FACEBOOK “Please help those people dear LORD who are in need -even if it means taking a little something from us who have.”
FACEBOOK “The people who fought for freedom in this country had a very different experience and therefore mindset [or other way around] from the people in this country who are enjoying that freedom!” 🤷♀️🤷♂️
FACEBOOK “People in this day and age don’t know what to believe – The only thing we really need to believe [in] is GOD!”
FACEBOOK “What is the most incredible thing in the universe? The densist star? How many stars in the universe? Life on100 other planets? Nooo -GOD!!”
FACEBOOK “If you can convince someone they need you 🤔 -even though they don’t. And if you can convince 🤔- an elephant that they’re a mouse. I saw a movie once “The shooter”? Anyways, the villain was talking about how the government was fading away and that people needed to feel they needed it. It was dying? As for corporate America, do we need them or they need us? Or both? People cannot earn a living without corporate America? Fedex and all kinds of different… When I went over to UPS yesterday and they told me I could no longer have my packages held locally and that I would have to pay the $8.99 fee online… I thought to myself, why do Americans keep putting up with their stuff? Because of what it would take to put an end to it? A lot of us would have to suffer -and we don’t wanna suffer? It’s probably true, the situation we find ourselves in would require pain and suffering to stop it. And of course people on the other end would do their best to resist. And when the dust would finally settle, there would have to be some kind of a compromise. Anything of man that he values -dies slowly! How do we undo this mess we’re all in? I mean this mess being slaves to what or who -if we even know anymore! Do you really believe for example, that this situation where we’re all being drained like victims of vampires -cannot be undone? Of course it can! Man created it, and he can fix it. Now where GOD comes in is -giving man the will to do so. Usually when a lot of people are suffering -somebody is benefiting. You put a stop to that dynamic -and the problem is largely solved! But man doesn’t let go easily when he is on top! The plan is to help all people involved not just certain people!! Because even the ones who think they are on top -are suffering; whether they know it or not!” 🤷♂️🤷♀️
FACEBOOK “If you really believe the government is of the people, for the people, by the people… Try shutting it down! Go on! It should be! But go ahead and try anyways! Even when there was a Civil War -it was the government against the people. Imagine now? Federal vs State?”
FACEBOOK “You don’t need to know how “it is operating”, you just need to understand man’s [corrupt] nature!”
FACEBOOK “So much of our culture today is ego-driven. Ego has always been a part of man’s nature -BUT WHEN IT BECOMES PART OF HIS CULTURE as well??? WATCH OUT!”
FACEBOOK “When the bank Let’s you slide on a payment without letting you slide on the interest, WHO DOES IT BENEFIT MOST?” 🤔
FACEBOOK “It’s OK if it’s a big deal to you; just don’t make it a big deal with other people!”
FACEBOOK “I saw this movie where they made them think that they were in danger so they made certain moves that actually did put them in danger when they were not to begin with*. This is a ploy of satan’s quite often. Satan is allowed to lie and manipulate apparently; he just can’t force us to act!”
*Actually, they were trying to get him to give up the bank codes to his Swiss bank account (by making him think they had already been compromised).
FACEBOOK “Some people seem to barely manage to survive monetarily or emotionally by being selfish. So where would they be without being selfish?”
FACEBOOK “GOD or the wall -your choice? If you put the wall up, you shut everything out -including GOD. If you leave the wall down, you let everything in -including GOD. Now which do you suppose…” 🤔
FACEBOOK “Man’s attitude when he needs something; is very different from when/after he gets it!”
FACEBOOK “These little itsy bitsy irritations in life are preparation to make us stronger and build our character for bigger things later on down the road.”
FACEBOOK “Since GOD knows the future and knows every man’s heart: does HE judge us for everything we will do; and for everything we would do under circumstances we will never face?”
FACEBOOK “The purer the man, the greater the sacrifice! 🤔 Other way around?”
FACEBOOK “Corporate America & the US Government keep evolving -but what is their overall goal, agenda? Is it benign? Unlikely! They keep stacking change, one after another! Do we even know anymore what it is we are conceding to? And what about the consequences of policies working in tandem? A web [of lies]? Traps??? WHY SHOULD WE TRUST?”
*Of course like anything else, there are very good people working within the framework of these organizations**.
**When something continues to evolve, with no end in sight; that is not benign in nature -there can only be one [eventual] outcome! Man!!!!! 🤷♀️🤷♂️ WHY SHOULD WE TRUST?
FACEBOOK “There’s a reason animal’s fear man!”
FACEBOOK “It takes a very twisted and warped ❤ to take it personal with people you don’t even know. With people who have never done anything to you; but only represent those who have done something to you! LC is filled with these people!”
