Looking back on a lot of my experiences in life, the only big deal in many cases many cases were the ones I made. And the only consequences consequences of many of those situations situations were the consequences that came from me making a big deal out of what turned out to be nothing!

There’s a difference between having problems and being the problem-although some people may not know the difference

If you can’t do without your vehicle -you might be too dependent on mankind.

Try Something New

In Alcoholics Anonymous there’s there’s an old daying, “Doing the same thing over and over and over again -expecting different results.” When I was early in recovery I kept banging my head against the wall in my relationships. One day I decided to try something new and much to my surprise and relief the outcome was completely different.

How many times in my relationships chinchips did I act in such a manner as to completely lose sight of “The real issue at hand?”*

Some people would rather create a misery of their own choosing (out of a situation which scares them to death) -a misery that they are familiar with and therefore know how to handle (and endure)! I played that game for a long time and it always ended up with me being lonely which is I suppose is what I know how to handle and endure best.