Nothing tests us like our personal relationships. No one knows us more intimately than… It’s hard enough to go through life dealing with our own “being” -but when you toss in a second one, or a 3rd, or a 4th, or a 5th… it can be a pretty tricky act to balance. And some people do amazingly well -but most of us… are basically average -hence the word “average” as defined (where most of us are going to fit in 😏). And a relationship is not for the faint-at-heart, it’s not for the immature, it’s not for the aloof or the indifferent, nor the fly-by-nights, nor the self-indulgent, nor the overindulgent…🤷‍♂️ It’s a very, very serious thing (hold on loosely but dont let go).

Some people have the ability to comprehend on a deeper level than others. I personally 🤔, have to grasp certain key elements before I can grasp “the… core concept”. And maybe that is the case for all people-or simply one style of many, one of and infinite… 🤷‍♂️

I think for some people relationships are a game. They (relationships) are highly taxing, and even threatening emotionally (when we are at our most vulnerable) -and I think the way a lot of us handle it is by a certain kind of quirkiness or a certain amount of craziness. Now I’m not saying I’m not guilty of it myself but -but I don’t like being on the receiving end of it! 🤷‍♂️

I’ve observed a lot of women who dress to attract attention and then appear perturbed at the attention they draw. Maybe they don’t know their dressing to attract attention-maybe they figure they’re just dressing to the times or the culture. A lot of women think they can dress provocatively and have the right to be unmolested -but that’s not reality. A lot of women think they can take things as far as they want to and turn around and say no -not real wise I will say.

A lot of women love (the power of) saying no almost as much as they hate hearing (being told…) it. 🤷‍♂️