FACEBOOK “My whole life has been WALLS & MASKS! You harm someone severely in their early development -And keep them in the very environment they were initially traumatized in continually… Most people will not be able to overcome that!” Hint: Are the people out in the world really that much different from the people inside of your world? 🤔 In most cases-NO!
FACEBOOK “As long as there are men that exist who [are willing to] choose satan over GOD [or some combination of the two -usually (consciously or otherwise)] -satan serves a useful, but unfortunate purpose. Therefore, 🤔 satan MUST exist in order for the most basic foundation of man’s freewill to remain in tact -HIS CHOICE TO BE GOOD; OR TO BE EVIL!” 🤷♂️🤷♀️
FACEBOOK “Man sometimes figures things out by reversing through “the process”.
I believe it was a renowned actor that once stated that Jeff Bridges was the most comfortable actor in front of the camera he had ever met. Imagine being comfortable beyond imagination in whatever endeavor you are embarking upon? How important is being comfortable? How important is being uncomfortable?
FACEBOOK “”Peace and Serenity” have never been my top priorities -sadly!”
FACEBOOK “GOD gives because HE loves; or visa-versa?”
FACEBOOK “It used to be the prices were set largely based on cost. Naturally this is a limitation that has not only been challenged of late; but discarded in many areas, by many franchises. Man is constantly looking for ways to increase his profit. At least that’s the name of the game in this country of late. Raising prices while cutting costs. Is there a 3rd venue [oops]. Is there a third facet?”
FACEBOOK LIMITATIONS: If you’re waiting around for corporate America and the US government to “limit themselves…” They may not take as much as they can get [all at once]; But they keep moving ever closer. When man no longer operates in increments… This for example, is when one country decides to take over another! If you had a goal why do it in increments if you don’t have to! Is this radical? Look for man to start discarding ways that take too long or seem outdated or obsolete -based upon principles being weeded out of the “societal-and-organizational -fray!”
FACEBOOK INFLATION: 1000 years ago there was no inflation. People did what they did and got what they got. This basically was the case. Now living day-to-day, there were some hard times! In the west however, man’s need to get paid more and more for his works. Stockpiling, for hard times that lay ahead, have become common-place. Reliance on himself rather than faith in GOD is the order of the day! But with this arrangement where man is getting paid more and more for his works… just how far ahead is he really getting? In the West every time he raises his prices then the guy down the road raises his and the next guy raises his and the next guy raises his and the next guy raises his. The belief is that this is circular. Or a spiral. But the fact that the matter is everything has a beginning. And where inflation begins in the West is with man wanting or needing to be paid more with the time he accrues in his chosen vocation. Once you set the ball rolling then it becomes circular -or so it seems! But if you trace it back to its roots* -it’s no longer circular! So, most of us really are not getting head -except for where the backlash of time allows us to until the circle comes back around to us where the other fella has raised their prices. It’s like with raising the minimum wage. He raised the minimum wage and all the stores raised their prices. So not only do the people who got the minimum wage raise… not get anywhere -but the rest of us end up paying more also -and we didn’t get a raise. WTF 🤷♀️🤷♂️ The fact of the matter is that in the West, man needs to feel like he is progressing and making more and getting ahead even if it’s just an illusion -that only lasts for moments here and there realistically. In the West it’s all about progress and moving up. How many problems have these 2 things caused for Western civilizations? Along with status and the uneven playing field** and the totem Pole or a hierarchy or financial gradation from top to bottom?
*Speaking of roots, what happened to all the land in this country? I’ll tell you what happened to it. Government took a big chunk of it. While many years ago certain individuals bought up a s*** load of it. Legal or illegal! If this is our country why are we having to buy land? Once again come a bunch of people bought it up early on and started parceling it out to the rest of us. Buying land in a country that belongs to all of us? And what about the world? What about this idea about human beings taking ownership of specific areas while keeping the rest of us out or setting boundaries or restrictions when the world was given to all of us by GOD?
**And they say there are no kings in this country! In this country it’s all about feeling bettor, superior… -based upon your status! You feel better at the expense of other people feeling worse or less. We’re slaves to a structure that really does not lend itself to character-building or application-of-principle or spiritualness -It’s all about feeding the body and being a slave to it! Eastern cultures have been around for millenniums and they were all too familiar with these pitfalls.
