Maladapted in many cases!
When you are singing a song and you get the words wrong embarrassingly, you say they should have wrote those words in and that they were the ones that got it all wrong lol
There’s something very interesting about human-beings being totally in charge of their own person as well as others: They almost always [invariably] place themselves 1st. “Other(s)-centered” is a godly-trait.
When we play the big shot, GOD hands us over the wheel only partially [For GOD is not a callous GOD], and what happens: GOD blesses man; man becomes arrogant; take things into his own hands; man begs GOD to take him back; GOD takes him back; man becomes arrogant; takes things into his own hands; man begs GOD to take him back, GOD takes him back…
THE ULTIMATE IN… [neutrality] There’s a difference between being indifferent and being unbiased.
Consistency isn’t always the best thing for certain human beings lol given their individual or particular…
Be rid of animosity -if not for your own sake for GODS’!
■■■■■ I paid a $109.75 for my 49ers to advance to the NFC championship -if they don’t, I get my money back with $164 in interest… NOT BAD! 🤷♂️🤷♂️ * But don’t pay more than what it’s worth for them to win or advance!
If man and woman have their troubles and GOD’S BLESSING; then what of two men or two women who have their troubles and don’t!
It’s better not to say anything than to say something stupid or in pretense.
70% of our time devoted to others!
Prepare not here on planet earth to serve me -and they let me know it continued!
They don’t care what I say, they care what I do!
If they did to JESUS WHAT THEY DID… what of us??*??
People often resist believing! Like Daisy and trying to remove a thorn from her paw! 🤷♂️
FACEBOOK “I know what I’m doing; and I don’t know what I’m doing. Sometimes we don’t know what we’re doing. But even when we do know what we’re doing we can never know entirely what we’re doing!”
FACEBOOK “One of the most dangerous things in the universe is the ego -for it is never satisfied!”
When a person gets good enough they can make up their own rules! Better rules-but not necessarily rules others are willing to play by or even understand. People who don’t understand the game make up their own rules all the time-rules it aren’t better, rules that aren’t necessarily better, and yet many people will play by them because we’re sick.
FACEBOOK “The world would be a whole lot different if relationships were based on health; rather than connections, or worthiness/unworthiness, ego, F.E.A.R…”
FACEBOOK “How is it that some of the most intelligent people in history fail[ed] to recognize the most important things? 😏 Tesla for example, did incredible things -but were they the most important things?” 🤔
FACEBOOK “HOW WE SEE THINGS” is so “key”; “WE couldn’t even begin to make a significant enough emphasis on this point-of-fact!!!!!!!!!” 🤔🤷♂️ Movie “CLASS ACTION” “How I see things…” [cut-off] “How you see things is what got us into this trouble in the first place!” 😆
FACEBOOK “When a person is spiritually right, spiritually fit; they prefer “being small” to “being BIG”! “‘Converse’ ly…””😉 🤷♀️🤷♂️
FACEBOOK “People so often feel powerless; (and) are [have to think of the word for a minute 🤔] “oh well, guess this is the word” -> “deafeningly” [probably come to me later as they so often will] 🤷♂️🤷♀️ aware in fact! And yet 🤔, WE ARE HANDED OVER SO MUCH OF IT THROUGH THE GIFT OF PRAYER AND; FOR ANY NUMBER OF REASONS -FAIL TO UTILIZE [capitalize on] THIS IMMENSE [IMMENSE VERSUS ENORMOUS?]🔋“POWER”! Is it so surprising that man in his [infinite (and tireless)] quest for power, overlooks it, looks for it in all the wrong places?” 😏🤷♂️🤷♀️
FACEBOOK “THE “BUNGLER” “Man is given “the Truth”; man is given “the answer(s)”; doesn’t like what he hears, or sees 🤷♂️🤷♀️; SO HE MOVES ON IN SEARCH OF SOMETHING MORE PREFERABLE! No wonder throughout man’s (incomprehensible) existence; he appears to go “nowhere-fast” in the most important areas of life; in the most important areas of his very being in fact!”
FACEBOOK “I used to say “Drugs and Alcohol take you nowhere”. Ohhhhh, they definitely take you somewhere alright!!!! I remember many years ago at a conference telling a man that “my parents never did anything for me”. Nothing could have been further from the truth! In that very moment, and for the very first time 🤔, ‘I realized that my parents gave their very life’, SO THAT I MIGHT LIVE! Knowing the degree [I doubt it lol] of arrogance and self-will and self-centeredness inherent in me; as well as the degree of “self-destructiveness” later developed; the example my parents set, the example my parents demonstrated; played an absolutely crucial role in my “ABILITY, AND CHOICE” TO RECOVER FROM DRUG, AND ALCOHOL ADDICTION! It is, I believe 🤔 “THE CORNERSTONE” OF MY RECOVERY! WHAT’S YOURS?”🤷♂️🤔🤷♀️
FACEBOOK “I’m not for everyone -but then again, who ever really is?” 🤷♂️
FACEBOOK “Well what are we gonna do now Charlie [Chaplin]?” “SMILE!” ☺🤷♂️
Some things just seem to have an eerily extraordinary feel to them from my perspective:
■Dark Side of the Moon
■Charlie Chaplin
■The Beatles
FACEBOOK “Who are your Heroes? Some of mine? Ralph Nader!!!!* Mister Rogers!!!!** Lassie!!!!***JESUS!!!!**** Vivien Thomas!!!!***** Arthur C. Barnes!!!!****** Jaques Cousteau!!!!******* National Geographic!!!!******** I’ll come up with more over time. The list, as you can… and will see, is not restricted by [to] race, creed, species… lol” 😁
*See movie “An Unreasonable Man” featuring Ralph Nader and a host of other villains. 😆 😏
**See Television Series.
***See Television Series.
****See “BIBLE”.
*****See movie “Something the Lord Made”. starring Alan Rickman and Mos Def.
******See movie “The Art of the Steal” featuring Albert C. Barnes and a host of other villains. 😆😏
*******See “National Geographic”.
******** “National Geographic” [January 13, 1888; 135 years ago -to present].
Great viewing! “The End of the Line”. [2009 ‧ Documentary ‧ 1h 30m].
Great viewing! “National Geographic: Eternal Enemies: Lions and Hyenas”. [2006 ‧ Documentary ‧ 1 hour].
Do you still count someone a hero for what they accomplished in spite of all of their shortcomings and misgivings?
●●●●●Up until recently, I began to feel that those 6 years in isolution were a dismal failure -an utter waste of time! But just about everything I had hoped to accomplish [change in me] during that time -appears to be coming to fruition now.
Some people, like myself, never really get to enjoy GOD’S BLESSINGS [for very long -the privilege of God’s blessings for very long] because as soon as they begin to arrive, a person gets a swelled, and a swelled ego. I absolutely love doing character-assassination of myself because; It immediately puts the ego back in check; it’s also non-prevalent among our species, and is therefore -one of the best examples a human-being can offer to his fellow man!
FACEBOOK “One of the greatest gifts a parent can pass on to their children is the gift of “sanity” -soundness of mind!”
Romeo, Rockefeller, Rambo, Rodney… when drinking
Those are examples of what happens when you drink… 1000’s of examples in the book! But there’s only a handful of things that define Alcoholism!
Exercise improves circulation which among other things helps in hot and cold weather to regulate body-temperature! It’s a myth alcohol will warm you up in cold either-it actually thins the blood!
Miss drinking bout as much as a toothache!
I would like to think I wouldn’t drink even if they did come up with a cure for alcoholism! 🤷♂️
H.O.W. and H.E.W.
P.P.T.P.P.F.
HOW MUCH SUFFERING… THE ALCOHOLICS WHO CAN SUFFER IMMEMSELY…!!! THEY ARE THE WORST CASES TO OBSERVE! 🤷♂️🤷♀️
When you are smart, or rather when you are connected and open, you can study something and then add to it yourself. Be an Explorer and a Discover!
Alcoholics are always looking to be “center-stage”.
FACEBOOK “Relationships are anything but… If you’re in a relationship and you’re not working hard at it -there’s definitely something wrong!* It’s one of the great misconceptions of modern-day-American-times. Particularly when you’re young -> Relationships are about fun and games; and as far as problems go we avoid them….. In many cases at any cost -> or ignore them to our own detriment.”
*Let’s be honest, many people are looking for maintenance-free relationships [or as low-maintenance as possible]. THAT IS NOT HOW ONE BUILD CHARACTER; THAT IS NOT HOW ONE BUILDS A SOLID FOUNDATION EITHER! Some of the most unshakable relationships that have ever been were built upon Strife and Struggle! Some of the shakiest have been built upon the proverbial “maintenance-free” type!
I guess according to the peaceful Warrior movie, like anything else, when you give the mind what it needs most; and remove from it what it needs least, or is not good for it… its’ level of functioning ☝☝☝👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Looking back on World War II, or any other war for that matter, the strength you have is the strength you have although you can always take it a level or 2 or 3 up with what you have to work with… But strategically speaking and timing wise the possibilities are endless! I can’t help but wonder watching the movie Merrill’s marauders, how we might have far more easily and efficiently taken that war!
The healthier a person gets emotionally; the deeper they can go into a relationship before they start to feel those old feelings [fear… self-doubt, mistrust with trustworthy people]. Perhaps even the less intense they become as you go deeper.
