People in relationships don’t often tend toward getting down on you because they are not doing their part, they tend to get down on you because you’re not doing your part. Historically however, I tend to pull back from doing my part when I feel someone else is not doing their part. And that opens up the door for them to get/come down on me. You either suffer with people not doing their part, or you suffer with them coming down on you for not doing your part.* That is unless you’re lucky enough to have some one who’s willing to do their part (and thence, you yours).

If you ask for 2, or 3, you might get one; If you ask for only one, you might not get it.

Don’t judge anybody; leave that to God -HE’S got a better view! And HIS analyzer is a lot more accurate than ours!

* So which is it going to be?