FACEBOOK SHARKS: These people hired and placed in think tanks in order to maximize the profits of the companies they work for -don’t these people have families that they should be concerned about with regard to maximizing profits? Don’t they stop and think to themselves that while they’re helping their company, they’re harming their fellow man? Don’t these people also have to shop out there in the world? Everything is relative and connected correct question maximize profits in your company doesn’t that affect other companies eventually -where you shop? So we come up with some brilliant idea to maximize profits… what do we get out of it -status? A raise? But on the flip-side of it, many people are struggling to produce the revenue being demanded by your company. Some of them likely your family members.
FACEBOOK “The rich have more to lose, but they also have more to spare [tytyty LORD forgot this one while in kitchen rearranging for air-fryer]. This is what allows the game to continue. The poor have less to lose mind you; but they also have less to spare! The rich can hold out a lot longer than the poor -except perhaps with the agony of suffering the losses to begin with. Let’s be Frank, the rich love their money! More importantly the power in the status that come with it in many cases!”
FACEBOOK “It’s better to go to the gym and do a little then to not go to the gym at all -dreading to have to do a lot -it’s a psychological game! I find that if I can encourage myself rather than discourage myself just to show up… Once I make a start, I start feeling better about doing more.”
*****Never started drinking “just before bedtime”. AA is the one place where I’m not sure a room full of people is “a good thing” or “a bad thing”?
FACEBOOK “*****THE MORE MY [RELATIONSHIP WITH MY] ADDICTION INCREASES; THE MORE MY RELATIONSHIP WITH OTHERS, MYSELF, AND ABOVE ALL ELSE, GOD -DECREASES!”
FACEBOOK “*****THE MORE MY addiction increases; the more my relationships decrease!”
FACEBOOK “It’s one thing to hate the person who hurt you*; another thing entirely, hating anyone [all the people] who represent them! A woman for example, hurt by numerous men; going thru life hating every man they encounter? WHEW!!!!” 🤷♂️🤷♀️
*How often do we ever actually take out our anger on the people who actually ARE RESPONSIBLE?
FACEBOOK “Are you being honest in your relationship? Think about the consequences of not being honest -OR TRUE! Imagine you waking up after 10 years and finding out you really never knew your partner! Imagine your partner waking up after 10 years and finding out they never really knew you!” 🤔
Vegas and insurance companies always throw in that extra something so they can come out ahead. At the Roulette Roulette table it is the 2 green numbers. With insurance companies that’s the deductible.
FACEBOOK “If life is a test like any other, shouldn’t we be prepared for it? When we know we’re being tested, we generally prepare for it don’t we? The problem with life is that many people DO NOT SEE IT AS A TEST -and therefore they do not prepare for it!”
P.S. Many people hate tests -but life appears to be “one of those unavoidable ones”.
FACEBOOK “Sometimes it’s hard to tell the difference between something that’s wrong and something that’s perfect -because the usual [norm] is generally somewhere in between! Sometimes perfect feels all wrong!” 🤷♂️
FACEBOOK “Freedom and relationships are all about responsible action. And they are the easiest things in the world to take for granted -or even abuse.”
FACEBOOK “The parallel between a parent and a child; and you and your partner -UNCONDITIONAL!”
Use a formula to construct sentences mathematically. Rearrange words just to see what meanings are derived.
When your age and your body begins to show that age… scale and experience are supposed to replace them. Let me put it another way old age and treachery will win out over youth and skill.
What happens when somebody good who knows what they’re doing meets up with somebody bad who knows what they’re doing?
That’s a bunch of b******* you don’t force people to pay for insurance. Anything that has to do with business and profit -you do not force people to engage in!
FACEBOOK “People quite often develop animosity* towards their partner [more often then you might 🤔 💭 think].”
*Men and women in this country tend to have an antagonistic relationship between one another!
FACEBOOK “There’s always gonna be somebody decent who; eventually becomes aware of something indecent going on [with the public].”
FACEBOOK “Based on everything we’ve learned so far… the only question now is not if there’s anything more to be discovered -but what else there is to be discovered. GOD it appears, has woven into the fabric of the universe -a path of endless discoveries.”
P.S. Without new opportunities and choices; how can there be free will? Besides, GOD also knows, all-too-well… the hearts and minds of HIS children.
Lawyers use coercion and threats all the time to get their clients what they want -why can’t we use it on eBay?
FACEBOOK “Why judge people [we tend to either not care what others think, or; we retaliate, or; we end up wounding people (mistakenly; and always wrongfully)] in the majority of cases?
– It’s a waste of time;
– You’re probably not qualified;
– And you will be judged by the same measure!”
FACEBOOK “When you feel jealousy or envy towards another it’s because somewhere inside of yourself you have been neglected, or neglected yourself!” 🤷♂️🤷♀️
Alcoholics and addicts are not the only ones in this day and age with self will run riot issues.