FACEBOOK “When we pray for our loved ones; that should include ALL PEOPLES OF THE WORLD!”* 🤷♂️🤷♀️
FACEBOOK *“Some people cannot pray for the people who have hurt, or harmed them or their loved ones. This has not posed nearly the problem for me -that it has for some. Many refuse to accept the fact that they hurt themselves more than anyone else. For whatever reason, many people are willing to sacrifice their own serenity, happiness, well-being for said reasons -and many more. I have been one of those people myself!”
FACEBOOK “OK -At some point in our lives “the adult” which is the prevailing entity throughout our lives… Speaking in terms of time throughout the lifespan; Must become stronger than “the child” and “the parent”! The child is ‘inexperienced, and therefore reckless’; while the parent is prone to being ‘overly sympathetic and loving’ towards the child.”*
FACEBOOK “If we went around telling people what we really meant; or what we really felt -all the time… Under the current state of mankind, our relationships would falter BIG-time! We are not well enough to be good to each other or to be right-intentioned at all times! And most people are not well enough to overlook our misgivings and our shortcomings at all times!”
FACEBOOK “We have to constantly hide things from one another -because we are a nation of images. Let’s face it, we reward people for the impression they make upon us; not for who they truly are [BS]! We don’t even encourage people to come forward with their deep seated issues. Quite frankly, we’d rather not deal with them. Or with our trigger happy mind’s, we’re ready to pass judgment [ostracize] at the blink of an eye.”
FACEBOOK “With regard to some people, too much freedom is the worst thing in the world. They need to live in a country where they, their environment[s], are controlled to a certain degree! Now let’s talk about freedom: Not the kind that allows us to burn flags or paint our hair purple [none of that “kid in a candy-store” shite]. Let’s talk about the freedom to act with “soundness-of-mind” and the highest degree of respect for others and integrity! “Freedom is about responsibility; NOT SELF-WILL RUN RIOT!” It’s actually more about “submission and sacrifice”. Submission, willfully, to something higher than ourselves [be it GOD, principles… a certain concept… 🤷♀️🤷♂️].”
FACEBOOK “If Superman rescued a million people, and murder one [sacrificially] every week…???” 🤷♂️🤷♀️
FACEBOOK “It’s up to you what you choose to believe. But if I may make a suggestion 🤔 “CHOOSE CAREFULLY”.
““THANK YOU MY GOD!” People; Places; Things: Past; Present; Future! P.P.T.P.P.F.” HINT: It is almost “all-encompassing”.”
FACEBOOK “Without stability*; money and luxuries become worthless! People trading million-dollar watches for a glass of water. All this BS in this country goes away [snaps finger -just like “that”!].”
*The most sound; the most real things in life [in the universe] are unshaken by instability [going on about]; because one of the great truths behind them is that 🤔 THEY CARRY [WITHIN THEMSELVES] THEIR VERY OWN! 🤷♂️🤷♀️
FACEBOOK “Money cringes and folds up in the face of risk; Whereas Love flourishes and is at its’ best!” 👍🏻☝
FACEBOOK “If “THE GARDEN OF EDEN” IS JUST SOME “MYTH”; Then explain to me why so many people on this planet spend so much of their time and effort trying to get back to it -by creating it here on Earth time-and-time-again?” 🤔
FACEBOOK “If GOD is a punishing GOD; then why are so many bad people still running around unpunished? It’s a myth; or a straight-up lie! satan again???” 🤔
FACEBOOK “One of the great mysteries in life is why do bad things happen to good people [and good things happen to bad people]? Let’s start with the bad things happening to good people. The logical question to ask here is “how do you know they are good?” With regard to why good things happen to bad people… You would have to ask GOD that question lol My hunch is 🤔; they’re not all bad! But my “go-to-answer” every time: “GOD’S WAYS ARE NOT OUR WAYS!”*.” 🤷♂️🤷♀️
*HE WANTS TO GET US THINKING [AGAIN]? 🤔
FACEBOOK “GOD* is most definitely in the intentions business [what’s in our 💕; what drives us]; and not so much the results business. Whereas man is most definitely in the results business [“get the job done; or I’ll find somebody who can”]; and not so much the intentions business. Do you disagree?”
*GOD doesn’t [want for or] need anything! HE’S never afraid! Seem a bit unfair from where we are standing? Well maybe in spite of this seemingly gross injustice [It’s easy for God not to screw up because HE has everything HE needs and wants and HE’S never afraid]. Well maybe 🤔 we too are not as far off that mark OURSELVES as we think we are [CHOOSE!!!] -as we are being led to believe we are! 🤷♀️🤷♂️
FACEBOOK “How long do you think man will stand by and allow higher principles to stand in the way of higher profits [and the deflation of his ego as well as -a quest for ever greater power and advantages (over others, the environment, “THE ALMIGHTY HIMSELF”)]? We’re seeing the answer to that as we speak! He is currently in the process of “undoing” everything put into place by “a most fundamental Christian-based-society in this country formed long ago”.” 🤷♀️🤔🤷♂️
For those of us who have been traumatized. Not every human being on the planet is untrustworthy or a piece of s***. But we do get quite a few reminders to the contrary on a regular basis. This is the problem!
“What’s the difference between a good person and a nice person? Some people will treat you good as long as you treat them good. Some people will treat you bad even if you treat them good. Some people will treat you good (respectful] even if you treat them bad. Yes Sir ree, we got it all down here on planet Earth!” 🤷♀️😏🤷♂️
FACEBOOK “One of the areas where GOD and man seem to part ways. One of the things that explains: a grave misunderstanding man has towards GOD [and visa-versa]. Would be man’s own attitude towards money versus GOD’S own attitude towards money!” 🤷♀️💰🤷♂️
FACEBOOK “Relationships seem to work until they reach a point where somebody encounters something they can no longer accept*. Sometimes the fork in the road broadens infinitely; in other instances it broadens and narrows-broadens and narrows-broadens and narrows; while with some people there never seems to be a fork in the road. These people appear to be on the same path track throughout the life cycle. Sometimes feelings change [often times preced by a change in the person across from us] -it can be just as simple as that.” 🤷♀️🤔🤷♂️
*And for whatever reason, some people seem to manage in a relationship that is unacceptable. As I’ve stated many times, “we’ve got it all down here on planet Earth”“🤷♂️🤔🤷♀️
FACEBOOK “Somebody [almost] always flinches first in a [new] relationship.”
There’s a time to use “I” and there’s a time to use “we”. When you’re talking to your new girlfriend about things you’ve done with your old girlfriend because you wanna share some of your experiences from the past… it’s probably a good idea to use the word “I” rather than “we”.
FACEBOOK “What is the opposite of war? Well I suppose it depends on the war since they are fought for many different reasons. If we’re talking of A-war motivated by the desire to conquer others. Then being submissive would be the opposite. If we’re talking of a war fueled by hatred where the objective is to destroy. Then the opposite would be to build-up through Love. If it is personal and you want to humiliate them -then you break them. The opposite of that would be to nurture them back to full health. If we’re talking to war of good versus evil whereby you seek to eliminate it from the face of the Earth. Then the opposite would be to seek conversion. And so on and so forth. These are but a few -can you come up with some of your own?”
If you want to win; go for opponents weakness; if you want to break an opponent, go for their strengths -Michael Irvin.
What is the opposite of hate? Most people will answer love-but it is indifference!
What is evil? Destroying for the purpose of destroying? I don’t think so. I used to. Now I believe it is the deepest form of hatred where GOD can no longer exist or penetrate. Well if love seeks only to express itself -then evil is perhaps likened to this? Any other ideas?
I remember once praying for satan many years ago. Why I’m not sure. Perhaps misguided in the notion we must pray for all who are lost.
What goes out comes in and what comes in goes out? I read a long time ago that under pressure what’s on the inside comes out.
Our society in many ways exemplifies that which has too much time on its’ hands. That which has lost site of “the fundamentals”. That which has misguided notions about “freedom”.
When a woman finds a man “HIGHLY ATTRACTIVE -APPEALING” the tend to f a ll pretty quick and pretty hard, when the interaction continues, and gets stronger emotionally!
No one can focus on everything! Know everything! Have the right answer to every situaltion..I’d life designed aroundan and his abilities, limitations? According to GOD, the universe was created for man! Not the other way around according to evolutionists!
It used to be that parents who knew something about what they were doing we’re not home to do it. Now it seems we have a lot of parents who don’t know what they’re doing who are not home for their children.
There’s nothing like a poor, country town doctor.. What happened to the medical profession?
With the advent of the cell phone, all kinds of people are better off including criminals planning a robbery or a heist or a steak out…
Now that they look make little miniature tracking devices, people can put them underneath somebody’s car and track it while they are doing a robbery of someone’s home.
People don’t have patience anymore.
If we don’t start taking care of our children they’re gonna start taking care of themselves-and we’re not gonna like how they go about it!
Generation millennial generation X generation Z…. How do we address these issues?
Being good looking can really screw a person up.
miss dad’s soccer game
learning gravity at an early age vs alcoholism
Most people fail to reach their place in their relationship they earn for because they refuse to reach. They instead want to be reached.
There’s something very intriguing about an individual who doesn’t flinch much. Who doesn’t add to the chaos; but adds to the harmony, adds to the serenity!
The art of “conflict-deescalation”. There are 2 kinds of people you encounter in relationships and incorporate America. When you encounter a problem or an issue that you are deeply concerned with or affected by emotionally…. They’re either calm you down or they inflame your current state by their response karma approach karma interest relax there of “DISTRESS-DEESCALATION”.
All kinds of people benefit from the advent of cell phones -including criminals. All kinds of people benefit from the advent of tracking devices now made public -including criminal.
It’s just a fact of life that people get bored [with one another].
