Probably the hardest thing for most people is to love and unlovable person. Probably the most humbling thing as well.
Mayby life for you and me didn’t turn out the way we planned 😢 I don’t know about you, but I know how important that was for me given all the things I had lost and denied myself. But nonetheless, God gave us a life life and that has to count for something, something significantly more? As it says in the movie the Shaw Shank Redemption, “we all owe a life”, And when the time comes, at least we have that to give 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏻♀️
I would say that a departure from this life while living in this life is the most difficult thing to do. But success in the spiritual realm means trying not reaching a point beyond that which we are incapable of-as is it so often the case in worldly affairs