FACEBOOK “Whenever life starts getting to us; oftentimes, it’s because we forget just how good we’ve really got it.”
It’s understandable given your heightened awareness, the fact that you’re not on any medication, and your history… that you would have some “ups n’ downs….” Particularly with regard to modern-day-America being what it is today.
When we want GOD badly enough… HE knows that when we want other things badly enough we are willing to go to a certain length to get them. So don’t you think it’s only fair that we show at least that much effort when reaching out to him?
With my level of awareness, history, no medication, the high stress world of modern-day-America… Of course I should have some Ups and Downs. Personally, I think I’m doing d*** good. I think GOD has done a d*** good job!
FACEBOOK “Other people being selfish, causes, justifies our being selfish. Lack of faith. Weakness. Lack of steadfastness in your values [locus-of-center].”
FACEBOOK “When we retaliate, we justify people’s wrong behavior (in their minds -“and oh how I hate this about we human-beings”)!”
FACEBOOK “You and I cannot see everything -but GOD can. I and others cannot see you -but GOD can.” “Therefore, we don’t care what GOD thinks; but we care so much about what other people think; that we go to the (great) trouble of hiding it!”
FACEBOOK “The key to being honest is never do anything you have to hide, or lie about! For the longest time in my youth I could not adhere to this principle. [I “wanted” things]” 🤷♂️🤷♀️
FACEBOOK “A lot of people think highly of themselves that shouldn’t. A lot of people think little of themselves that shouldn’t -but it’s a good character trait nonetheless.” 👍🏻
FACEBOOK “Fewer and fewer people in this country are willing/able to say no to excess.” “How many people do we expect things from -who don’t have it to give? Demand things from -who don’t have it to give? You’d be better off going to someone who has it; and is unwilling to give it -wouldn’t you?”
FACEBOOK “A lot of people don’t give a s*** about what I think; but they want me to give a s*** about what they think. And I’m not talking about “what they give a s*** about…” I’m talking about demanding respect; I’m not talking about the fact that they really want me to give a d*** about what they think. Let me put it another way, a lot of people don’t respect what I think or feel -but they demand that they be respected. And this is where a lot of it comes down to whose stronger. Oh if I’m stronger than you then I guess you better respect me. And if you’re weaker than me then I’ll respect you if I choose or I won’t respect you if I choose [this is the human-will, and twisted-human-spirit at it’s most primitive]. This is the way a lot of humans operate. A lot of people do this without even realizing they’re doing it. While, others do it consciously.”
Trust versus reliability
FACEBOOK “Some people know you better than you know yourself -they have that kind of gift.”
FACEBOOK “We go out into our little cars, out into the world… with our own little missions in mind. Oftentimes, with our bodies making demands that we seek out pleasure, or superficial fulfillment, or the need for stimulation in various forms (whatever form happens to be available in our environment -the environment our fellow man has constructed, and therefore availed to us). How many of us ever really stopped to think about the people out there in the world; the people we encounter around us -as we are out in the bout?”
FACEBOOK “That which doesn’t come naturally: requires a conscious effort!”
FACEBOOK “You don’t have to make things complicated in order to prove your love!” 🤷♂️🤷♀️
“What’s the point of retaliating; bad people suffer unto themselves all the time!” GOD KNOW THIS; it is one of the reasons HE is so compassionate towards them; it’s also one of the reasons WE should allow ourselves to cede (had to look up to be sure) justice over to HIM in these matters
Women being the primary care giver to both us men and women… How do you suppose we each view women? Women don’t generally have relationships with women and men do I mean.
There was a time in this country when people went to therapists to get over their mistrust of people; which was obviously thought of as largely misplaced [misdirected] (or, whether valid (really?), or invalid; a hindrance to an otherwise healthy, productive life) -apparently! But that doesn’t seem to be the case any longer the case. People are genuinely untrusting, and with good reason! But we still have to be able to get out there into the world and enjoy the fruits of our labors right? We still have to get out there and contribute to the economic-wheel right? We cannot turn into zombies.
Some things you shouldn’t get over; I don’t know if your therapist has ever pointed this out to you! Some therapists will spend months with you on an issue that really isn’t an issue; other than the lack of recognition that it is something quite natural, something you should not be addressing as an issue. Other than the fact, with regards to your lack of recognition of that fact. But that ought to take about 5-quick-minutes! And shave off some of your therapists income -or certainly make room for others with genuine issues that need resolving!
FACEBOOK “I’m so tired of this f****d u* world; even after spending years trying to get back on track after the world f***** y** up; You then have to deal with it again -because people have the right to remain f****d u*! And to continue to f****** over other people!”