“That’s not my area of expertise!” 🤷♀️🤷♂️
The last thing on Earth you want or should want is to get thrown off track by either your partner or by the world in general. Once we get thrown off track… all bets are off…!
It doesn’t hurt to be something of a psychologist in your relationship’s, behavior is… it doesn’t always help either!
You’ve heard the expression “Rise to the occasion”? You need to rise up -not the occasion!
Just do one text at a time -but make account!
First test yourself with answers to things you don’t know but man knows. Then test yourself with answers to things you don’t know and that man doesn’t know either. If you score high on the first set of questions maybe I’ll score high on the second one’s? Why should it matter whether man himself knows the answers to the questions are not. All that matters is your intuition or your level of competence 🤷♂️🤷♀️
We always improve at what we practice (good or bad): Playing piano; Alcoholism/Addictions. We either improve or we become sicker! We either ascend or descend; increase or decline; flourish or decay!🤷♀️🤷♂️
Truth or Consequences – There are consequences for everything we do. Consequences for doing the right thing; consequences for doing the wrong thing.
I used to think it was cool to be out “Runnin’ & Gunnin!” Now I think it’s cool to be “right where GOD wants me to be; doing what GOD wants me to do!” 🤷♂️
Apply what you have been taught -or not. We must either improve on what we have already been taught -or “unlearn what we have learned” -then continue to improve on “that reprogramming” (on that ‘new programming’).”
One should never be at a loss for ideas [or words] -there are millions of them. Can sn**** them out of the air if you’re so inclined or able, in the right frame of being.
How can you hope to have a stimulating conversation with someone when you never [get out and] do anything?
“Practice everything” Nick Nolte from the “Peaceful Warrior”. When we exercise every muscle group in our body… It’s like a diamond multifaceted -whose strength is unparalleled. Let’s chance of being injured when all muscle groups are fit. Is much quicker muscle gains too in weight.
Whether we want to do something or not, we tend to get results as long as we do them.
A shovel by any other name -can still performs the same task. GOD as well!
Your degree of pomp and arrogance determines the degree to which GOD’S grace[s] are shut out.
The universe is precise, while man is quite imprecise, sloppy even. To man’s own benefit [in reality, iften his own demise], he likes to think of the universe as sloppy and impercise as well -mostly unaccountable! Man also tends to believe he is above the universe [and its laws]. However, in man’s current state -he is quite beneath it! 🤷♂️🤷♀️
A lot of things don’t matter -so why do we make a big deal out of them questioned mark
Some things are the result of what you don’t do-would it be fair to say that half the things in the universe are the result of what you don’t do?
Some people have all the knowledge in the 🌎-and still they can’t make the transition [to the other side]!
Talking up “the game”. That’s their job I suppose! FOR THE MONEY!
Deciding we are going to be happy once ‘X’ comes to pass… is a major flaw in western thinking!
When you’re spiritually fit you don’t like being egotistical or arrogant; and when you’re spiritually unfit you don’t like being humbled or humble.
For the people who have been traumatized by human beings, not every human being out there in the world is screwed up or to not be trusted. However, it’s too bad there’s not more to go around.
Einstein stated the greatest indication of intelligence is imagination.
I think lake girls actually stimulate the testosterone in a man. They seem to in me.
I think there is something to pork arousing a man’s libido.
Relationships are messy. And they should be to a certain extent. It’s how we bond, how we find out about each other [and ourselves], and how we become stronger.
My girlfriend told me this evening “What an amazing man you are”. My thought a 1/2 an hour later: 🤔 “I would be even more amazing -if I had even more of GOD in me!” 🙏🏻
Not everyone can know everything there is to know about their partner -and love them all-the-more for it.
God loves it when we go out of our way for HIM!
The power behind a relationship is directly proportionalto the individuals willingness, degree in going out of their way for one another
It’s better to be miserable and humble than to be happy and pompous!
Think “the best” prepare for “the Worst”!
The best way I know how to handle the troubles in life, yroubled-people in life is to remain small [humble], and powerful [ready for anything]. When you look powerful, and act humble, 99.9% of people SIMPLY WILL NOT BOTHER YOU!
Don’t get caught off-guard! When things are going extremely well, YOU KNOW satan is always at his most dangerous!
Wherever it comes from; or whenever it came -some people just seem to know how to play well with others. When we struggle in this area, often times instead of putting our feet forward we become discouraged, even a little bit better… Or perhaps NBA of others. 🤷♂️🤷♀️ I swam in that pool for many years!
It’s come what may it’s under any in all conditions… WE DON’T LOSE FAITH IN GOD! Where people so often go wrong with GOD is: they want HIM to do their will!
People who have good relationships with others -are able to trust to a better than average degree I believe. They are most certainly less moved or controlled by the uncertainty that exists in the world -or so it appears.
There’s a difference between good people making a mistake; and bad people make a mistake.
Trust me, at least from my own personal experience-where people seem to go wrong it’s worrying about what’s going on with the other person. It throws them off their track. It pulls them away from their own base and their own values -oftentimes. You never want to get pulled off your base or away from your own values! I still haven’t quite figured out this question of trusting others but I know you can trust GOD 100%!!! Do you understand what I’m trying to say here? Let GOD be your eyes and ears! If you’re doing what’s right, GOD is on your side! Hint: THINK SPIRITUAL IN TERMS OF GOD BEING “ON YOUR SIDE” -AND NOT JUST PHYSICAL; NOT JUST MATERIAL!
Being good to people doesn’t guarantee anything -with some of them. It can actually bring out the worst and some people unfortunately.
You explain a situation between a man and a woman to a man and to a woman and you’ll get very different answers -quite often.
People should fall more in love with each other over time -not less! 🤔🤷♀️🤷♂️
The longer you wait to answer a call from GOD… TIME WASTED, DELAYED BY POMP, SELF-WILL, INDIFFERENCE… TRANSLATES TO… When GOD is on time every time -HOW DO YOU THINK THAT MAKES HIM FEEL?
If your son fought in Vietnam and people ran around saying that war never existed or the people who fought in that war were trash… How do you think that would make you feel as a parent? We’ll think about how GOD feels about some of the things people have said about HIS SON JESUS!
People will swim in the pool of their own choice, of their own doing!
It’s hard enough to trust people without adding to the phrase misunderstandings, misconceptions come and miss perceptions…. Everything is out between the… period! Yourselves frequently so that these things do not turn “Mole-Hills into Mountains”!
One person’s inconsistency, one time -can render another person’s consistency -inconsistent!
If you absolutely have to end a relationship, end it on the high note not a low note. If you absolutely have to end a relationship -why not end it on the high note rather than a low note? 🤔🤷♀️🤷♂️ In the relationship with them seeing you at your best -not at your worst!
“People who are unhealthy -usually end up hurting one another. This is where it gets a little more complicated -people who are mostly healthy, but unhealthy in a particular area -may eventually end up hurting one another as well! “I’ve been through alot, and I can honestly say I am a relatively healthy person, who is very unlikely to hurt you. And having been through so much, I’m too tired, and too old for nonsense of this kind anymore. If you cannot in all honesty say the same thing… “It takes a lot of introspection, and then a lot of character, and then a lot of selflessness to answer truthfully in the 🤔 affirmative, “I am an unhealthy person, and there is a distinct possibility I will end up hurting you!”” Then I think it’s best ‘one of us’ move on”.”
You see, that’s the thing about sick people, often times 🤔: They either don’t know they’re sick; Don’t want to admit they’re sick, or; Don’t want to reveal they’re sick!
Are you a healthy enough person to handle misperceptions, misinterpretations, misconceptions that often arise in a relationship? Or are you inclined to let your mind wander and run away with you to the point where you end up making unhealthy decisions which end up hurting the 2 of you ultimately?
A person who can take or leave a relationship I believe is less likely to act out in desperation or selfishness!
Healthy people have nothing to admit while unhealthy people tend not to admit -this makes it hard to discern one from the other
That’s the thing common when we don’t consult God in our decisions…Corporate America will continue raising their prices as long as a certain percentage of the population can pay it-those falling outside of that percentage be d*****. Pay it don’t pay it we don’t care. Well we do care about getting your money -we just don’t care about what you have to sacrifice to be able to pay it!
“Don’t worry about it -just stay responsible!”
That’s the thing common when we don’t consult God in our decisions…. Anything can happen!
You rush to judgment because you’re a girlfriend or boyfriend didn’t call you as usual… You confront them abruptly or coarsely… only to find out they were up all night with an emergency -with an emergency family matter for example. satan loves to goad us in the such corners.
I’m not interested in starting out a new relationship -and then back-peddling from there!
The problem for many people is they’re terrified of the worst outcome or consequence. Or they simply refuse to accept it! Once a person is able to accept the worst possible outcome with relatively little, or no F.E.A.R…. They can then begin to… But the problem is so many of us in one area or another… Most of us in one area or another… Have yet to conquer that terrified feeling.
Whatever the consequences are, you go abive-and-beyond it! You show even more integrity and grit then whatever the situation, or man, or the universe has to dish out!!!!
If you can get one particular muscle strong.. You can build around it with the smaller ones rather quickly -but it’s safe? Take your time and gradually progress through your body building regime. It’s better to go 30% consistently than a 100% inconsistently.
Whatever happens-I accept it as God’s will! Thank you Lord for the quick reminder as I had let it slip my mind for about 15 minutes.
A person who is grateful to go through the difficult times will most likely be even more grateful to him during the good times! My grandmother taught me to praise God and seek God in all things fortunate and unfortunate in life..
The music of The Times is very telling of The Times. Apparently the seventies must have been a very good time in the nineties and 2 thousands and 2010 not so much.
