Yes! No! Maybe?
Yes! No! Later! (God’s 3 answers)*
When we have been judged severely by others for example, we only have 2 directions to go in in response. When for example, we grow up with 2 alcoholic parents, we only have 2 directions to go in in response (in the majority):
•You either become bitter and you respond in kind;
•The pain of the experience resonates so deeply -you become averse;
•Most of us will end up somewhere in the middle;
•In rare instances, the individual will not be swayed one way or the other 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♂️
Since ALL human-beings are imperfect, we will always have a blemish in some area of our being -of our character! Otherwise, we wouldn’t be imperfect creatures then would we?**
*If you’re tired of hearing “no” or “later”, try asking different questions. Try asking questions of a different…. “YES QUESTIONS”.
*I may have mentioned this previously -many human beings appear to have an affinity for at least one “vice” if you will. Something unhealthy which helps us to cope, take the edge off… Just about every human being invariably falls into this category I believe. Certainly in the high stress world of modern day America.