FACEBOOK “Next to Faith, the next best thing I know for combating fear is knowing that whatever they do to you -it doesn’t matter anymore!”
WE NEED A NEW PERSPECTIVE ON MONEY IN THIS COUNTRY!
How do you react when your partners having a great day and you’re having a s***** day.
Don’t abuse or take advantage of GOD’S gifts – More specifically, don’t abuse or take advantage of the people GOD puts in our lives!
FACEBOOK “AMERICA for example, didn’t get what it got by thinking the better of people, and other nations (or by trusting)! Albeit as non-spiritual as that may be!”
FACEBOOK “Some people struggle to be successful or to feel safe even though they genuinely go to great lengths in both areas. I am often times prone to being reckless and careless in these areas and still I somehow manage to push forward.” 🤷♂️
FACEBOOK “Those are the kinds of questions that can drive a person mad -because there is no answer either way -only time will tell! Questions like “Is my partner going to leave me?” Questions like “Is my partner going to stay by my side for the rest of our lives?”” 🤷♂️🤷♀️
FACEBOOK “E.T.E.O.A! Exceed The Expectations Of Others!”
FACEBOOK “People whose love dies eventually either had weak love or suspect love [was it even love*] in my humble opinion. My love for Ana is as strong as ever! And we have been through numerous hurtful situations together! And yet it still remains. I believe the true love truly never dies. Most consistent example of this is between parents and child. How hard is it to affect that love to any significant point where for example you would turn your back on them in their greatest hour of need? In most cases it’s unheard of? Except of course when the parent is either had enough [but never stopped loving them] or recognizes it’s not in their best interest to continue…”
*Things such as infatuation; rarely stand the test of time!
People and their conditional-love -Sort of like conditional pregnancy [I believe they have that now don’t they].
FACEBOOK “A lot of times many things will go up in price during a crisis. But you ever notice how in many cases they never quite seem to go back to the original price after the crisis? Human beings and their greed!”
We somehow managed for many centuries to do without continually looking at a phone. Sure there were times when people were in emergency situations where these phones now are very helpful. It doesn’t really justify the trillions of hours of people wasting on the job for example or on a date… or with their partner or loved one and constantly picking up their phones and looking at them? I don’t think so. But with the advent of the separation of society, people needed avoid filled desperately and the cell phone has turned out to be the saving grace and our demise. Just allows us to remain separate from one another which is not the solution we should be looking for. Is anybody out there paying attention? You don’t talk to people on phones -you communicate with them; A phone is a communication device and really nothing more! Get it? It was originally designed as such -and nothing more. But nowadays it’s supposed to be some kind of way of having relationships with people which is utterly ridiculous! You don’t have relationships with people through a piece of plastic. Not genuine relationships as defined by GOD’S original intention!
Avoid as much as possible getting frustrated with an apartment. And definitely avoid getting frustrated at something else and taking it out on your partner! It’s so important to keep our attitude as upbeat as possible to avoid these things! Rather than trying to conceal our frustrations in the presence of our partners-don’t you agree? Avoid stinking thinking
Oftentimes the things we are most worried about or concerned with or fearful of regarding our relationships is the thing that ends up destroying them –
Perhaps more so than anything else besides winning the lottery… People in bad relationships hate hearing about how wonderful other people’s relationships are going. As with so many other things in life, fighting, and loving relationships [oddly enough] Staying as relaxed as possible is your best chance at success!
The number one bar against change is that we enjoy those things we should change.
The majority of life doesn’t require man’s intervention!
The only thing you really need in life to feel good and feel positive is to conduct yourself properly. What other people do falls into and affects us in different categories outside of that. You know what I mean by feel good?You know what I mean by feel good? Because it wouldn’t feel right feeling good at a funeral would it?
■ As long as everybody does what they’re supposed to do and doesn’t do what they’re not supposed to do the relationship should be fine between you and between you your partner and the world. Got it?
■ Let’s just keep things light and breezy -just as it has been between us from the start.
■ Every Sunday we are going sit down and touch BRIEFLY on the trash going thru our heads for the week and dump them!
You either:
▪︎overlook something in a relationship and there’s plenty of that required
▪︎ Don’t overlook it but address it so the relationship can maintain integrity
▪︎ Address it and move on or don’t address it and move on because one should never they’re integrity and their person to be defamed to such a degree as to…. The Choice is optional with regards to stain or leaving!