There’s a difference between not wanting to and not be enabled to.
How many for things from people they don’t have to give? We think they have them to give! We hope they have them to give! In our own desperation we need for them to have it to give-but they don’t!
If you don’t get to that last stage which is required then it probably won’t come to fruition.
There are key aspects to the cause-and-effect which will still bring about the needed effect even though other things perhaps are not in place. Is a matter of fact, in many instances man waste his time with extra parts of a process which are not necessary to bring about the needed effect. An additional little tidbit is how much money and time does man waste when he is designing something when none of that matters with regard to its actual operation.
Don’t forget that while you’re praying to GOD for your best team to win -other people are praying to GOD for their best team to win.
Imagine a GOD trying to meet all of HIS children’s needs and prayers -many of which are conflicting with one another.
How many times do we quit just before something’s about ready to Lida Spring into the wondrous universe of cause-and-effect? The things in life that are really wonderful are the things that only take very little work and repute dividends. The word start the diminished return scenarios.
Somebody always farts 1st in a relationship lol
If demar Hamlin brought together the nation. Galvanize the nation-I say we need more of it! If that’s what it takes… because man won’t do it wilfully without it…
Don’t fall prey to the old ideas which have so often led to failure in the past! Sometimes you just gotta “go for it” and try something new! You already know what isn’t working!
I often wonder how God can see or know the future. For years I have pondered this notion. But if you take time out of the equation and leave space, then everything is right there in front of you. I suppose all that’s left is to know the sequence yourfell when placed in the time continuum. Even though it isn’t in the time continuum you being the master of the universe would know this without having to put it into the time continuum. You would know the sequence as it plays out in the time continue. Am I making any sense here lol
FACEBOOK “When people at the hospital would ask the question “What spurs the person on to drink…?” I would tell them “It could be something as simple as your father missing a soccer game one time*.”” 🤷♂️
*All kinds of people in this country drink excessively. And so many problems in our country these days are affiliated with somebody making money off of it; or exploiting it; or taking advantage of it; or gaining an advantage because of it. Alcohol companies survive off of the demise of individuals; and society as a whole. People capitalize in the competitive realm; whether it be jobs, or trying to get a woman/man. Aren’t those the two chief competitive arenas in society [making a living and breeding]? If you haven’t learned by now to recognize your “lower-nature” and to contain it…**???
**Very few people in this society nowadays are drug and alcohol and prescription-medication free.
FACEBOOK “You can addict somebody to something; but they won’t be a true addict. Once they have been detoxed, they can go back to normal using or drinking. Is this true?”
FACEBOOK “Alcoholism is like the 2 twin bullies: Take away one of them, and the other folds “like a cheap suit”. 🤷♂️🤷♀️ Take away… the obsession of the mind… 🤷♂️🤷♀️ Take away… the allergy of the body… 🤷♂️🤷♀️ They say it’s hard for a normal drinker to understand the plight of an alcoholic. If you could give them a pill and they could experience it for 24 hours… Some alcoholics say they don’t understand people taking a few drinks out of a glass of wine and leaving the rest. It’s the same thing as an alcoholic drinking a glass of Orange juice and leaving half a glass. When you have a glass of Orange juice with your breakfast, do you spend the entire morning at work staring at the clock hoping for a chance to sneak out to the car and crack open a bottle of Orange juice? Of course not! That’s what it is to be normal.”
I heard it once said that in order to hold someone down, you’ve got to be there with them. I also heard it once said that if a man finds something they love, and something they do well, they are blessed beyond measure.
FACEBOOK “What’s my part in it? Sometimes it’s as simple as holding on to the past.” 🤷♂️🤷♀️
Relapse comes in 2 forms: You either wanted to; or you were powerless to resist! 🤷♂️🤷♀️
Relapse takes place under two conditions: You put too much on yourself, you want your life back too quickly; You didn’t put enough on yourself, you didn’t follow all of the suggestions afforded you! “Alcoholics Anonymous is not a smorgasbord” as someone once stated.
FACEBOOK “So what happens when a person doesn’t know about Alcoholics Anonymous or does not have it available to them? GOD knows when it is us; and when it’s something beyond us [beyond our own power]! Just as GOD knows when we are abusing alcohol, drugs, and even prescribed medications (versus following instructions properly; for a legitimate issue or ailment). They say there’s normal drinking -but is there normal drug use?” 🤔
FACEBOOK “Alcoholics Anonymous doesn’t take away your choice to drink, it restores your choice to drink or not to drink [that is the question lol].” 🤷♀️🤷♂️
FACEBOOK “Man’s attitude before he gets what he wants, [or thinks he] desperately needs from GOD; and man’s attitude after he gets what he wants, [or thinks he] desperately needs from GOD!”
FACEBOOK “You do small fragments, here and there; and then you eventually are able to string them together and do a continuous performance when it counts most. We see this with runners [training]; and it can also work for fragmented individuals who have struggled in relationships.”
FACEBOOK “You think you did a perfect job; but you didn’t! You think you didn’t do a perfect job; but you did!” 🤔
FACEBOOK “If the team sucks [the players]; but they’re continuing to beat better teams [with better players]; then it’s gotta be the plays -right???” 🤔🤷♂️🤔
Vegas always gives themselves the advantage with the spread -you would think 🤔
FACEBOOK “It’s a good idea to know what’s going on underneath [subconsciously]. I would imagine that with some people – there’s not much variation between the inside and the outside -but with others… Whooof!!! Scary!” ME -Whoooof! 😏
Why would anyone fight against the American people taking back power in this country? Well… because most don’t know how “the game” works [is played]? 🤷♂️
FACEBOOK “MAN IS AN “OPPORTUNISTIC-CREATURE” who far too often… in America, life seems to be all about opportunity! Now, we no longer simply capitalize on opportunity, we spend our days thinking about how to create them. Opportunity has it’s place -as with anything else… for example, you can take in too much water, even too much air… and when that happens???” 🤷♂️
There’s always someone there to capitalize on someone who stands out among our kind! Men do it; Women do it; Our children do it!
FACEBOOK “If something is missing from your relationships -it could be this: Looking out for one another; taking care of each other!” 🤷♂️🤷♀️
FACEBOOK “Two problems with “the” formation or establishment of a relationship: The things that worked in the beginning no longer work [with/on the other person]; People change from who they were in the beginning to something else*.“
*Bonus round: As a relationship evolves, more and more of the subconscious begins to come to the surface. If there is a striking contrast between the conscious and the subconscious realm… the person may just find themselves in for a big surprise**! [Just my humble opinion 🤔]
**Holding steady in a relationship may not be as easy as it sounds. Not only should you yourself hold steady [for obvious reasons], but you should in fact impart to your partner that you are steady so that it may assist them in remaining steady [another (not so) obvious reason]-and to complicate things even further… Your partner needs to be thinking along the same lines as well! Now the chances of 2 people both either consciously or naturally being gifted with this inclination or ability…*** 🤷♀️😏🤷♂️
***Consistency -but of a certain kind naturally [or perhaps 🤔 not-so-naturally]. Once again,, “that which doesn’t come naturally -requires a conscious effort****!”
****🤔 Is part of the job of the subconscious to keep the b******* part of the conscious self and check! To keep it from running entirely away with visions of grandeur?
Why do some people lose their accents when they move to another place, while others do not?
FACEBOOK “Take away the ego; and suddenly everything seems so clear! Suddenly everything makes sense! Take away fear…” 🤔
FACEBOOK “Many people do not believe that others can change; because they themselves never seem to. They impose their own limitations on other people! They impose their own sloth, regarding certain elements, upon other people!”
FACEBOOK “When we are thinking straight… 🤔 It’s easier to act sane; when we are sane*! It’s easier to act free from anger, when we are in fact free from anger* [within ourselves]. Simple concepts which seem to escape most of us.” 🤷♀️🤷♂️
*The more spiritually fit I am; the more it appears that I am free from “unspiritual–bonds”! There is definitely something to this -and better still 🤔 a way to achieve this freedom [seemingly] “at-will”.
The formula for relationships is very simple actually! But not in this country!
FACEBOOK “One of the very first things I remember hearing when starting school at the college was “School, among other things -teach us [how] to be(come) “Individual thinkers”.” 🤔
FACEBOOK “People today -I think 🤔: Get confused between that which is “a right”; and that which is “a privilege”.” “Ya think?” 🤔
“I know I don’t always get it right; but I’m guessing I do get enough of it right; that I am right most of the time [where others are not]; even though that doesn’t excuse all errors! I’m guessing, “where we get it right is probably more important than how often we get it right”.” QUALITY not QUANTITY?
FACEBOOK “Don’t get two [too lol] down about your luck, or track record in relationships -It’s not all that uncommon as you might think; for people who do everything right, to get rejected, or to have things go south as well! Remember, “It takes two baaaaaa… be’. Baby it takes two!””
FACEBOOK “If I wanted to fit into society [so badly], I would have been better off figuring out how to do things according to society; as opposed to getting healthier*. Getting healthier ~in a lot of ways~ only alienates us further from society [and certain people]. True story! People for example don’t always act healthy around people who have power over them. How many people walk up to their boss and tell them “Hey I think that was really unfair”. Great advice in a counseling or psychiatrist or psychologist’s office! Yeah right, and the boss is gonna say “Well you know 🤔, I am so glad you brought that to my attention, cause I never would have realized what a jerk I was”. I was told a long time ago that as children in an unhealthy home we really were at the mercy of those around us. Then I was told that as adults we were no longer in that position. Really???? Have you heard the stories**???? You walk up to your boss and you stand up to them you are either being treated improperly or not being treated fairly. And most of the time they’re gonna tell you there are 5 other people waiting to take your place on this job. The only real power any of us has is the power to walk out that door and face an uncertain world. To me that sounds a whole lot like the same situation we were in as children. Power is power, weak gain a little more as adults, but the programming is still their in most of us; and a bully is [still] a bully is [still] a bully is [still] a bully***! 🤷♂️
* Relationships are not 1st and foremost about health; they’re about “connecting”. Healthy people connect. Unhealthy people connect. Healthy[ier] people even connect with unhealthy[ier] people. See this all the time!
