Things run through my mind which may or may not have any basis in fact. They do however seem to defeat me rather than inspire me to victory. Is it the things themselves, or is it how I am using them or perceiving them?

Some things it’s best not to think about.

Sometimes people make decisions that hurt us, but they make those decisions not really knowing what they’re doing. If they did know what they were doing they chose differently. Try to take some solace in that 🤷‍♂️🤷🏿‍♀️

Oftentimes without realizing it, we take a position which affects other people in such a way as to prompt them to take a position; and even though our position may not change, our feelings perhaps do; operating from the latter, we often want other people’s position to change to comfort us, make us feel safer… When their position doesn’t change we become scared, angry, try to hamper those feelings within us. Such was the case between myself and my friend Lenelle whom I was involved with intimately. 😒