I’m going to give you an order and you’re going to obey it whether you like it or not. “You’re going to exercise your own free will as you see fit -NO ARGUMENTS!” Since man is such a defined creature, maybe GOD should try this approach more often-lol
If you had the imagination of what a human being could be like at their very best… you would want to be one! And of course, if you would stop letting the world dictate who you are….
The greater the awareness, the greater the responsibility, the greater the strength required!
MASOCHISTIC
With ANA I learned not to look at a person as merely physical and to be used, but as spiritual to be loved
What’s in this will eventually come out. Likely in our relationships. It’s a good idea to be free of anything malevolent.
At this very moment there are people out there in their lives because of so much pain and so much shame.
Trust is built by getting to know a person high from but so is mistrust!
Relationships are built and formed overtime and through 1st hand interactions. GOD doesn’t expect any less of our relationship with him does HE?
Our best is always good enough for GOD -but quite often not for man!
When we have done our best, we maximize the possibility of the outcome and… We maximize in so are sales are concerned, the possibility of GOD’S plan to come to fruition! When we tell the truth regardless of the initial outcome… Regardless of the physical outcome.. The spiritual outcome is always assured!
What’s the difference between an active alcoholic with values and an active alcoholic without values?
Keeping your attitude positive by lying to yourself as one thing; keeping your attitude up by being honest with yourself is another! PATRICK O’REILLY But sometimes the only way possible in the moment for we flawed and limited human beings is to lie!
You know what the payoff is for doing things for other people and getting little from them in return? Sometimes people grow to love and admire us and see and cold and empty world has something a little more than that! Now that is not something that tends to happen in the hearts and minds of people when we are playing t** for tat!
There’s a payoff when we choose to remain above in our behavior and our character those around us who chose otherwise – Sadly, human beings are very prone to lowering themselves to the level of those around them and to give up that payoff.
Some things can only be given away and never taken away! A man’s dignity and integrity for example. Can a government force a people in every sense to do something? Can they force someone to become something other than they are! Other than they would choose to be? Can satan? Only through manipulation question mand if those manipulations exceed our own limitations.. Are we to be considered accountable? Can satan, or man’s manipulations ever exceed our own limitations?
☆☆☆☆☆We must exceed the expectations of others! How else are those around us ever to experience…????? Ah yes, renewed HOPE and FAITH in mankind -and in GOD!!!!!
We often lose faith in our fellow’s! Sometimes the only hope we have in mankind -that we can see, and therefore have positive proof of; is in ourselves! SO START THERE! 🤷♂️👍🏻🤷♀️
Trust by knowing and trusting in yourself to protect yourself from the world. But what else:
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Is your partner’s attitude attitude and conduct and feelings towards you appropriate to the person you are? If you are a good and caring and thoughtful person then there are feelings of love and admiration and longing to be with you are warranted. And if these are not the feelings your partner is experiencing towards you then there’s something wrong with them -not you! I think most people are relatively sane however. In my case, it wasn’t always the case. The feelings my partner’s had for me probably… The negative one’s, the cautious one… probably all warranted! But that’s not the case anymore on my part! And there are still people out there that are gonna get their feelings regarding certain realities around them -confused! IT HAPPENS! 🤷♂️🤷♀️
FACEBOOK [For those of us with “trust-issues”] “Not everybody wants to throw away their life Rick. Everybody wants to take the easier software way which ends up being “the harder way”, and the way that can only lead us further away from our ultimate goal[s]!” 🤷♂️🤷♀️
FACEBOOK “In certain instances if you just clear your mind -GOD will enter! That is provided you are willing and open to HIM!”
Having 80% trust in a person you’ve known 2 months is a very good sign [or maybe its too much too soon]- Allowing yourself to be too vulnerable, to open yourself up emotionally…. I’m not sure how that works though! How do you not open yourself up emotionally too quickly? Anyways, allowing yourself to become too vulnerable too quickly is. Appropriateness I suppose is the keyword! If we become more vulnerable then we are comfortable with; Is weather voluntarily or involuntarily; It’s always going to arouse a certain amount of anxiety or fear! If we are more vulnerable then the consequences of that vulnerability we are capable of bearing [in our own minds]… 🤷♂️🤷♀️ We run into difficulties. This is almost invariably the case!
FACEBOOK “A lot of people’s relationships have all the “Bells & Whistles”, but they lack the engine. A lot of people’s relationships have the engine but lack all the “Bells and Whistles” – Unless of course you live in America, and a few other countries -where we’re taught the necessity of all the Bells and whistles [That basically contributes to the economy; and a few more millionaires and billionaires on the planet 🤷♂️].”
FACEBOOK “Some people for example know all there is to know about writing -except for the creative part!”