**They say there are no kings and queens in America, that we live under a democracy. People are constantly being bullied by their bosses and companions [and peers].
***Why don’t we do more in this country about bullies in school and bullies in the workplace [and in relationships] ? Why have we overlooked these two [three] areas for so long?
When an honest man does business with an dishonest man, who usually gets screwed? It’s an unfair advantage -or so it seems. Oftentimes on the material level but never on the spiritual level! GOD ALWAYS SIDES WITH AN HONEST MAN!
Business men who are honest… And are [still] able to thrive in a dishonest business environment or climate. Are rare and exceptional individuals because they like women working in the workforce, have to have to perform above and beyond… Stay ahead of…
From a spiritual standpoint, and to a certain degree [in certain situations] in the material world as well, it’s better to be a victim than a perpetrator! GOD DOESN’T PUNISH VICTIMS!
I understand now that I don’t really fit in this world and that I don’t really think a lot like the rest of this world, and that my chances of finding a relationship that will work for me are extremely slim. I didn’t understand this for the longest time!
I believe certain things need to be in place for us to progress. Willingness. A certain degree of worth. A certain degree of feeling it is right or just. A certain degree of maturity both psychologically and emotionally. And, a certain degree or level of wellness or function remaining in tact that allows for the mechanisms of healing, and growth to still materialize… bring abdout… bring forth… bring to fruition…
An individual with heightened awareness has to also have a degree of humility [I suppose] in order to process these unwarenessess unscathed or untouched [so as to minimize harm done to not only] the individuals themselves, but to the awarenesses themselves [by altering them as is so often the case among man]… probably will not “jive” well in his society riddled with denials. Just look at [what happened to] the people throughout history who are forerunners and [often mis-labled] “Rebels”.
A special kind of light that makes life grow. Yes that is correct, like in the movie “Frankenstein:
It’s better to have the whole world against you; and GOD on your side; then the other way around!
I was going to say it’s not the good things in life man has to worry about; but the bad things he must contend with that pose a problem. But GOD naturally, brought me to my senses immediately. You see man struggles in every aspect of life!
The mouth can say anything with the combined possibilities of humanity taken as a whole -including possessions. Not everyone will say anything, not everyone will say things that fall outside the realm of fact or truth [as they know it to be]. But not knowing the individual, we don’t know that! Soooo, are we lost? Is the truth lost? Is trust lost? Good question. Many people don’t even care about any given individuals character anymore, just assume they are guilty, and depending on your station either prosecute, persecute, pronounce guilty, move on, or proceed with caution! REAL NICE! We’ll make an outstanding steward and example as the spearhead of all GOD’S creation based upon that model for living! Outdone by every other species on the planet??????
FACEBOOK “Too many people trust the authority of their community or their government who make poor decisions -just like anyone else. And…. job security also sways judgement of employees whose common-sense might otherwise prevail.”
FACEBOOK “It used to be that when life was much more simple that: relationships were basically about surviving; and if you were lucky, a degree of comfort; and if you were really lucky, love! Nowadays in modern day America… People are being sized-up left and right like a Bills-Brothers-suit. There’s no longer that sense of desperation that keeps the ego in check!”
FACEBOOK “You know what’s worse than a lack of gratitude? Being picky! In fact, you know what the opposite of being grateful is -being picky!”
When people are stressed out and pressured, they are much more likely to error. So, if you want a crack at a lawsuit…. Pressure someone and stress them out while they’re in the middle of doing something of grave importance. Or perhaps even something mundane where big business is involved.
It’s obvious why people and companies do the things they do for their own advantage and protection. You don’t have to read the fine print to understand that human nature! Is in the fray 98% of the time!
If everything on the Earth were the same size as human beings.. We human beings would worse be worse off not better off as far as being threatened or harmed. That just goes to show you how weak and vulnerable man really is without his technology and weapons.
It’s good to have a basic understanding of God’s law and the law of man
“Well when they start showing me respect I’ll start showing them respect”. No no no that “generation b*******” formula just doesn’t work. You show respect to people you don’t sit around waiting for them to show you respect otherwise you’ll be waiting forever! It’s about how you carry yourself and how it makes you feel inside not about how other people treat you, you treating them the same way or worse, and then having nothing inside to show any kind of integrity or sense of happiness over. That’s why everything’s all f***** u* today! This very f****** attitude!
We don’t need more laws -we need better people!
I guess when a country has it made, 🤔 eventually what begins to happen…
It’s taken me a very long time to begin to recognize and go beyond my own denial that -what’s wrong in this society is the thing that matters most! 😔
I think people are running more and more on instinct, and that’s not good for a so’called “civilization”.
As far as generation X karma Y karma Z.. Why don’t we start with some basic values and manners…
Everybody I think, is a product of their history to a greater or lesser degree. And this all plays… 🤔 all comes in to play with regard to how GOD sees us; And how HEcontinues to love us! He, More than anyone else, HErecognizes the role, how much of a factor other human beings play in how ensuing generations of people turn out. 🤷♂️🤷♀️ AMEN!!!
Why don’t we have a limit on how much money people can suck out of the system? We have a limit on everything else!
Do they punish the act or the outcome of the act? The outcome involving the act? They add extra punishment to make an example of you; to discourage the behavior among the masses and that is unjust! GOD doesn’t do that and neither should we!
Oftentimes the most profound things you will ever hear are the known brainers that are simply a reminder long forgotten.
I had a guy walk up to me after a Group therapy session in which he had been sitting in on for about 30 days of his time at the hospital. We talked for a few minutes the day before he was scheduled to leave the hospital During our discussion he told me that’s the only thing I’ve ever heard come out of your mouth and I think I can use. I told them well and glad I could have given you one thing to take with you that you found useful. The other thing I was once again reminded of was the fact that what one person recognizes is obvious other people will be hearing for the very 1st time. I have my favorites in these writings and I’m sure other people will. I have things in these writings that are obvious to me but won’t necessarily be obvious to someone else. I was also reminded that group therapy is group therapy not individual therapy and that you have to start where the least knowledgeable individual is in the group. It’s like going out on a hike with your family, you know what the speed of the littlest and the slowest family member correct?
It’s not just about the metal of a person. Good people and bad people have metal. It’s about the values of that person!
One thing key to relationships is to never stop loving someone no matter how rough things have gotten tweenya!
It’s great when you hear a black man idolizing a white man rather than a black man for a change.
One way we learn about relationships is continually putting ourselves in the other person’s shoes. “Mirrorring”. Look at ourselves through the eyes of others is another way.
All these commercials on the Web where they never really seem to tell you what it is that the big secret is without you paying. Man is an opportunistic creature! Rather than help his fellow man -he tries to capitalize on him. It’s gotten to the point [in many circles] where simply helping people is considered strange. If you’re not trying to make a buck you’re probably up to something! They’ve turned God’s practices into something to be mocked at or viewed with suspicion. That’s what I would do if I was satan. Turn those tables! As I was saying previously, let’s take these newer generations and turn them back into decent human beings with a clear cut idea of right and wrong -of GOD’S ways!
The lower you stay -the less hard you will fall. The smaller you stay -the less likely you will get hit with something from above.
FACEBOOK “Even though you can afford to pay $2.50 for a small fry at a fast food place, where you can buy a whole 10# sack of potatoes for the same price… what you say to yourself is “No, I’m not gonna pay those prices -because somewhere out there there are lots of people who cannot afford these ridiculous prices!” If you want some change to take place in certain areas of this country which benefit the poor, the needy, the impoverished… that’s how you do it! Constant thought of others! Think outside of your own Box! Just because you are blessed…. GOD –blessed you, so that you may bless others [that’s real power from above]! That’s the answer to the riddle -why am I blessed and others are not GOD BLESSES US; WE BLESS OTHERS IN GOD’S STEAD]? If we were all blessed, then we could not…There would be no need for the existence of such words as “Charity” or “Brotherly-love” or “Brotherhood-of-man”!“*
*I’ll throw this in as well: When something happens to our neighbor, oftentimes we pay little attention because it’s not we ourselves. You do know what I mean when I say pay little attention right? Sure you’re concerned! Sure you feel bad! But do you do anything about it? Of course not! You’ve got your own hands full right? And what would you do even if you wanted to? We need to start finding answers to that question! What can we do? You know how animals out on the plane’s kill or attack large herds? By taking down one at a time! Even then you see animals band together at times to protect one another, to protect their young! What’s happening in this country is that we are being taken down one at a time! If we don’t start standing up for others, sooner or later it’s gonna be our turn! The government and corporate America seem to have a pension for the week! They don’t want to spend a lot of money and time going after the strong**! So it’s up to the strong to protect the weak!***
**The strong go on to live long, fruitful lives -while the weak get picked off one-by-one! The strong go on to live long, fruitful lives -until they themselves become the weak!
