I thought about my relationship with my grandmother and other things growing up with her. There were many things that I got away with that I would never would have with my father. The mother simply cannot contend with a child in many ways required, that a father can. In most cases. This is my personal experience, and viewing the disrespectful attitude of children these days, I believe it is so on a widespread scale. Lack of respect was a major issue in the home with respect to my grandmother.
If God would have created women with 4 legs, a flat butt, and a 3rd eye in the middle of the forehead, chances are we still would find them appealing.
It’s just my personal opinion, batroma and intelligence are not very good combination.