FACEBOOK “Sometimes I say things to my partner that get them thinking about things they otherwise wouldn’t be thinking of that wind up working perhaps to the betterment of their growth -but to the detriment of our relationship.”
FACEBOOK “Just pull away from where you’ve come from -and ease your way into who you’ve become!”
FACEBOOK “A fulfilled (content) individual is the enemy of a country such as ours.”
FACEBOOK “Good things come and good things go because man has constantly got to be seeking change these days. And everybody has their own perception of what’s good and what isn’t good. You ever happened to be in charge at the time or have a mind to… The changes just keep coming. I don’t agree with homosexuality being accepted as a part of our society. What are my reasons:
■ Well 1st of all, do you really believe that the people who helped build this country and read The Bible really had it all wrong?
■ Do you really believe that the people who are struggling in modern day America to function; The hippie generation and so forth… the millennials… These people that are dismantling all of these old ideologies… who are you going to put your faith in?
■ Alcohol is a huge part of our culture. Not only are alcoholics using alcohol excessively but many people who are not alcoholics because it has become a working part of, and acceptable part of our culture. Anything that feels good [or bad 🤷♂️🤷♀️] to human beings, human beings are at risk of abusing. Do you think sex is any different? When we give our children the message that something that feels good is OK… A certain percentage of them are going to participate in it. People who are not alcohol extreme success. You don’t think that people who are not homosexual are going to experiment or simply engage in it because it feels good? You are sadly mistaken if you believe otherwise! You don’t know human nature and the human psyche and how it reacts under various conditions… How many men in prison engage in homosexual activity because of the deprivation they face well incarcerated? There is a lot of deprivation going on outside of prisons in modern day society… And if you don’t believe this…. do your homework! 🤷♂️🤷♀️ Once you start telling society that something is acceptable or OK… Whether in fact it is deemed right or wrong by GOD’S laws…
FACEBOOK “Guard your mind against all enemies -both foreign and domestic!”
FACEBOOK “You’re the elephant -who thinks he’s a mouse!“(Who has been programmed, or taught).
FACEBOOK “With limited information, oftentimes it looks like we’re doing horribly, but with all the facts gathered together we will in some cases find we are doing remarkably well. The same could be said for thinking we’re doing great until we see and gather all the facts…. And of course comparisons with other human beings is always a slippery s****!”
FACEBOOK “Be good; and be good to your partner. That’s it for relationship advice!”
FACEBOOK “Stay in your own lane; and STAY STRONG!” M&R 👫
We (can) stick our nose in other people’s business when we believe we can help; but never with the intention to hurt.
You don’t get stronger w/o resistance; we don’t learn… without asversity
Don’t walk around like you’re afraid!
FACEBOOK “How many people will you bless in your lifetime?”
There’s a ring that I have had my eye on for 20 some years probably and I finally got to put it on layout today, and platinum nonetheless! 3 there rectangular stone one carrot total platinum with 3 or 4 stones on the side of each.
Memory, or reflections are a powerful thing -they can bring us up or bring us down regardless of where we happen to be in the here and now!
FACEBOOK “I never really understood the value or the benefit of “staying in the present”. I know the detriment of going to the past, going to the future, going “here”, going “there”. Never leave the present unless it brings you “JOY”, “GROWTH”, “CLOSER TO GOD” [the latter is hard to achieve though; as GOD is generally found (for all “intense-and-purposes”) IN THE PRESENT!”
****FACEBOOK “And that’s the way it works in modern-day-America these days -Alot of people being left out. Many companies stay afloat from a “target group”! In some instances, they’re really not interested in the fact that “average Americans” will never be able to afford, and therefore enjoy, their product! And often, these companies outgrow, forget the initial “customer-base” that got them there by “over-inflating” their prices as their products and services increase in demand. IT REALLY IS PRETTY UNGRATEFUL & THOUGHTLESS (or worse) when you think about it!”
FACEBOOK “A person in any relationship should recognize what it is that is drawing them to that relationship! And more importantly; what in they themselves is driving them*!” These are just basic-tenements 🤷♂️🤷♀️
*Things are generally comprised of some sort of relationship [that is “things” that are distinguishable from “the singular”<-lonely?].
FACEBOOK “Ain’t a darn thing wrong with “not being №1” -unless of course you happen to be one of them “pompous, arrogant…” 🤷♂️🤷♀️
FACEBOOK “I’m at my best when I’m not deluded by thinking about my past, dismal experiences.”
FACEBOOK “Everything has a value or a meaning. What for example, does it mean when something seems a lot longer ago than what it really was?”