***One more thing: Until we learn to love other people’s children as our own… if we can’t even love another person’s child… How are we supposed to love one another? Use the children as the ties that bind us together as a nation; as a world; as a species! “WHEN THE CHILDREN CRY” by WARRANT
☆☆☆☆☆Darwin! I saw a documentary called “The Zeitgeist-Addendum” I believe that in one of the segments it refutes the notion by Darwin that in nature the strong survive in the week perish to cleansthe species of the weak! But there is another side to that coin. God endowed man with the ability and apparently the willingness… For the strong to help the weak! There is an inherent value in this act [and another as well 🤔] that impacts us internally unlike anything else! So ask yourself this -are we stronger as a species for allowing the weak to perish; or are we stronger as a species when the strong protect the weak? Why are these concepts so difficult for us to recognize? To apply? Is it that mankind is only capable or designed to love so many people in his circle? I think man can love as he goes along -don’t you? At the very least, we’ll have to love in the moment! Possibly love in the space we are in at that moment [only]! Only GOD perhaps can love all the time; everywhere!”
The strong go on to live long, fruitful lives -while the weak get picked off one-by-one! The strong go on to live long, fruitful lives -until they themselves become the weak!
Not only is nothing changing -we’re going in the opposite direction!
I think man no longer wants to contend with a messy emotional aspect of things between himself; within himself and between others! Keep watch for a future…. 1984?
FACEBOOK “It used to be that power feared the masses becoming educated and knowledgeable. They no longer seem to fear that. Why?”
FACEBOOK “As man evolves more and more… His own kind can actually derail him slowly but surely -further and further into “the abyss” [However 🤔 as is taught, and demonstrated both in the book, and in the rooms of ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS, MAN CAN IN FACT LEAD HIS FELLOW MAN, HIS FELLOW SUFFERER FROM THE DARKNESS -BACK OUT INTO THE LIGHT [OF FREEDOM] IF HE SO CHOOSES]. Generation after generation after generation! To the point where he literally no longer knows his left from his right! Absolute distortion of truth, reality, justice, even right-from-wrong! 🤷♀️🤷♂️ It starts with something as simple as our children not recognizing what real cream taste like, should buy for their money! We know what real cream tastes like. Remember when we used to buy a 1/2 a pint for 69 cents? A quart for 99 cents? The real deal! I realize now that there is a point in time in life where everything reaches ahead! Where life is as good as it’s ever going to get! And then from there it starts to decline! Few resources? Perhaps! But at the root of it all is that man recognizes that with so much bounty there is also opportunity! Like a greedy child who sneaks an extra slice of pie when no one is looking!”
Man often gets lucky, and stumbles across things. Man is not an inventor so much as a discoverer [genius is all about being “open to…” I believe 🤷♀️🤷♂️]. Man is not so smart as you may. Oftentimes he relies on trial and error rather than his own calculations, imaginations… Why do you think they had to reverse engineer stuff they found from the aliens? Because he wasn’t smart enough to come up with it himself. Oh I suppose eventually… Why does man have to go chapter by chapter by chapter? Why can’t he skip from “A” to “Z”? Did GOD put these limitations in here? I can honestly say that more often than not, when I am staring “A” right in the face in front of me, “Z” oftentimes comes out of nowhere!
SIDENOTE: Alot of these so called brilliant screenwriters come up with stuff from life itself [or someone else as has been documented a time or two 🤷♂️🤷♀️] -trust me, many of them are no genius at all! They even have to pay somebody else to put the fluff in.
Thoughts have the power to alienate or to congregate! Thoughts have the power to elevate and to levitate. Thoughts have the power too decimate and to desecrate.
It’s getting harder and harder for people to see the truth. It’s getting harder and harder to get people to see the truth.
It takes a lot of money, and is very costly to a society itself, to maintain the title of the greatest country in the world! It’s imperative that that country maintain a sense of humility about it -otherwise… Many people think we’re very immature and pompous around the world. I am inclined to agree.
Some people believe that you stand behind your family and you stand behind your country whether they are right or wrong. Is this what you believe? Our country is not the Saint many of us would have it believe it is. Many of the stories out there, a few of which have been proven true to the chagrin of the powers that be… Indicate we are willing to cross certain lines to maintain our status. When we start fighting wars in the same way the bad guys fight them for example… We cannot allow the world around us to force us into lowering ourselves to their level. We prepare for wars because other countries are a threat? We do what we do because others do what they do. Should a man or a country go down adhering to their higher values? Or should they discard those values and survive at any cost? I think much of this has to do with a belief, or not, if there is a GOD and an afterlife. Even if there wasn’t to be proof that howl man lives is everything! And that some things in life gnaw at a man much worse than dying! As Kevin Costner put it in the movie “OPEN RANGE”.
The United States use to stand for integrity and staunch Christian beliefs! Now it is the epitome of hedonism and materialism. Ego and pomp! Distortion of the true meaning of freedom ->RESPONSIBILITY ->HUMILITY ->A LEVEL HEAD ->GIVE ME LIBERTY OR GIVE ME DESTH [COURAGE]. The age old question, do we dictate the world or do we let the world dictate us? Are we in the Palm of the world hands or is the world in the Palm of our hands? There was a time when the world was in the Palm of our hand now we seem to be in the Palm of the world’s hand.
As with any civilization throughout history which manages to rise above all the rest… The world is watching and like water which seeks its own level… So often that civilization is looked upon with skepticism and envy. Many people want to bring it down. The fact that we as a country have not always conducted ourselves above board so to speak… Does not help matters any! When our own allies are looking at us cross-eyed… 🤔😏😔
I love the story of the Russians back in the nineties who, I’m are playing off of our own metamorphosis as a country… Made the statement that the Soviet Union is and always will stand for… And anyone visiting our country who has a problem with it -can leave. When we in this country start making compromises with regard to GOD so that we do not offend people coming into this country… When we begin to place more importance on man rather than the GOD who blessed us with so much good fortune… Can’t you see, can’t we see how much things are changing in this country and how good fortune seems to be tainted now more so than ever with bad fortune? I think the time is coming once again, as it has done throughout history, where we will be forced -not asked to bend our knees and reach out to GOD to save us from ourselves! Why don’t we ever learn! It’s apparent to me that The Bible is dead on about man!
Some people’s appearance changes drastically over time while others do not!
I think many people whose development is youthful [even immature] for whatever reason… tend to have their bodily development affected in kind. If you can have a 35 year window where you look and feel pretty much the same… You are extremely fortunate. I managed to reach about 40 years or 42 years. But I think the time is coming now…
I see a lot of 40 50 60 year old adolescents running around these days.
The difficulties of the depression produced some of the finest human beings this country has ever known. These people came out of this era with the mistaken attitude that their kids were not going to suffer the same lot. People coming out of tsecond World War… And look what’s happened to our youth ever since. A decline in values and constitution and integrity.
Thank you my Lord! When generation after generation started proclaiming “What’s going on with this younger generation nowadays?” We really should have paid closer attention in this country! It was a warning from the old one’s -and from GOD staring us right in the face! We never listened! And when satan is talking to us… even though we cannot recognize it at the time… surely we MUST at some point be able to recognize it by the fruit it bears*. But man refuses to go backwards, only forwards. Perhaps he refuses to admit that he has been duped. Not punishing children with corporal punishment. How is that working for us**?
*When both the parents left the home to go out and work; Concerns about the child’s welfare had to be appeased. So doctor Spock and these other people came out with the idea that it wasn’t the amount of time you spend with your child but the quality of the time. This of course is turned out to be a big mistake and a lie. Children who were better adapted to their environment in Africa who spent their time constantly on the back of their mothers and little satchels were far more secure and emotionally grounded than American children, babies. It wasn’t just the quality but the quantity! And guess who benefited from men and women both going out into the workforce? Corporate America and the government! Twice as many taxpayers! We could now raise the prices on goods because now there were 2 earners in the home! And the government and corporate America has continued this trend to the point where 2 people have to hold down multiple jobs in order to keep up now. When are we gonna stop letting the government and corporate America determined what we pay for things? When are we gonna stop killing ourselves to keep up with the pace they are setting? As long as we choose to remain separate from one another, we give away our power to right and to fight these entities. Entities who care nothing for us personally***!
**You never want to terrify a child through corporal punishment. But you definitely want to get their attention and instill in them that they are not the boss****!
***This system should serve the people; not the other way around. People who are struggling and turn to the system for help should not be turned away or told no. When that happens it’s the people serving the system or subordinate to the system rather than the other way around.
****I could never understand how a parent can lose the upper hand with a child when they are the sole supporter of that child’s survival/welfare [ultimate power – Oh sure, satan of course is gonna say oh you can’t do this and you can’t do that -while meanwhile the child is running a muck (of course you have to draw the line somewhere on how far you go 🤷♂️🤷♀️💕)]. You cannot give a child everything they want and need and expect them to change -you have to prune them somehow! A man’s worst enemy is a full stomach? I suppose the same holds true for a child.
Do you recognize when satan is trying to turn you against your loved ones?
If we human beings we’d only share our deepest thoughts and experiencious… we would know that there is something at work in the universe that is trying to bring us all down!
When you can give away the stuff that means the most to you to people that need rather than the stuff that means the least… People often buy people what they themselves like as gifs.
How far can you go in a relationship, or anything else for that matter come before you begin to unravel question martial arts, in karate, when you run out of moves… that is when you are dead how many feet can you move forward demonstrating move after move after moving till you run out of moves?
Just because you live in a civilization there’s no excuse to not know how to survive or to be fit for survival should the need arise!
I think every man in this country should be at least as fit and strong as the strongest woman out there don’t you agree?
