after them…]? Precisely what the devil would be shooting for if he did in fact exist 🤷‍♂️

Change your spots -and be thoroughly amazed at how different people respond to you for better or for worse! I am currently in the middle of going through a profound change in the way people are reacting to me. I heard many years ago that when I change [my attitudes, my behaviors, my perceptions], it’s amazing how much better the world looks and behaves. The healthier “I” seem to get -the healthier the world seems to get. 🤷‍♂️

Just how healthy can a person get? Just how sick can a person get? SPIRITUALLY SPEAKING!

People start feeling better, or getting better, or start experiencing more and more freedom for example as they mature as young adults… Then they rush to judgment with these new opportunities. I may or may not be in a similar situation at the moment. I just ask that GOD let my life unfold where HE has intended for it too.

For the last 30 plus years when I pray to GOD I ask for HIS will not mine to be done. Only 3 or 4 times since I made that commitment have I gone against it. And there are a lot of things in my life that I wish were different. More than likely things that would not have turned out for the best. That’s my thought on it anyways. 🤷‍♂️[GOD knows our limitations/what will work/what’s best rather than good or better (but we settle (even desire) so often for that which is inferior].

I love rock and pop songs or anything really that mentions GOD in various ways.

Most of us have this little window where we’re locked into a certain type of music at a certain age?

Some men you know you just don’t mess with. You know you just can’t or shouldn’t even attempt to tempt! I hope to be one of those men some day! I know people whose window last four decades 🤷‍♂️

Who do you suppose was both the most skilled and dedicated special forces soldier in history? That would have to be one h*** of a human being. SEALS…?

Sometimes I like to picture this happening in the movie rather than that which was actually in the storyline lol

This is a no-brainer… But we really shouldn’t pull together to the degree we do –only when there is tragedy.

The sad thing about the AA program is that many of us have no idea how far so many of the other members have come. Sometimes the members themselves don’t realize their own life’s story at depth with regard to the miracles GOD HAS BESTOWED UPON THEM!

I noticed in meetings of Alcoholics Anonymous many people seem very normal. Am I? For a long time I couldn’t relate to such behavior whether it was real or not. What about new people coming in who have real problems? How are they supposed to relate to these people? If you’re normal that’s one thing. If you’re not, you’re doing others and yourself a disservice.

Some people get deeply attached; but it’s either momentarily; or they get over it quickly when the relationship ends. Others not so much. And still others…

Give people what they want or act within the perameter of what it is they perceive as normal or appealing and they’re very happy with you, don’t and in most cases you’re not going to get anything/anywhere. And these are the civilized people of course. Don’t let me even start talking about the uncivilized ones.

What if it was the woman who had to perform instead of the man. And what if it was the woman who had to get it up instead of the man? If things were the other way around would women rape men? Why did GOD make it that way? Why couldn’t HE have made it to where the woman, who is [presumably] less aggressive -have the penis and the man have the vagina? That way it wouldn’t work.

If you think you as a fan are pissed because your team screwed up -how do you think they feel?

I noticed something very interesting about people who appear to be very devout, and how they are undeveloped [undevout/ungodly] in little things here and there whether they notice it or not LOL

Dale never seemed to change from situation to situation. That is to say like I do. My fluctuation in emotions leads to a fluctuation in personality. Whatever principle this is it also applies to people in other areas 🤷‍♂️

A lot of things don’t sound right/good, but they need to be said!

The people who stick around, the people who support you-those are your friends!

No heavy drinker ever sets out to be an Alcoholic. From one perspective it’s what you do not know what you think or say or intend. That is one of the great laws of the universe. The next law is the law of intention. We are a good person or a bad person based upon our intentions regardless of our actions, and the outcomes!

You place a rug in the hallway, can you walk past it 5 10 15 times A-day… You are innocent practicing to eventually trip over that rug. Or challenging yourself to see how many times you walk over that rug without tripping over it. The scenario sets the stage; while our intentions set up the nature of the challenge. IS THAT RIGHT?

It’s not that GOD didn’t hear my prayers. It’s more like WE DON’T hear HIS! Maybe my desires were inferior to HIS for me. And also, It’s not all about me there are other people GOD is trying to serve. Just imagine GOD doing the right thing all the time while trying to meet the various wants and needs of others. Of course this could all be trimmed down to one thing; what’s best for everyone! Where the conflict comes in is everybody thinks they know better than GOD. GOD simply overrides this chaos, and sticks to the plan of doing what’s right for everyone; this basically eliminates any chaos/conflict with regard to HIS knowing. When you factor in our twisted desires, and various degrees of ignorance, then it gets dicey.

So often it’s about us not doing our part while GOD is repeatedly doing HIS.

here are a lot of things that confuse us about God’s existence. But what are the things in life that without a doubt indicate that God does exist and indicate his true intentions or nature?