FACEBOOK “There should be a balance between thoughts of this world and thoughts of GOD! That should be evident to all of us by now!”
FACEBOOK “Not doing is one thing [refrainance]; while doing is another. Both have a value (and a time-and-a-place)!”
FACEBOOK “We had faith in drugs and alcohol; why can’t we have faith in GOD?”
FACEBOOK “When We Fear our Fellow Man; it’s a form of Faith! If we can have Faith in our fellow man harming us; why can’t we have Faith in GOD helping us? Fear is not an absence of Faith; is an absence of Faith in GOD -or the highest Wisdom with regard to GOD!”
You did the same thing to the neighbor by assuming he was a bad person -I suppose that makes me a “HYPOCRITE”!
FACEBOOK “At the very least, try and maintain, or cultivate… an attitude of empathy, if not compassion, towards your partner!”
FACEBOOK “One of the most beautiful kinds of people in the world, and most misunderstood… Are those who cannot see their own beauty -as the world does!”
FACEBOOK “I think most things people do in their relationships are understandable. What makes so many people judge us so harshly is that -they don’t understand [they are largely unaware] where our behaviors are coming from; why we behave as we do! Now when a partner, largely selfless, and loving in their nature -discovers something of their partners tragic, or otherwise “jaded history”, their [initial] attitude[s] towards the behaviors of their partners often turn into something more akin to empathy, if not compassion.” 🤷♀️🤷♂️
FACEBOOK “Never lose the fear, or the tentativeness [that silly, child-like nervousness] of not wanting to lose the magic in your relationship!”
FACEBOOK “A happy heart rejoices in the joy of all GOD’S creatures!”
Lil’ somethin’ to look upon now and then throughout your busy, and at times, hectic day:
💖💖I’M YOURS💖💖
MARCH 7th 2023
FACEBOOK “”We have created a culture that flies in the face of a species that has a history of jealousy and envy” -But who cares right?”
FACEBOOK “Let’s try and bring people up to where we’re at; and not go down to where they are at!”
This is nothing original of course, but when we’re gonna go out our front door -let’s try to make the world a little bit better place!
FACEBOOK “What’s difficult is all subjective isn’t it? And when someone doesn’t know what they’re doing, it’s difficult isn’t it? But that’s also subjective right? Whether you know what you’re doing; or you do not know what you’re doing; whether it’s difficult or not; it’s still subjective correct? A man for example, who knows what he’s doing with regard to women, has no trouble at all… For most of us it’s not the case however. So we would consider it difficult -if not bad luck lol.”
FACEBOOK “Not all our limitations are bad! Are a bad thing; [within/given the fabric of time (and space) that is!]”
FACEBOOK “Comparing the prices and the things you buy from people really gives a certain perspective that would be absent otherwise. Sadly, we miss out quite often on this very valuable tool or principle or philosophy. Many times we cannot even begin to ponder the idea of comparisons with X and Y and Z… THIS IS TRUE OF ALL THINGS ACTUALLY*!”
*But who has the time in the energy for that anymore -or the understanding behind this most valuedof approaches to life?
FACEBOOK “Human beings are a lot like animals like herd animal’s: when someone in the herd is restless [or going off]; it effects the rest of the herd.”
FACEBOOK “What if you’re not the person to make your partner the happiest they can be? Is that the most important thing they really need? Is it the most important thing they think they need; but they think it is?”
FACEBOOK “Two different people talk to one man about the other; and then the man goes back and talks to each of them about each other. Some people never do this at all. Just keep everything to themselves. Now which do you think feels better?”
FACEBOOK “Through prayer we can assist in the healing of others!”
Life’s actually been good for a very long time! I think GOD has really been trying to help me through my trauma and mistrust – In spite of the world!
FACEBOOK “If you tell a cop this guy slept with my wife what is he gonna do? In spite of the fact that infidelity is a huge issue with regard to violence and mental health issues in our country.”
There’s a difference between Encouraging and Rewarding. Disciplining and Discouraging. Or is there?
Sacrificing, neglecting your body IN THE SERVICE OF OTHERS!
FACEBOOK “You always have to ask, or include THE WELFARE OF THE INDIVIDUAL! That’s the rule-of-thumb! That’s the foundation of Christianity and the foundation of a civilization – That seems to be slipping in modern-day America!”
FACEBOOK “Unintelligent people, less intelligent people, thought highly intelligent people were crazy throughout history.”
Some people are a perfect barometer for life!
I have like an overactive mind!
I wouldn’t say a relationship with GOD is like any other -but I will say that in the sense that time spent together developing trust through experiences between one another is crucial -and GOD understands this all-too-well!