I can stomach the strongest man in the world being twice as strong as me but not 3 times as strong!
When you have a perfect angel before you, and you start to wig out, then you know with certainty that it’s yyou! Where things get a little bit more complicated is when are surrounded by not-so-perfect angels and we begin to wig out and we’re unsure just how much of it is them! It was once said that whenever there’s something wrong with me -it’s me. It’s me regardless of what around me is triggering it. And what about when you have a perfect angel before you and you’re not being triggered, doesn it mean there’s nothing wrong with you? Absolutely not!
It’s easy to think we’re over a resentment when the person or the place where things we’re resentful of is not within our range of vicinity. But when they get rid of the range or vicinity, often times we quickly discover that we were never over that resentment.
I don’t believe the speed of light is the ceiling! I don’t believe that a human-being cannot hold two thoughts at the same time. 🤷♀️🤷♂️
“GRATITUDE” is not a luxury -it’s a necessity!
Don’t let fear detour you from taking that step into the unknown! Through effort, though inexperienced, we learn, grow, we improve! Training-wheels! When we first got on a bicycle our bodies had no clue about the physics behind “balance”. But GOD made us, made the universe and all it’s laws JUST FOR US! Not the other way around. Don’t procrastinate and 5 years later find yourself in precisely the same place! Time is a wonderful thing [a friend] when we put it too good use; and a terrible thing when we don’t!
If you want time to go by fast…; I’d you want it to drag along… People who fear dying…; People who DO NOT fear death… 🤷♀️🤷♂️
The more boring my life is… the more I tend to look forward to just about anything to break up that boredom. The more exciting my life is, the more I loathe the notion of taking the time to be of service to others. When people in AA start to get their life back… Set up your life so that you yearn for something to do for another rather than loathing doing so.
The more exciting life is 🤔 the more frightened people tend to be of dying.
I have everything I need -i don’t really need anything from the neighbor; from my gurlfriend; from… anyone! Very little currently!
Often times we look so well in the rooms of AA that it backfires on “the newcomer”
Think about what God is doing for you and not what man isn’t.
The importance of unity -people today think they can get by without any! They are gravely mistaken! That’s what people who fear unity want us to think!
How many times have I thought of doing “X” but didn’t because of “Y”? “X” being something responsible or accountable or kind or daring? “Y” being the ego.
There are 3 things you need to consider when you buy something. Is it a necessity or a luxury? Is it going to go up in value over time or not? If you buy something and you can’t turn around and make your money back on it right off the bat… you paid too much for it!.*is it perishable?
Many times people make up excuses after buying something and paying too much.
I don’t go for people running around positive all the time -even when life is s***. Just doesn’t seem very appropriate at times!
When we trust in man -we’re looking for specific outcomes; When we trust in GOD -we accept any and all outcomes! Or is the the other way around? When we trust in man -we brace for any and all outcomes! When we trust in GOD -we’re looking for specific outcomes!
I want the Eagles to lose [reverse betting] so… I bet the Eagles as a consolation to winning 😁 I want the 49ers to win [reverse betting] so… I bet the other team as a consolation to my team losing 😁. *I am terrible at winning bets; so why not bet on the teams who are playing against the teams I want to win? Since I always lose; that can only mean that in order for me to lose a bet; MY TEAMS SIMPLY MUST WIN! 🤷♂️ AND I ALWAYS LOSE WHEN I BET! GOD-THING??? [Discouragement-factor???].
Is that the way it works? I come to you so I have to deal with you on your terms? But what if it’s not fair? And what if in a democracy the majority rules but is incorrect or wrong? Should we go along with it?
When you’re dealing with people it’s always important to know that they know what they’re doing -or is it? Is it important to know? Or is it important that they know what they’re doing? I’m guessing this is especially true when heading into a relationship with others? Business or personal? It’s amazing how many people don’t know what they’re doing -heading into a personal relationship! People are actually easy if you know what you’re doing -and they [as is so often the case] don’t.
That’s why you need to clear your mind -so GOD can enter in and you can think straight! 🤷♂️🤷♀️
So, 🤔 what happens when we clear our minds, God interested in, we start thinking straight, but we start using it to our own ends? We you start using GOD’S grace to our own ends? I’m thinking God’s grace is God’s grace and like anything else we can use it rightfully or wrongfully. Until it runs out? I can tell you this much -GOD isn’t going to be pleased!
One major asset in any type of relationship is -not to be a problem to them!
“I don’t think I have a lot on my mind -but I have a lot on my ❤!”
When there is a conflict, as is swapped in the case among the human beings buying for our own personal desires… needs… person who has the purest heart at the moment tends to get their desires Grant to do that!
In Alcoholics Aynonymous we have a saying “The person who gets up the earliest has the most sobriety”. I ssy “The person who has the most GOD in them at any given-time -has the most sobriety”.
*****What is the outcome when a person wants to quit drinking -but doesn’t have the power to quit availed within them? What is the outcome when a person doesn’t want to quit drinking -but has the power availed with in them to do so? When a person meets both of these requisites in the rooms of Alcoholics Anonymous.. Magical things begin to happen! We experience all kinds of miracles in the rooms in fact. Physical, emotional, psychological, spiritual!
I don’t agree that miracles have to be sudden! A miracle for me is something that tends to defy the natural laws of nature which God has established! GOD wove into the fabric of this universe every possibility HE wanted and every possibility he did not want. So if it is possible, it serves GOD’S purpose! Certainly HIS intention!
Another indication of [God’s]* ignorance and satan’s cunning is this**:
* See how satan works? I spoke man’s ignorance and put in God’s ignorance! Where in the h*** did that come from? The microphone of course! “Another indication of man’s ignorance and satan’s cunning: “Man tries to explain away the plagues in The Bible as natural occurrences”. First of all,🤔 What are the chances of a plague of frogs or locust coming down on an area at that exact moment? Second of all, 🤔 In terms of these plagues being “natural” as opposed to “supernatural”… Why on Earth would God not utilize nature as the source of a miracle or a supernatural-event since HE HIMSELF too created nature? GOW IGNORANT ARE WE??? I heard it said once in a Bible class that “satan sees man as easy to manipulate; easy to fool”. Any thoughts to the contrary?
** Man in his own arrogance would surely agree that the universe was created for him; and not the other way around. That being said ->many of his arguments fall by the wayside! You take Darwin for example: 🤔 Man is going to take animals as an example of how he is to conduct himself? Man must be the example to his fellow creatures [creatures GOD made him lord over] -and not the other way around [sounds a bit like the chicken, or the egg argument – You can debate where the chicken came from: but I think it’s fairly obvious you need a chicken to make an egg] -basic reasoning -minus the overthinking! In addition, would you expect man as a higher being in this universe to allow his fellow human-being to fall by the wayside rather than to utilize the highest principles in assisting his survival and progress? And in war, do we not consider the slogan “Leave no man behind” a principle of the highest order? In adopting Darwin’s theory, why don’t we leave our weak and injured to die; so that we may be stronger for it? 🤷♀️🤷♂️
The church’s idea that a miracle has to be defined by a sudden occurrence defying the laws of nature? I don’t like to speak against the church -but who are we to determine when and where God’s hand is [or isn’t] at work [man’s arrogance & ignorance once again on display -a certain amount of openness & humility are key here? 🤷♂️🤷♀️
The Bible was clearly not written to sell books-certainly not to this new generation! The person writing it would be hanged for sedition again’s humanity itself! It would not be very popular -that’s for sure! Without even speaking of the supernatural wisdom impari did and it’s pages… is there just a couple of reasons why The Bible.. Why it is highly unlikely that a man wrote The Bible!
I’ve heard many a person in Alcoholics Anonymous state that they are there to save their a** not their soul. Nothing wrong with saving your soul in the process is there a?
I’m not getting up and getting on my knees before GOD because I have to get-up-and-get a glass of water anyways -NO!!!!
Man accepts all kinds of things from his fellow man on faith alone. BUT NOT FROM GOD; OR THINGS PERTAINING TO GOD; OR THINGS PERTAINING TO “THE SOUL”! We speak of people who are dead as if they no longer were. Something must have left them when tgey died -Something most of us really don’t want to admit to! If all there is in life is here and now and our bodies and our minds and no soul… then when a person dies -are not the body and the mind still there? Why do we speak of them as if they have gone? Everything an atheist for example claims we are, is still there in that dead body!
Why is it we lose our innocence when we have sex? Is sex a bad thing? Did GOD not make it? Or maybe sex is bad but procreation is good. GOD does mention the purity of virginity however.
The more I practice -the luckier I get!
I have failed over and over again -and that is why I succeed!
☆☆☆☆☆Take a piece of paper and draw A-line down the middle and on the left side right out the principles of recovery and on the right side draw the principles of addiction. And you will see what is driving the outcomes in your life, the very quality or essence of your life in fact!
One of the things we love most is one of the few things that can destroy a tooth!
I recently read an article on…: How do sportsbooks set betting lines to have a house edge | VSiN
https://www.vsin.com/sports-betting-101-how-to-calculate-the-house-edge/ I’m thinking 🤔 “This is precisely how the rest of the world basically operates”. In many parts of America anyways -in my humble experience”.
Intentionally, in tennis: you wanna hit the ball low, deep, and wide as possible -back-and-forth. Run your opponent ragged!
I’ve gone to both bookstores in our local area recently and it has dawned on me that interacting with these people-there’s something missing in them. GOD???? I THINK SO. Certain awarenesses [experiences] too! AND finally, CERTAIN PRRRRRINCIPLES!!!! Yes, I think that’s it!!!
