If a woman loves 2 men, and one of them tries to get her to see and face things she doesn’t want to; and the other 1 doesn’t, which one do you suppose she’s going to pick?

Looking back on my life it’s evident that I never really learned how to navigate through life adequately. At the risk of making excuses, looking at the poor examples and the limited examples growing up around me… My dad wasn’t the best example of leadership and success. My mother not the picture of mental health. My grandmother about as simplistic as they come although not unitelligent by any stretch. Life was a disappointment growing up and that never seemed to change or improve.

The idea of being in a relationship with somebody I’m standing back I’m just letting them do whatever it is they do seems completely foreign to me. It lacks a certain amount of investment or interest. 🤷‍♂️ That does appear to be how some people approach their relationships however. There is their style or simply learned 🤷‍♂️

We’ve been stuck on the man powered bicycle for several 100 years now -what’s the next level for progression?