Well, whatever we go through, we can always use it to move a little closer to GOD’S plan for who HE would have us be -as long as we are open to it [HIM -shaping us ~Afterall, HE is “the master sculptur”~]. As it says in the book of Alcoholics Anonymous, “there’s enough opportunity for growth through these principles to keep a human being busy for the remainder of their natural life!”
All we can do is put our best foot forward and be forthright with others! When we’re honest with others [first of all ourselves], we give them the opportunity to make [sound] decisions based on “the facts”. Not out of ignorance, assumptions [as is so common-place], nor falsities [as is also common-place] these days.
Fake it till you make it. Sounded like b******* to me at 1st. But when you look at it this way, everybody has to start somewhere and knowing little or nothing -certainly with regard to experience 1st hand.
Humans are always trying to find the easier softer way to the point where there’s no longer any constitution or character left in them. I would always ask “if you could get muscles without doing any work… If you could lose weight without doing any work… How have you grown or become stronger as a human being?” THINK ABOUT IT 🤔
Think about a sheikh who is All-powerful and has all the money in the world and has people waiting on him hand and foot. Or the billionaire boss who has everyone scared to death and at his or her beckoned call continually. What kind of quality of relationships do you think these people have with the people around him? I mean these are basically examples of people who get everything they want out of life! The fact of the matter is that under these conditions these are not relationships at all! We need to have the uncertainty, the freedom, the disappointments inherent in relationships between one another to actually form real relationships according to how GOD deemed things. It’s a mere image of the relationship between ourselves and the Almighty himself. Who has more power than God and yet he does not exercise it along these lines…
JESUS had the power to micro-manage more than anyone else who ever existed on the planet: and yet HE was anything but a micro manager! Think about it! If we go around correcting people for every little thing they do wrong [even if we’re right 100% of the time -which we aren’t of course], our relationships are eventually gonna be a total wreck.
They tell us not to judge each other because we’re all, among other things, flawed our selves. I like to use these extreme examples to emphasize things [outliers: 0 and 100]. But even if we weren’t flawed, even if we weren’t hypocrites by judging another person… What would it accomplish? JESUS was perfect; and he didn’t judge! HE wanted the best possible relationship with people without compromising his own principles! Satan will do anything in his power to steal a soul! But JESUS on the other hand stuck to his guns -HIS Heavenly Father’s guns! Seem an unfair advantage? Do you really think satan can outsmart GOD! Even though man’s base nature seems to favor satan! People don’t want too much of GOD -and they certainly DO NOT want too much of satan! Nobody wants to burn in h*** or sell their soul for a few moments of pleasure or riches or fame. But satan never lays it all out like that for us does he! It gives you the good part of the deal! GOD on the other hand tells you the bad side of things up front! Seem an unfair advantage? GOD wants us to climb while satan wants us to coast. Oftentimes, man himself wants GOD to descend to us rather than us ascend to where HE is! Man has the choice between his lower-base-self and to ascend. He has the choice of doing either [of them] alone; or with help from those around him, or that which is availed within him.
GOD is a gentleman; and will never intrude or impose! HIMSELF satan on the other hand… People wonder why satan exists in the world and why GOD doesn’t stump him out. First of all; we unleashed and welcomed satan into the world –not GOD! Secondly; going back even to the Garden of EDEN itself, man had to make choices [choose a side]! Thirdly; man was made in GOD’S OWN IMAGE. I don’t know if he was meant to grow in the Garden of Eden or if he was made perfect then. But most certainly, out here, outside of the Garden of Eden, man is destined to… at the very least -redeem himself for his initial transgression in the Garden by once again, and repeatedly, CHOOSING A SIDE!*
*Some people [appear to anyways], make a choice one time and that’s the end of it! Others need to [re]make [or reassert] that decision day-to-day or in some cases, moment-by-moment! 🤷♂️🤷♀️
One of the irrefutable laws of the universe is that each man must make a choice. To not make a choice -is a choice! Man has to decide who he will be and what he will represent! There is no way around it! Who he will side with! GOD! His fellow man! Himself! Satan! Nature! I think we all get the point here!
I shoot from JESUS’S hip!
Just as it is unlikely that an Alcoholic after taking the first drink -will be able to refrain from the second. If man couldn’t keep a shit together in the Garden of Eden then how do you think he’s going to fair outside of it?
If man did to JESUS what he did; then what can the rest of us expect as far as treatment goes?
I OWE GOD–GID doesn’t owe me!
…And nobody gets out of here alive; and nobody is exempt from choosing a side; and those who are deemed unfit to do so, GOD will deal with separately [For lack of a better word which seems to havevescaped me at the moment].
“Are you familiar with….?”
“Not the word itself but perhaps the concept itself”.
Many of us are probably more familiar with the definitions rather than the words used to label the definitions themselves.
Human is just a word. We could be called anything actually as a representation of what we are or appear to be to one another. I suppose what’s more important is what we are in all actuality! When you think about it in those terms -it’s a little surreal don’t you think? I mean what are we really? And more importantly what are each of us choosing to be? One of the earliest concepts I was ever.. Well this is not exactly true but nonetheless…. Who I am is God’s gift to me, what I make of myself is my gift to GOD! Rather Profound WOULDN’T YOU SAY?
I’m not looking for an attractive woman I’m looking for a woman I’m attracted to! I’m not singling out or targeting a particular group when it comes to women… oddly enough! I take each person as they come and what I’m looking for is someone I’m attracted to who’s a good and decent person!
GOD seems to be answering my prayer of replac in all thewritings that are scattered about here and there-including the 4 wins!
I’m not sure if this is right or not but it came to me none the less -you don’t treat people good you treat them right!
So, do we show the type of kindness GOD prescribes, which tends to make many who are either leary, or all-the-more-conscioys of their own callousness; or do we do it according to “the world”?
Some people manage to deal with certain critical or difficult situations amazingly well because 🤔 -theyre never actually, or quite “in it”! Some people are truly strong; while others are merely detached!
Not everything unfortunate, is unfortunate. Not everything that seems [to us] to be ‘Not of GOD’ is not necessarily ‘Not from GOD’. ->GOD either “Acts” or HE “Allows” -mothing more and nothing less [However, HE perhaps still cteates; and HE still desyroys!]. Mention GOD as frequently as possible!
You can breathe too much and you can drink too much water; but can you pray [🙏🏻] too much? 🤷♂️🤷♀️
We pray because it helps us -not GOD! GOD knows -trust me!
If you can’t treat the people you love any better than that…. sometimes tho -we treat strangers better because there’s no history, baggage, resentment, hurt!
“use it either way -but us it for good”.
How many things in the world would cease; if there wasn’t something in it for us?
You either “do it” or you require inspiration from outside yourself.
Man’s will is the wild-card he uses not often enough! Man’s will, can at tines produce “supernatural acts”.
POLITICIAN ARE NOT JUST FLAWED [THAT’S BAD ENOUGH; People are out there praying for it! Looking for it! And in some instances,fabricating it!
Take a court case; you’re the prosecutor; you frame [portray] certain facts as “X”; Now wave your m**** w*** and suddenly the prosecutor is a defense attorney. Now just sit back and watch how differently they frame [portray] that same set of facts as “Y”.
If everybody just came forward and admitted they were guilty when they were guilty… How many people would be out of a job or miss out on all the intrigue? A lot of people are addicted to the intrigue of human drama and suffering and sadness.
If you punish people too severely they will lie to escape the consequences. If you give them a paid vacation in Europe for a month, they will lie and say they’re guilty when in fact they’re not. Do we want to get to the truth or not?
If you want to cheat a lie-detector test come recei to the question posed to you, and then ask yourself a question immediately in your own mind that will answer to protect you from any show up on the machine as being truthful. Is Mailing a letter.
Small group of people make it impossible to be able to trust everyone. But I think the bigger problem is that a lot of people lack the ability to discern. Because of their own limitations they paint everybody with the same brush!
Favorite food smelling habd-sanitizer.
Somethings gotta give [someone’s gotta give in -be the adult].
These mass shootings! Never, NEVER hear anything about societies role! Blasphemy!
Holocaust 1 of 3 things: God doesn’t care; God doesn’t exist; The Jews are being punished; The Jews are assisting in the expiration of souls worldwide [history past, present, future].
I think people out in society have been watching too much “WALKING-DEAD“.o
One way of telling you’re smart or been around “the block” is… at some point in the awakening of my mind in college, something very interesting began occurring: I would watch the news, and so-called “experts” would voice their opinion about something in which justoments, or minutes before, my own mind came up with.
YOU can always tell when people know what they’re doing because they either: Think what you were thinking, or; thought of things you yourself never [would have] thought of! 🤔
People [fully grown, middle-aged imen] n the movies you saw as a boy are now young enough to be your children lol 🤔😏
Sidelines it’s what we don’t do rather than what we need to do that brings about. . 50/50‽ Do/Dondt?
You don’t get to use my excuse!
I wanted my parents to come out of the grave and make their wrongs right! Healing from old wounds always goes better when the participants responsible are willing to step forward and show remorse. But you can heal without that if you’re willing to do the work and accept the right attitude! I don’t need to be made amends to; and I don’t need to…
Do you think that when the blood but has a perfect storm of this or that…. That cancer can be spawned in the body? Different cancers have different perfect storms so-to-speak?
Life is often about how much pain you can; or are willing to take!
The idea of making a mistake and living with it for the rest of your lif-presumably unhappy or inconvenienced… doesn’t sit well with a lot of people! Nowadays, if a person can get around it… principles be d*****… they will more than likely do an!